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youngboy
July 8th, 2009, 07:42 PM
after i masturbate i always feel so bad like i did something wrong. Ive read countless articles about how masturbating is good but it still doesnt help. It got so bad that i just cry for an hour straight. I've tried to stop i went a week but something came on tv that got me so horny and i masturbated.I was so mad and now i dont know wat to do. Thank you any help is appreciated. ::(
Rainstorm
July 8th, 2009, 07:44 PM
A lot of men actually feel this. Your feeling a little guilty because your doing it. The articles you read are probably about the pleasure it gives you. Some people don't masturbate because of the guilt. I guess that's all I can tell you
malibueedudde
July 8th, 2009, 07:46 PM
you sholdnt worry about it, if you feel bad dont do it, if yo dont, jackofff,
nick
July 8th, 2009, 07:51 PM
youngboy I'm guessing that your age matches your username.
I guess a lot of guys feel guilty when they start to masturbate. Its natural to wonder what your parents would think if they knew about it, and natural to feel that its a bit dirty. But most parents, unless they're religious fanatics or something, will expect you to masturbate as a normal part of growing up. They might not want to know about it, or to talk about it, but that doesn't mean they would be bothered about it because its just what everyone does.
There really is no need to feel bad about it. You get to a certain point in puberty where you become very horny and start to produce a lot of sperm. It needs out. Thats all there is to it really. Its just like taking a leak. Pressure builds up, you have to let it out. Its every bit as normal and as natural as that.
ThUnDeR
July 8th, 2009, 08:10 PM
wow that sucks idk why you would feel bad r u highly religous or somthing??? cause like in those articles masterbating is NOT bad
YourFriend
July 8th, 2009, 08:17 PM
yea a lot of guys feel guilty, but there's nothing wrong with doing it, and you shouldn't cry over it
orangecounty
July 8th, 2009, 08:37 PM
Yes, I use to. Then I got over it. I was about 13 at the time.
bowlheadhere
July 8th, 2009, 08:42 PM
This is natural. A lot of guys feel that way because of todays society. Modern day society, past society, and most religions tell us that it is wrong to masterbate. Take for example that during school, people are scared to talk about masterbation and that it is bad (girls reactions) and that it is a "sin" according to the bible. Therefore this will subconciously make us feel guilty. If my suspicions are correct, you are probably one who is really sensative about when other people talk about masterbation at school (I am sorry if this offends you! sorrrrryyy!) and that people at your school/community make fun of those who tlak about such events, and that is the reason why you feel this way.
Hope this helps.
CestDan
July 8th, 2009, 08:52 PM
don't feel that, I mean, It's completely natural. It's ok to do it.
MykeSoBe
July 8th, 2009, 09:14 PM
I would guess you felt guilty after reading religious articles on the subject. Though I am religious, masturbation is something I never really feel guilty about. And I'm also guessing that masturbation is not discussed among you and your friends, and viewed as taboo at your school. But I honestly don't know why you should feel guilty over it. Maybe you're reading the wrong articles. You should visit www.boysunderattack.com (http://www.boysunderattack.com). That's where I went before I found VirtualTeen, and I found out for myself the truth.
ezduzit323
July 8th, 2009, 11:45 PM
i heard that it's a biological reaction. i felt guilty a lot about it early on, but the more i did it, the less guilty i felt. now i just enjoy it.
James18
July 9th, 2009, 01:28 AM
Yeah I can definitely say you aren't alone. I used to feel incredibly guilty after doing it, but that guilt gradually ebbs away until it's completely gone.
Neverender
July 9th, 2009, 01:43 AM
This is an annoying feeling of guilt. Straight from the knowledge taught by parents: "I cant do this in front of mom, so it must be bad"
I.E. Throwing acid at the cat, or jumping around on mouse traps.
Donkey
July 9th, 2009, 01:46 AM
youngboy I'm guessing that your age matches your username.
I guess a lot of guys feel guilty when they start to masturbate. Its natural to wonder what your parents would think if they knew about it, and natural to feel that its a bit dirty. But most parents, unless they're religious fanatics or something, will expect you to masturbate as a normal part of growing up. They might not want to know about it, or to talk about it, but that doesn't mean they would be bothered about it because its just what everyone does.
There really is no need to feel bad about it. You get to a certain point in puberty where you become very horny and start to produce a lot of sperm. It needs out. Thats all there is to it really. Its just like taking a leak. Pressure builds up, you have to let it out. Its every bit as normal and as natural as that.
+rep. Nick said it perfectly. How old are you and when did you start masturbating, out of interest?
marktheman
July 9th, 2009, 11:57 AM
It sounds like you somehow feel guilty about it. I love it and I'm happy when I do it and love the great feeling I get from it.
Unfortunately I don't know what to suggest.
aquaman246
July 9th, 2009, 12:02 PM
I used to feel like that, i used to feel really guilty. I found out that it is because everyone around u calls u names and stuff, and most of the insults relate bak to masturbating, or being behind in puberty. I learnt just to block the names out and i felt fine ater it.
itsandrew_
July 9th, 2009, 01:59 PM
you have nothing to worry about. its normal to mastrubate everyone does it. it's nothing to get upset about.
JackOfClubs
July 9th, 2009, 02:32 PM
Its completely normal to masturbate. Nothing to get upset about. Your probably just feeling guilty about it, I do from time to time also.
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