What am I? (No, really!)

[mrp1221]

There are a lot of "What am I?" and "Am I gay?" threads on here, but I have a genuine question:

I considered myself to be completely straight until a few years ago when I began dating. I have only dated girls. However, I find myself onlyattracted to gay and bi men, but not straight men. I like the 'gay lifestyle'. I would, if I was in love, have sex with either. I would not marry a man because I believe the purpose of marriage is to have children. I currently have a girlfriend, and she doesn't approve of same-sex relationships, and neither does my community. I identify as bicurious. What am I?

[ThUnDeR]

it sounds like you are bicurious but u might also be bi... you just have to accept the fact of what you are and love yourself for it ..... ur def not gay if you like girls

[Bougainvillea]

Only you know what your sexuality is. This isn't really something we can help with. I think...

[CestDan]

Only you know what your sexuality is. This isn't really something we can help with. I think...

I completely agree, I mean, You are the only one who can fix your mind and choose your sexual orientation.

[orangecounty]

Sexuality is a tough one...usually you wont completely know until you are at the end of puberty. Just go with what feels right. If you like men, date men, if you like women, date women. Just don't lie to yourself.

[YourFriend]

i don't understand you on this one, what gay/bi lifestyle? i am gay, yet i live like any other teen, so i don't really get what you are aiming at....

[mrp1221]

that's why i put 'gay lifestyle' in quotes, because it really doesn't exist