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brownsugga.xx
July 10th, 2009, 01:14 AM
Welllllll, I'm 15 and pregnant, believe it or not but I am, you're probably thinking SLUUTTTTT , but it was my first time having sex and it just happened, I mean we didn't plan or prepare or anything, making out turned into sex. Even though my boyfriend is cool with it and supports me and stayed with me and we didn't break up because he is a foster child and his parents are cool with it, and even though my mom supports me because she had me at 17. I still feel scared like how will I be able to face my friends, I haven't been in front of them for 1 week now and my belly just started growing, and they don't know. I'm also REALLLLY scared about the pain, I doubt any of you have been in this situation, but does anyone know how to calm down pregnancy pain?
Advice on how to face/ tell my friends and how to calm down pregnancy pain pleasse ?
thannkyoou : )

mr.sexy_bomb
July 10th, 2009, 01:20 AM
ok well i think that your friends will support you, because they are your friends and dont worry your doctor will give you some pills to take to take care or the pain :), also good luck, a child is an awesome gift :)

tyler27846
July 10th, 2009, 01:54 AM
my friend who is 17 is going throught the same thing just remember your true friends will stick by you and good luck with the baby

Antares
July 10th, 2009, 02:12 AM
Umm, well the pain is just going to happen. It won't last too long but it isn't something you can avoid. Its gonna come. Its gonna hurt like hell.

I suggest getting an Epidural. They work well for a while :P
Other than that, there is nothing you can do about pain. The nurses will drug you up but you will still feel it.

As for telling your friends thing...just tell them "Im pregnant by Nathan".
They probably won't believe you but tell them that you are serious. There isn't really much you can do to them other than just tell them. Also, make sure you tell them before its visible, that way the rumors will stay down making your life better :P

Good luck and next time, use protection ;)

cartpusher
July 10th, 2009, 03:20 AM
if your friends dont support you and just leave you, they are truly not your friends. true friends would stick by your side all the way. and yes, it will hurt, but without some of the medicine they have now, it would hurt even more, once its over with, it will be worth it, itll feel good to bring another life into this world, well, good luck, and ill do the best i can to support you through all of this.

byee
July 10th, 2009, 07:14 AM
There will be a lot of changes to your body over the next 9 months, so you should be prepared for that. Your mom went thru this (obviously), she's in a good position to inform you and help along the way about what you should expect, and be doing. It's good you have lots of support, this is a big event with huge changes.

From a medical standpoint, make sure you get medical attention and supervision ASAP, you want to be healthy, and you surely want your baby to be, too. The doctor is the best person to advise you on pre natal ( before birth) care, and he's also the best one to explain and discuss all the options available to you for pain management, etc. Be sure to eat correctly, do not use any alcohol or drugs at all, it's a cliche, but what you do now to yourself really does affect both of you.

Good luck!

Viral Death
July 10th, 2009, 09:05 AM
Good luck we would like to hear if it is a boy or a girl! I am behind you all the way if he is there for you, then you are not a slut. Congrats!

brownsugga.xx
July 10th, 2009, 12:54 PM
Thank you SOOOOOO much everyone, you've made this alot easier for me, I really appreciate this (: (L)

kyle95
July 10th, 2009, 06:50 PM
ur not a slut! and ur not the first person this happened 2. try meditating-yoga, it's good 4 u and baby :). focus on urself and the baby, regardless if he sticks with u or not. above all be strong. mum now has arthritic pain and she says the birth pangs are nothing compared 2 what she now faces. ur a strong girl, hang in there. as 4 ur parents, uve made ur decision, they can only help or turn their back on u. regardless, there are people out there who aren't heartless and who are ready to help. start looking into that. the distraction alone will keep ur mind of any pain, if any. good luck!

Rutherford The Brave
July 10th, 2009, 07:05 PM
I've had a daughter, and well the expierence is great! Yet the pains are pretty bad, but we both went to like stated above yoga classes. You could go to a spa and get a massage anything like that. I knew Noor loved it when I would rub her feet. Your feet are something to worry about so wear comfy shoes.

SlightlySane
July 10th, 2009, 07:16 PM
hang in there the best you can. You are young so it will be hard but you can do it. Just remember true friends will always be there no matter what.

One more thing don't ever think that if things go wrong with you and ur bf it's best to stay with him for the baby... That's not true, do what you think is best.

Let us know how things go along the way :D

alexpop
July 12th, 2009, 02:22 AM
your not a slut there was this girl in my school she was prego wen she only 12 years and her mom relly supported her