little brother

[benji]

i have a lil bro who likes sleepin in my room well i sleep naked and one night he hopped in bed wit out me jknowin and he touched my 7'' penis and it got hard now he is askin me why it got hard and what those things in thetrash can is (there used cumed in condoms) what do i tell him
thanks
benji

[orangecounty]

How old is he?

[Sceneboy612]

Well for the future, i would not sleep naked with a brother in the room, and do you want him to know what comdoms are yet...? And i would ask him why he touched your penis.

[benji]

4 i am 15

[Sceneboy612]

I would tell him that the condoms were a candy wrapper or something food like, and as for the boner, maby say that you already had one before he touched it

[benjabubble]

I doubt he will understand, and even so, he shouldn't have to hear about that kind of stuff for quite some time now, as they say, Ignorance is Bliss (I know for me, the world was a lot less confusing when i thought that sex was a type of cactus). I suggest that you tell him something along the lines of "you'll find out soon enough" and also you might want to stop sleeping naked when he's in the room.

[orangecounty]

Ya, just tell him the condoms are balloons and tell him it was hard because you were cold (I don't know, just don't tell him the truth because 1. he isn't old enough for the truth and 2. he will probably repeat everything to your parents/friends). You probably do not need to say anything, however...he probably won't bring it up again. The memory of a 4 year old is pretty limited.

[bowlheadhere]

If it were me, I would just refer him to jackinworld.com when you notice that he is going through puberty. Then if he has any more questins he can ask you, but that is WHEN he goes through puberty. I think it would be to early to tell a really young sibling.

Thats what i would do, and hope this helps?

[kyle95]

he's only 4, so don't make a big deal out of it. like some1 told u, don't sleep naked again when he has access 2 ur room. i wouldn't discuss condoms, used or otherwise. it's not fair to the little lad mate.

[Cromm]

You say you wear nothing to bed, and here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?p=567841#post567841) you say that's because you sleep with your girlfriend AND boyfriend.

So, you're 15, and you sleep in (presumably) your parents house, naked, with your girl/boyfriends in the same bed, with an unlocked door and a four year old brother that likes to wonder in.


I'd say you're problems aren't just about what to tell him.

I'd say that, of course, if I didn't already call shinanigans on this one.

:yawn:

[LiGHT]

If he is 4 I don't know how he understand it yet but If you feel you need too just tell him. But I don't think hes mature enough to handle it yet.

[MykeSoBe]

Wow I really don't know what to say on this one. It wouldn't be much useful in asking him why he touched it; kids at that age are full of curiousity, what do you expect? But I don't recommend for you to even bring this up again or ask about unless he asks you about the event again. And as for your penis, don't even bother with saying that it was "hard"; just say that that's how big your penis is, unless you want to go into more unnecessary detail. As for the used condoms in the trash I would say that those are Twinkie wrappers that have stale cream left ... that's all I can think about.

[James18]

Oh wow, I'm glad I don't have siblings that young. In one word: lie. Lie about pretty much everything. I can't really think of any right now, but just give him some answer that'll satisfy him (if he asks again).

[toyota098]

i don' think he will understand if you tell him now. just tell him it is some random item, like a bad or something. and about your penis, say that its just that you are happy.

[Neverender]

And i would ask him why he touched your penis.

Probably by accident. And the fact that hes 4 means that the penis has little meaning to him.

[malibueedudde]

just tell him it was like a bag o somthing.

[mosaic.]

How awkward. I'd tell him the truth with vague/minimalist language.

[ThUnDeR]

ya i would def initly becareful what you tell him if he is four just say its somthing he has seen before like a word he says a lot XD and myabe next time dont sleep naked XD lol

[MisterAndrews]

Tell him the condom was a balloon and dont put another one in there. DO NOT say it was food he might put it in his mouth...

Tell him that it's always that hard, not to touch it again because it's rude and then very calmly change the subject.

