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mosaic.
July 7th, 2009, 11:44 PM
How do you guys feel about group sex? Is it accurate to say that guys are more accepting/enthusiastic of group sex than girls? (Threesomes, orgies)

As you progressed through puberty, did your views on group sex change?

I personally love threesomes. When I was younger, I told myself that I'd never have more than one partner simultaneously.

bowlheadhere
July 8th, 2009, 12:10 AM
Personally, I don't endorse it. Maybe I am just a crazy, but I think that sex should be something between two people who love eachother, and that sex is a symbol of your love. If two do not love and respect eachother, it is basically like meaningless sex (kinda like sex in porn). Sex is a symbol of love, trust, and respect between yourself and "the one", therefore, I don't approve of a three some. But as I said, that could just be because I am a crazy or something...???

kyle95
July 8th, 2009, 12:21 AM
2 each his own mate - as long as u and ur partner(s) r ok with it. personally i wouldn't bcse i have a gf and we both can't imagine any1 getting between us, especially sexually. others may b more open, accepting and quite secure in their relationships.

orangecounty
July 8th, 2009, 12:25 AM
I personally would never do it. I want the person I am with to be focused on me and me alone during that time.

Cromm
July 8th, 2009, 01:24 AM
I think that guys like the -idea- of it more, but when it comes to actually doing it, I think we're about 50/50.

mrcoffeshop
July 8th, 2009, 01:25 AM
idk ur horny ur hapy and ur hard with friends..well what do u do?> not group sex but maybe jerk off together but sure if ur all supper horny fuck it and fuck? idk it seems kinda weird but idk if u do it good 4 u! and i dont think i can really have a true option unlit ill i come into a situtaion like that!

James18
July 8th, 2009, 01:32 AM
I'm not much into that sort of thing. Some people are, and if they get real enjoyment out of it, good for them. It's just not for me.

MoveAlong
July 8th, 2009, 01:47 AM
When I was beginning puberty, the thought of having multiple partners seemed weird. Then I heard about twins. Haha.

Now I like the idea a bit more. It seems like something I would want to try at least once. Also, it's a cool fantasy.

But non-consensual? Of course not. Also, I would be careful with who, because of STD's and relationship issues.

LiGHT
July 8th, 2009, 01:51 AM
I don't see a problem with it but I wouldn't do it. I think it would get to crazy.

MykeSoBe
July 8th, 2009, 03:14 AM
I would never have an orgie, threesome, etc. That's just degrading. And not because of the Catholic view on it either. I think sex is something that should be cherished. I'm not saying that you need to starve yourself of sex but only two compassionate soulmates who really love each other should have sex, no matter if you're just boyfriend ~ girlfriend or married.

YourFriend
July 8th, 2009, 08:54 AM
i think sex should be done only if the persons love each other, i donno how 3+ ppl can love each other so i aint rly into group sex

mosaic.
July 8th, 2009, 09:03 AM
All very respectful opinions. Surprisingly, it seems like most guys are against group sex.

guacamole24
July 8th, 2009, 09:22 AM
I would do it 100%. I think two people having sex rocks, but the more the better lol. Just as long as it doesn't get to like, 8 people.... damn! lol

mosaic.
July 8th, 2009, 09:42 AM
Hey, I'm not alone... I feel less gross now... =]

newfiee 13
July 8th, 2009, 09:59 AM
i would do a threesome as long as it was 2 girls and me i like the idea of group sex its just more fun and interesting

Giles
July 8th, 2009, 10:06 AM
i'd do it it given the chance but i not particularly botheres whether they love each other or not tbh.

Rutherford The Brave
July 8th, 2009, 10:46 AM
No to me sex is something personal between two people and not to share.

malibueedudde
July 8th, 2009, 11:28 AM
most likely i would do it, it just depends on who its with

ThUnDeR
July 8th, 2009, 12:19 PM
i would love to do a three sum only if ther are two girls tho

nick
July 8th, 2009, 01:00 PM
I think sex is a private thing and would be embarassed to have other people present

CestDan
July 8th, 2009, 02:40 PM
I don't think It is weird or dangerous, though that, I would never do it.

bluestarkidd
July 8th, 2009, 02:48 PM
If you were at a party (most likely where this sort of thing would take place) and certain inhibition lowering substances were a part of that night, everyone would have a different opinion.

Bougainvillea
July 8th, 2009, 03:30 PM
I wouldn't. I'd like it to be just me and my partner. It depends on how sexually open people are.

sebbie
July 8th, 2009, 04:07 PM
It all depends on factors like: personal preference, comfotability with sexuality, confidence, religious reasons etc.

If you are happy to do it with a multiple people and get pleasure out of it then that is your choice.Personally though I see nothing wrong with 1 guy 2 girls :p .

Ardiys
July 8th, 2009, 04:08 PM
I don't believe sex should only be shared between 2 people who love eachother, but that's my personal opinion. I can see where people are coming from by saying that, and maybe I'm biased because I'm gay, but hell yes I'd have a threesome. ;)

mosaic.
July 8th, 2009, 04:48 PM
Some people are insecure about having more than one partner?

The Joker
July 8th, 2009, 05:07 PM
The horny side of me likes it, but the morality of it is wrong.

punkjake
July 8th, 2009, 08:26 PM
its kinda dumb.Well i would try it(2 girls 1 guy(me :)(lol i keep puting "("in each other) ) )then yeah ,but my other half ,the church buy in me wouldn't like it.But my point of views on sex started(10)Eww gross i would never do that,rite now(13)oh yeah i want some sex XD.I think its ok for a couple who actually likes each other an d have been going out for at least a month would be OK but not no one nite stand BS

Kinetic
July 9th, 2009, 03:24 AM
When I was beginning puberty, the thought of having multiple partners seemed weird. Then I heard about twins. Haha.

Now I like the idea a bit more. It seems like something I would want to try at least once. Also, it's a cool fantasy.

i couldnt agree more

HelloWorld123456
July 9th, 2009, 08:25 AM
Personally, I don't endorse it. Maybe I am just a crazy, but I think that sex should be something between two people who love eachother, and that sex is a symbol of your love. If two do not love and respect eachother, it is basically like meaningless sex (kinda like sex in porn). Sex is a symbol of love, trust, and respect between yourself and "the one", therefore, I don't approve of a three some. But as I said, that could just be because I am a crazy or something...???


well then if you are crazy then i am crazy too ... i agree with u completly

marty
July 9th, 2009, 10:44 AM
From an evolutionary standpoint, it is perfectly understandable for men to want as many partners as possible, and for women to only have one. The more women men have sex with, the more children they will get. Women can only have one child at a time, and so they want to be sure that they pick the best possible partner, and group sex is not the way to do that.

so it makes perfect sense tat men are more open than women.

aquaman246
July 9th, 2009, 11:25 AM
Never had a group sex experience before. I've masturbated with friends before and i loved that, so im not too uncomfortable with the idea

itsandrew_
July 9th, 2009, 05:41 PM
to me group sex seems wrongish. it would be fun though but if im the only dude xD.

Definition
July 9th, 2009, 10:26 PM
i would def. have a 3sum i think its all of personal prefrence and if you and your partner are okay with itt.

Rainstorm
July 9th, 2009, 11:23 PM
I personally think Sex should be an intimate time between themselves and their partner. No one else