rossafc92
July 5th, 2009, 03:44 PM
This isn't actually all my problem, but I would like some advice on how to help a couple of friends through what could be a bit of a disaster...
Me, another guy (we'll call him "C") and another guy (we'll call him "A") are all really good friends. Anyway, C and A have been seeing two girls who are also best friends.
The 4 of them have seen eachother a few times, and C really likes the girl he is seeing, but A isn't too keen on the one he is meant to be seeing. However, I am lead to believe that the girl C is seeing isn't as interested in him as he is in her, however I think they both realise it's best they take things slow for justnow.
The girl A is meant to be seeing apparently likes him quite a lot, but as mentioned, he does not return the same feelings...and this is where there could be a potential disaster - A likes the girls C is seeing.
That is the best friend of the girl A is meant to be seeing in the first place. A has half explained to C how he's not that interested in the girl he's meant to be seeing and has said that he thinks the girl C is meant to be seeing is a great girl, but did not say that he liked her in "that" way.
A and C are both coming to me for advice on the situation and I really don't know what to say! A does not want to wreck the friendship he has with C, but I can tell that he really does like the girl C is seeing.
Help would be appreciated, I hope that story wasn't too long or difficult to understand!
Me, another guy (we'll call him "C") and another guy (we'll call him "A") are all really good friends. Anyway, C and A have been seeing two girls who are also best friends.
The 4 of them have seen eachother a few times, and C really likes the girl he is seeing, but A isn't too keen on the one he is meant to be seeing. However, I am lead to believe that the girl C is seeing isn't as interested in him as he is in her, however I think they both realise it's best they take things slow for justnow.
The girl A is meant to be seeing apparently likes him quite a lot, but as mentioned, he does not return the same feelings...and this is where there could be a potential disaster - A likes the girls C is seeing.
That is the best friend of the girl A is meant to be seeing in the first place. A has half explained to C how he's not that interested in the girl he's meant to be seeing and has said that he thinks the girl C is meant to be seeing is a great girl, but did not say that he liked her in "that" way.
A and C are both coming to me for advice on the situation and I really don't know what to say! A does not want to wreck the friendship he has with C, but I can tell that he really does like the girl C is seeing.
Help would be appreciated, I hope that story wasn't too long or difficult to understand!