is it wrong

[teen14]

is it wrong that i masturbate over friends and their dads and my dad all my friends are boys .

[Donkey]

Ahhh....

Debatable really. I mean, you'd feel uncomfortable if you knew your friends masturbated over you and your dad, right? Well I'm sure they'd feel the same way if they knew.

Make sure no one finds out and it's fine really. What they don't know won't hurt them in this case, but I do consider it morally wrong and so will many others so don't tell anyone unless you want to be teased.

People have different fetishes and I guess you're into older men, so that's just you. Make sure you control it though. Sexual attractions over friends can be dangerous, if it begins to harm your relationship with your friends then I suggest you stop and find something else to masturbate to.

[nick]

I wouldnt say that there's anything wrong having fantasies about your friends from school. I'm sure most of the straight guys do that over girls that they know from school so what's the difference if you do it over boys. I'm bi and of course I fantisise about boys that I know somethimes.

Wanking over thoughts of your own Dad is a bit wierd in my opinion, that gives me the creeps a bit to be honest. If you fancy other older men thats up to you and, while it remains in your head anyway, is nobody else's business really.

[bowlheadhere]

It is not weird at all! We are all just curious about others and how they develope. We can not help but express our unconcious human curiosity about others who are going through the same things we are. We like to compare ourselves to others for we feel that it is the only way that we seem to be able to see how we are doing on the puberty scale. Addressing why you look to other older males, it is because they have gone through a lot of changes and are done with puberty, so you look up to them to see how you will be when you are finished with puberty. Eithere way, every guy (no matter if they admit it or nit) have "fantasized" or imagined their friends nude. In a national study, an outstanding amount of males chose that they would rather masterbate over a picture of a males genetalia instead of female genetalia. In conclusion, you are normal, and all you "mates" as you call them (I am guessing ur from the UK) have gone through the same/similar things.

[itsandrew_]

personaly, i think its wierd that you fantasize about your dad.

[CestDan]

personaly, i think its wierd that you fantasize about your dad.

Same, I wouldn't like to do it, I think it can be a little confusing and weird, at leats, for me.

[Bobby]

It's not something I find sexually arousing, but you can think about whatever you want.

[kyle95]

of course it wrong mate, very wrong. it's inappropriate behaviour

[Skeln]

I don't really find it wrong because it's mostly hormones so you can't very much control it. As long as you can seperate fantasy from reality then you're fine and normal.

[YourFriend]

Yeah, it's just raging hormones, don't worry, it will go over time, or it's a fetish.

[lamboman43]

of course it wrong mate, very wrong. it's inappropriate behaviour

It's not inappropriate to fantasize.

[bowlheadhere]

of course it wrong mate, very wrong. it's inappropriate behaviour

Dude, your homophobia is taking over all of your opinions... This is not inappropriate behaviour!

[kyle95]

It's not inappropriate to fantasize.

he didn't say fantasise, he said "is it wrong that i masturbate over friends and their dads and my dad all my friends are boys ".

if i understood him correctly, he talking about j/o on friends and dads, grown men.... and u think that appropriate behaviour? tell u what mate, give it a try next time ur folks throw a party, just lower ur boxers and let them have it :)

[kyle95]

Dude, your homophobia is taking over all of your opinions... This is not inappropriate behaviour!


mate, i have no problem with u being gay or promoting that lifestyle, it's just that the visual is humorous! u think it's normal j/o on friends and their dads, whilst ur dad is sitting there and watching? :lol:

[MykeSoBe]

I can understand if your friends' dads are like the ones you see in magazines, the celebrity magazines, though I personally never make it a habit to masturbate over older men. But masturbating over your mates, yeah, it's all normal, it's just comparing. But your friends may find it real awkward that you whack over their fathers, so keep your fetishes to yourself for the sake of it.

[bowlheadhere]

mate, i have no problem with u being gay or promoting that lifestyle, it's just that the visual is humorous! u think it's normal j/o on friends and their dads, whilst ur dad is sitting there and watching? :lol:

First of all, I am straight.
Secondly, that isn't what he said! He meant over the thought, no one said anything about j/o on their friends/dads.

[Neverender]

I dont like it myself, but you can do/think what you want.

Kids will tear you apart, however, if you let this leak out.

[kyle95]

First of all, I am straight.
Secondly, that isn't what he said! He meant over the thought, no one said anything about j/o on their friends/dads.

actually mate, he did, his exact words:

"is it wrong that i masturbate over friends and their dads and my dad all my friends are boys ."

i masturbate is present tense, it denotes three things: he does masturbate, he is masturbating, he masturbates over friends. there's no need to parse this further. i don't want to be warned of spamming again for speaking my mind, so i shall stick to the topic at hand and give him my honest opinion:

it's inappropriate thinking and behaviour if he's currently engaging in it

[YourFriend]

actually mate, he did, his exact words:

"is it wrong that i masturbate over friends and their dads and my dad all my friends are boys ."

i masturbate is present tense, it denotes three things: he does masturbate, he is masturbating, he masturbates over friends. there's no need to parse this further. i don't want to be warned of spamming again for speaking my mind, so i shall stick to the topic at hand and give him my honest opinion:

it's inappropriate thinking and behaviour if he's currently engaging in it

omg! what ever words he used, he doesn't lieteraly masturbate over them, he thinks of them while doing it, now stop arguing.

[kyle95]

omg! what ever words he used, he doesn't lieteraly masturbate over them, he thinks of them while doing it, now stop arguing.

fair enuf. i just find his thoughts disturbing

[PuppetPrince]

Your human xD but what ever floats ur boat... except the dad part ... o_e

[marktheman]

You can masturbate over ANYTHING!. It's only fantasy. Nobody knows it except you. It's not like you're going to masturbate over them and then run out and have sex with them.

[Giles]

*normal button* yes its normal. in my opinion its fine.

[FalconSmash]

fair enuf. i just find his thoughts disturbing

We already got your opinion.

Fantasizing is just that. It's nit real, so when you fantasize, you have every right to think about whatever you want. Don't let others tell you what you think is wrong or right.

You're not doing anything with them physically, it's just you and your thoughts. It's not innapropriate. You're fine.

[johnzzy]

well if you not gay or bi it is sorta werd

[malibueedudde]

personally i think its wrong

[MichaelAdams1993]

It's totally normal to fantasize about whatever you want as long as you don't act on anything inappropriate. I personally have done the same thing about my friends, never thought about their dads thought. I do believe it is a little wierd that you would do that about your own dad though but that is the only part I see wrong here.

[Noah_101]

i think about my best friend