Confused

[ViciousScheme]

To start off, if there is anything else you want to know about it ask me. I'm 15, and my girlfriend is 14. I've felt this kind of "weird" feeling about her for 2 years and I could never get her off my mind, but I never said anything to her about it because I thought it would be some temporary hormone thing I would regret. Shes really liked me but kept it under wraps for a year, or so she says. I finally had the audacity to ask her on a date about 3 weeks ago. We like each-other a-lot and we have a-lot in common. She's different, she likes to stand out and not play into the norm, just like me. So you know, we have our date, which was walking on the beach and swimming all day. We had a blast. Next date, which is 2 days later, we go to the movies, and it's just really awkward because i'm afraid to talk. I've never felt this EVER before. I'm always SUPER confident. Never in my life have I felt like this. Is this love? She's nice, so she understands when I start acting like a mute. And she's taking the lead in all this stuff, she's the one that starts kissing, she the one that takes the initiative. But what going on? I mean, it feels like love. But when we're not with friends or in a group, its like my spine crumbles to dust and I have nothing to talk about, and my confidence goes down the drain. Do we just like, NOT have ENOUGH in common or something? Or is this how love is supposed to be, sorry for all the confusing questions, and trailing sentences. Sincerely, Michael

[Blue63]

I say right now, for you guys, it's way to early to tell if it's love, but these feelings are good, and it may lead to love in the future, who knows. You're just nervous around her, you really care about her, and the good things is she really cares about you.

It's only natural to care about what she thinks, you guys sound good together. I get nervous around girls I really like to, you probably like her a lot more than other girls, but it is to early to tell if it's love I think.

What you need to know is that she really does care about you, and saying something stupid isn't going to change the way you two feel about each other, so just relax, the calmer you are the better things will go :D Best of luck

[kyle95]

u have feelings for her mate and ur acutely aware of her presence when ur with her alone, possibly bcse u harbour some ideas about her and ur feeling overwhelmed. try not 2 put urself in a situation where ur alone with her or that close. on the other hand, she seems like a gem mate. work on ur confidence, she's trying to help - so don't even start 2 think that she's undermining ur confidence. she sounds like a very special girl, love her with all ur heart and never blame her 4 ur shortcomings - she's on the other side waiting for u, don't disappoint her mate. ur very fortunate, it's love

[ViciousScheme]

Its definitely not love kyle, she just dumped me. It's cool though, don't feel as bad as I thought I would.

[Blue63]

Its definitely not love kyle, she just dumped me. It's cool though, don't feel as bad as I thought I would.

That sucks, I'm sorry dude, at risk of sounding totally cliche, they're are many more fish in the sea! :yes: Best of luck in your future romantic endeavors, after all practice makes perfect!

[Aves]

Its definitely not love kyle, she just dumped me. It's cool though, don't feel as bad as I thought I would.

That sucks, just find another, but still try and talk to her