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cloudybliss
July 6th, 2009, 10:36 AM
I just turned 15 and even though all my friends always talk about sex and stuff, I never feel horny.
Then again, I've never had a serious boyfriend who I was extremely physically attracted to. And I've never been kissed because I want my first kiss to be with someone I actually care about.
I touch myself a lot but I have since I was like, 4...just out of habit, I think.
I'm never actually "aroused" or feeling any desire to have sex. Is something wrong with me?
Loislane
July 6th, 2009, 10:40 AM
Of course there is nothing wrong with you.
Some people just aren't intrested, which is good. Atleast you know that you will kiss someone you love, and lose you're virginity to someone you love.
Hang in there. We are all different, if you're not intrested in sex then it is nothing to worry about :)
Silverfist64
July 6th, 2009, 11:27 AM
Nope, your fine. Different people have different...awareness to sex. Just because your friends talk about sex all the time doesnt mean you have to too. Im glad that you want to wait for someone special. That usually turns out alot better than jumping into the bandwagon and having sex at a young age. I too am waiting for someone special to have my first kiss.
Raize
July 6th, 2009, 01:50 PM
Meh, people grow at different speeds. There is one girl I knew whose breasts grew just a tiny bit at 18, and now she's 20 and they're finally fully growing. So don't worry about it.
Antares
July 6th, 2009, 02:19 PM
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Your hormones just haven't gotten to that stage yet. Puberty is like a 21,312,415 step process. You haven't gotten to the step where hormones are released you start feeling hornay :P
I say enjoy the time :)
Donkey
July 6th, 2009, 03:08 PM
Your hormones might not have really kicked in yet, and you may not have developed that way. And that's fine! Everyone develops at different speeds and rates, it doesn't make you any lesser or less normal than any others. Lots of others are just like this.
Or, some people never really experience physical attraction at all during their lives. These peoples are asexual. But if I were you, I wouldn't class myself as anything until you're all grown up and you're through puberty.
Aves
July 6th, 2009, 08:15 PM
people are different, I'm horny all the time, but at the same time, I am waiting for my first kiss to be with someone special, and waiting for my first time having sex to be with my wife.
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