View Full Version : too much masterbation( is it ever a bad thing to do it alot)?
ackmedsgirl666
July 8th, 2009, 06:30 PM
ok
so i recently was having a very GOOD moment( was at my boyfriends house and was extremly horny)
so that night i went to bed thinking about him and i started rubbing myself
it started to hurt but then that feeling went away
after about 15 mins i finally climaxed and felt good
after that night i started doing it quite more
i wake up and do it when my roomate is still asleep
then i do it in the shower
then whenever im alone(when i got to the washroom)
then when i got to bed i do it atleast 4 times before i go to sleep
i just think about the lil things like my ex (the one before brandon)
all i want to know is is it normal to do it this much?
BeautifulSilence
July 8th, 2009, 06:44 PM
Well, if you manage to make sure that it doesn't interfere with you're life then it's perfectly fine. However, you may get used to the sensation of the technique that you're using, meaning that it'll take longer for you to bring yourself to orgasm later.
I'm not sure what happens with girls, but when guys masturbate to excess during puberty, they can become sexually exhausted which could lead to impotence. So, try skipping one of your sessions every-so-often. And in time you'll naturally desire it less anyway (due to being less hormonally charged).
ackmedsgirl666
July 8th, 2009, 06:51 PM
kk
well the thing with this
could this be considered and sexual practices
so i can experience with myself and learn some stuff about how i would be when i actually had sex
i have had sex but didn;t really understand it
masterbation also calms me down in a way
i got to my hapoy place
just one question
is an orgasm when u get this feeeling like you have to pee and then u start to feel really wet and loose down there
just wundering?
Kaleidoscope Eyes
July 8th, 2009, 07:19 PM
Sure, masturbation can increase sexual awareness. Guys don't automatically know what to do when they're with a girl, so if you know yourself you're better able to give him some pointers. I'm not saying to boss the guy around, but most would rather hear a tip than find out much later than none of it actually worked for you. xP It's not the same as sex, though, and how you are with yourself isn't necessarily the same as how you'll feel with a partner.
A lot of girls describe feeling something similar to having to pee before they have an orgasm. I'm not entirely sure why this is, but it's normal. As far as "was it an orgasm?" goes... hard to say, because I'm not you. Typically though, if it resulted in some sort of release of tension, it probably was. It's possible to have some orgasms feel different than others, depending on technique and how you yourself are feeling about it all, so if this was different than usual it doesn't rule it out.
ackmedsgirl666
July 8th, 2009, 07:23 PM
no they always feel the same
i feel like i have to pee and then i get really wet
but the thing is that after i i guess orgasm i canlt do it anymore
i have 2 wait like 10-15 mins before i can go on again
and then the same thing over again
AMERICANelite123
July 11th, 2009, 02:26 AM
well i may not be an expert but not all girls can go and go and go! even tho it still feels good after you orgasm. some girls can have one, go for about a minute right after and have another! i have done that once before 4 times in a row, sometimes it takes practice. an as long as you dont do it all the time and it interfears with life then its not bad. but the more often you do it its harder to orgasm maybe skip a few days and it will come stronger and faster and even better and may last longer
The Pretender
July 11th, 2009, 09:07 PM
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Ellie wood crainey
January 17th, 2012, 03:22 PM
It's fine to do it a lot I do it when I have a spare moment but make sure it doesn't effect your social life but what ever floats your boat just have fun masterbating it's really good isn't it ;)
CJM123
January 17th, 2012, 03:25 PM
its perfectly natural!
jenna111
January 17th, 2012, 04:28 PM
it's just a part of growing up! everyone does it only when u ask them they might feel akward and say no
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