[CestDan]

Well, first of all, I don't suggest you to sleep with your brother again, he needs to understand that there is something called privacy and every one need it, so, make him know it very clear.

[marktheman]

Be glad he's not 12 like my bro. It gets worse.

[aquaman246]

Im fairly sure he has no idea wat happened. Just say that it happens when u grow up. As for the condoms just say that they are wrappers off something u bought.

[FalconSmash]

If it were me, I would just refer him to jackinworld.com when you notice that he is going through puberty. Then if he has any more questins he can ask you, but that is WHEN he goes through puberty. I think it would be to early to tell a really young sibling.

Thats what i would do, and hope this helps?

Dude... He's 4...

And what does your penis length have to do with this?

All of this adds up to a fishy story.

[Kale]

I don't even know where to begin.

i have a lil bro who likes sleepin in my room well i sleep naked and one night he hopped in bed wit out me jknowin

That's very odd, a small child hopping in a bed with nobody noticing a thing. Sound or movement vibrations aren't logical, but all right, let's go with what you say.

and he touched my 7'' penis

Guys, let's not forget he has a SEVEN INCH penis. That will help us in our investigation so much.

and it got hard

You sick fuck.

No, I'm just playing.

now he is askin me why it got hard

Tell him the truth.

and what those things in thetrash can is (there used cumed in condoms)

That's nice to know, but at least it's relevant unlike the penis size revelation.


what do i tell him
thanks
benji

The truth.

Am I the only one who thinks this guy is subconsciously reaching out for attention over a teenage drama for or is plain out lying?

[nick]

Dude... He's 4...

And what does your penis length have to do with this?

All of this adds up to a fishy story.
Aw how can you think that Jake. I mean surely every teenaged boy keeps his waste basket full of used condoms just so everyone can see them and know how grown up he is?

[JackOfClubs]

Ya it seems a bit fishy..... but I'll answer anyway.

I wouldn't tell him, just tell him its a part of getting older.

[FalconSmash]

I don't even know where to begin.



That's very odd, a small child hopping in a bed with nobody noticing a thing. Sound or movement vibrations aren't logical, but all right, let's go with what you say.



Guys, let's not forget he has a SEVEN INCH penis. That will help us in our investigation so much.



You sick fuck.

No, I'm just playing.



Tell him the truth.



That's nice to know, but at least it's relevant unlike the penis size revelation.



The truth.

Am I the only one who thinks this guy is subconsciously reaching out for attention over a teenage drama for or is plain out lying?

Aw how can you think that Jake. I mean surely every teenaged boy keeps his waste basket full of used condoms just so everyone can see them and know how grown up he is?

I just want you two to know, I love you very much for these posts.

And I didn't want to be the *official* whistle blower.

This is pretty much fake. The reason I know it's a lie is that there are WAY too many facts posted through this story. It's a shock factor thing.

Like, really? Used condoms? Who wastes those purely for masturbation, then throws them away in PLAIN SIGHT!? I just don't get it. And yeah, the seven incher is note relevant to the story, in any form.

I bet you his little brother can like, hover, turn invisible, and be completely silent, like a ninja. A flying, invisible ninja.

Yeah.

But really... If this actually did happen, then you need to clean up your act.

[Sugaree]

I wouldn't tell him anything other than "You'll find out when you're older". He's 4, so he'll either freak out or tell your parents/friends everything you told him. I would suggest you stop sleeping naked, since this could cause more incidents similar to these.

[SlightlySane]

best answer to give a four year old... "I don't know"

If you tell them that and kind of shurg more than likely they aren't going to worry about it anymore. Works for me when a 4 year old I babysit asks what happened on a TV show or something

[Donkey]

You don't do anything. Seeing as he's 4 and it was late, he's probably already forgot about the whole thing.

[itsandrew_]

you shouldn't bring it up again. he is to young to comprehend this kind of stuff.

[DJthekid]

as for the erection tell him tha you'll tell when he's older and for the condoms tell him that they were just candy bags