GUYS~~~ What do u do?

[jared1308]

most-if not, all- my friends are girls, it seems normal to me but guys at school make fun of me, because they think im gay... im not all that into sports or cars or anything and i want to try to make some guy friends so people will realize that im normal... so what im wanting to know is what do guys do???

[malibueedudde]

sports, cars, girls, pranks, jokes, fights, breaking rules,

[IAMWILL]

Your friends call you gay because they're jealous, and to them, gay means stupid. I don't agree with the above advice whatsoever, but it's getting at something. You have to be active! Get out and join a club, or sports team, anything highly social really. You need a man-friend! Girls get annoying (no offense, guys do to) after a while, so you need someone of the same gender who you trust and can just hang out with. It's comforting to your mind too. Hey, you'll probably discover something about yourself on the journey too.

[Blue63]

Gay is just the term for "uncool" so it may not be homosexual, but it may be. Regardless, guys do a lot of things. Not just sports or cars, just activities. Try and pick up a hobby, and find someone else with the same interest. Now at any school your going to find a lot of cliques, or social groups. Some may be the sports guys, the cheerleaders, geeks, whatever. Now you're going to find that it's not that simple. But you may need to find a group of guy friends to join into. Just to spend some time with every once in a while to get a break from your girl friends. You may end up becoming great friends with them.

[Patchy]

Moved to family and friends.

[Antares]

Being basically an asshole and immature seems to be a good stereotype for guys.

Watch ESPN and follow sports, girls, play a sport, girls, be a douche, girls...etc.
The list goes on and on.

I think that while you are adding some interesting guy things into your life you should try to express yourself a little bit too.

[Patchy]

I wouldn't try becoming something than isn't you, keep some of your personality because people may think your being "fake" if you change your interests and personality.

Take an interest in some guy stuff like sport possibly join the football team or something that a lot of guys do at your school.

But don't change yourself completely it will just seem all fake to you.

[Rainstorm]

I have the same problem, thought I do have a couple guys friends. I'd say to listen to the people before I posted, saying they covered a lot. Join a club or sports team, watch ESPN if you like that stuff. You don't need to change your life entirely, but his may help get a few guy friends.

[peaceloverugby]

If you play rugby, you'll get plenty of guy friends, and people won't call you gay. (hehe, not entirely true, but it worked for me!)

[kyle95]

i have a gf and we're always doing things 2gether and often it means being with her gfs. i play rugby and sports and hang out with my mates, but i never neglect my gf, they know she comes 1st in my life. just balance mate. the name calling means nothing. calling some1 'gay' is stupid. u can still do things with the blokes, just no extremes.