Bf's Ex GF ! : (

[brownsugga.xx]

My boyfriend, Nathan and I have been together for 2 months and 2 weeks now and I REALLY love him and he REALLY loves me, but his ex still likes him and she's ALWAYS trying to get close to him but he hates her, because she cheated on him, and I just recently found out that I'm 15 and pregnant and Nathan isn't like other boys and he's not running away from our relationship now and he's said that to me, (I've known him since we were 4, he was my best guy friend) . So now that my stomach is starting to grow bigger, his ex noticed and now she's trying to talk him into breaking up with me but he isn't but I still feel scared because she keeps saying to break up with me , even though Nathan won't break up with me, she is still scaring me. What should I do ?

BTW ; My mom had me at 17, so she completely supports me as her mother supported her to have me (:

[Antares]

I don't know if you watch the show 16 and Pregnant but if you can see, the mother thinks that guys amazing and the guy is gonna be in their life, etc. and then at the end of the episode he walks away.

I just want to tell you to have a back up plan. Nathan isn't 100% going to stay with you. He may say he will but being a parent is hard and scary and you both probably won't realize that until the baby is born (if youre keeping it).

Now to the relationship, wow. Well I want to avoid telling you to tell the bitch off but that seems to get things done sometimes :P But if you haven't done that by now you probably aren't that type of person. I think you should have Nathan himself talk to her. Tell him what she's been saying and see if he has the balls to stand up for you and you guys' baby. This girl will probably end up causing trouble down the road so you probably should try to squash this now.

If he doesn't have the balls to stand up against her, then you should rethink him. But if it doesn't work then you should maybe call her parents and tell her that shes been stalking you and tanting you or tell your mom to call her mom.
If all else fails, get a restraining order.

I hope this helps, good luck :D

[brownsugga.xx]

Thank you SOOO much Mars, that was a great help (: ♥

[kyle95]

first of all, congrats!

u have done all that u can do. all that remains is 4 u 2 talk 2 him and tell him how u feel about him still conversing with her. it's really up 2 him 2 put a stop 2 this. ur going 2 have his baby, he must learn 2 stand up 4 u and 2 defend u and his baby. one word of advice, don't let urself go, stay in shape. i've seen many girls have babies and still look fabulous. if you let urself go, he may look elsewhere. stay in shape and be strong.