well i think im bi, what do u say?

[polarbear]

i posted this b4 but l8ly something happened sooo hear it is. im a 13 year old boy and i realy need help. i like girls, get hard looking at breasts get a little aroused to nude men and have just started likeing gay porn. even in preschool when i was around 5 years old i remember going to the bathroom with my bf and we would kiss or lick each others dicks just l8ly i gave a friend a bj and i think i liked it but it was quick and when he came (in my mouth) he started freaking out so i didnt have time to realy think if i liked it or not but if i had the chance i would like to give one of my friends a hand job or a bj. b4 i never let myself think i was bi or gay but now i think i could be i mean i gave a friend a BJ!!!!. am i bi or just want to experiment. piz help!!

[guacamole24]

You could be either one. Although there are strong facts evidencing that you could be bisexual, you have to keep in mind that you're only thirteen. Hormones are raging at age 13, and it can cause you to have sexual thoughts of males, not necessarily meaning that you are gay or bisexual. Give it a little more time before you start making decisions like that. :)

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think you are bi

[Bougainvillea]

I've said this plenty of times before.
Only you know what your sexuality is. It's just something you have to figure out on your own.

[polarbear]

i know in the end i will always have to say yes or no myself but i want help getting to that point when im ready to say if im bi, so if you have any thoughts on the matter it will be a big help if you post them here.

[nick]

I agree pretty much with guacamole24, you could be bi but you could just be curious. My advice is not to be in a rush to attach a label to yourself. Puberty can be a bit confusing, give it more time and your thoughts will become more clear.

[YourFriend]

First of all, there is nothing wrong with being gay/bi. You could be just curious or you could be bisexual, in my opinion, it sounds like you are bi, but you're the only one who can decide.

[polarbear]

thanks i just need help keep posting

[thedudeman]

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[orangecounty]

I would say, by what you said, you are bisexual. If you can give a blowjob and like it...there is strong evidence that it is beyond teenage "curiosity" (I usually associate curiosity with masturbation with a same-sex friend). It really is not that complicated, if you like giving sexual favors to men and women, you like both.

[HidekiErikku]

Well the fact that you would go back for more is a slight show of interest. So you could just be straight and have a gay fetish or just be Bi.

[Θάνατος]

It sounds like you could be bi but it could just be a phase you are going through. Believe it or not most guys go through this phase during puberty. Some just don't act on their feelings

It sounds like to me you enjoyed kissing your b/f and you enjoyed giving the b/j when your friend came in your mouth.

I would say don't worry about any labels here for now and just enjoy your life and have fun exploring your sexuality.

[polarbear]

thank you all soooooo much i could never talk about this with anyone else

[nick]

thank you all soooooo much i could never talk about this with anyone else
That's the beauty of vt. Remember a lot of us have the same confusions that you do, or have had in the past.

[The Harlequin]

I can completely understand why you want to KNOW who you are, here and now so that you can get to the gritty part of dealing with it (if of course you are bisexual) but... Dude, there is absolutely NO hurry for you to give yourself a label just yet.

As many have mentioned before, being 13 is not nice, because of hormones raging etc. But then that should be all the more reason to take your time,

You have to really look at what happened in the past and how you are now. To truly know you have to appraise yourself fairly, and that takes time... But at least then, when you've finished analysing yourself ~ taking all your past sexual/relationship experiences into account ~ you know... and you can move on ~ to DEALING with it rather than rushing in before you're sure.

All I know is that this is what I did, and I am SO glad I have. Because when you tell someone something like this, it's perminent ~ going back on your word will not convince them otherwise.

[meaghanlovesu]

i think your bi

[kyle95]

mate, ur experimenting, albeit a little aggressively. nonetheless i think u like males, and so what? the main thing is that u accept who u r and apologise 2 no1. ur a human being and have certain feelings. forget the labels mate and b happy w urself

[MichaelAdams1993]

From what I can tell it sounds like you may be bi. Remember though. In order to be "into" a certain gender you have to have a physical AND emotional attraction. So just because you enjoyed it physically doesn't make you gay or bi.

[mustang]

when i was ur age i had felings for both boys and girls but i turned gay but that dont men you will weight a little longer befor you start making descisions ike that you are probily going through the stage were ur hormones are raging and just want to experiment with guys and you will probily start experementing with girls soon.

[polarbear]

iv already experimented with a girl i like that more

[charlie w]

hey, your 13 anything could happen, but it sounds like your bi.

[The Harlequin]

iv already experimented with a girl i like that more

There you go, no need to panic...
Wait a while, see what happens, and just don't lie to yourself like I ended up doing forever, all that does is hurt more when you realise the truth, (:^.

[JackOfClubs]

You might be bi, but I'd say more curious. Its just experimenting. Most people are curious for a good few years.

[Bluearmy]

I think you are engaging in aggressive sexual activity at a very young age. Put the brakes on it man...

[Silent]

To be gay you have to have a desire to have a bonding physical relationship with another male.
No sexual activity determines some one's orientation.
So I you very well could be bi but that is all decided by YOU and no one else.

[Oscarisme]

Hmmm,, yooh may be bi depending on if your emotionally attracted to guys,, if yooh are then yes your probably bi. But if your not your most likely straight.

[polarbear]

thanx alot 2 all of you iv been feeling alot better about myself l8ly cuz this post (and the weed jk)