Question for the Gay/Bi guys.

[Ardiys]

Have any of you actually done things with other guys in the order you would with a girl, if you were in a straight relationship?

Like, get to know the guy, then date, then hold hands, hug, kiss, makeout, and THEN sex?

Because in my personal experience it's always been get to know the guy, and then have sexual relations, and I really hope it won't always be like that, due to recent events..
:/

[Θάνατος]

I think that since guys are looking more for sex some steps are skipped. I did go out with this guy though and we did some of the steps slowly.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

um actually i have skipped all of the steps a few times and just gone to sex without getting to know the guy but i mean who hasnt

[MoveAlong]

I've never had a relationship, but I would definitely want it to happen with all the steps. I think it would be hard to have a good relationship with someone that you just jumped to sex with, and I want a good, full, lasting relationship.

[guacamole24]

I'm not really for all the steps, but I don't think everyone is either. I've never been in any kind of relationship, but I'm not really for the whole date thing. I say come over, we chill, we have sex lol.

[YourFriend]

Like, get to know the guy, then date, then hold hands, hug, kiss, makeout, and THEN sex? exacly in the same order with my boyfriend, i am not only for sex....i love this guy like any of you str8 guys love a girl

[marty]

I would much prefer to go through the steps with a serious boyfriend/girlfriend.
however...as i'm sure all boys feel...there are some kids in my school for whom i would skip every step in a heartbeat.
but those are just fantasies

[Skeln]

Well I had sex with one of my close friends once, but I regret that now. I personally want to go through all the steps because I want a nice and true relationship, not some get on, get in, get out thing

[Confused Bi]

um actually i have skipped all of the steps a few times and just gone to sex without getting to know the guy but i mean who hasnt

Exactly:yeah:

Actually, thats all that has happened with me. I´m looking to take it slow now since none of the guys i´ve been with work out good. I hope I could be with a guy that´s not only after sex but that´s hard to find around here.

[Ardiys]

I find it really hard to find a gay/bi guy who isn't looking for sex in some manner, but I'm not completely out of the closet. That might change once I am, I dunno.
But it's really upsetting. I'd love to have a relationship like a lot of my friends are, but so far all I've had is sex. I've gone further than any of my friends, but they've all held hands, hugged, kissed. I've done those things, but with a girl.. and I want to do them with someone I'm actually attracted to.