Girlfriend Stuff

[JamesMan]

Hi,
I really like my gf, and she REALLY likes me. And thats the problem, she wants to spend time with me a lot, hugging touching etc. And I want to play football, tennis and stuff with my other friends.

How do I tell her without her being offended?

Thanks once again guys. :)

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[IAMWILL]

All you have to do is sit her down and say to her, "hey, I really like you a lot, and I know you like me to, but I need sometime with my guy friends too." It really is as simple as that. If she doesn't or can't accept that, you really need to talk.

[chairy]

ya i agree i think u have to tell her that ... i mean u love each other so u have to talk n if u can't understand each other now i think that's gonna be a problem in the future

[sebbie]

Just tell her what you posted here, she should understand, if she is awkward about it then it is her with the problem.

Everyone needs there own space at times..

[YourFriend]

explain her in details and not just tell: i don't have that much time for you adn i want to do other stuff

[LiGHT]

Tell her that we can be together but I have to do things like my hobbies that I love. and You can hang out with her on the weekends and day you arent going anything and keep doing the things you love. I am sure she will understand just make every moment your with her awesome.

[dstnyisurs]

Tell 'er you want to hang with yer friends as well as her. If she has an issue with it then she's really not worth it, and/or you two need to have a long talk. She shouldn't be hurt as long as you're tactful and you're not like, "DUDE I need to hang with ma mates and YOU are in the WAY YO!" or something like that, haha.

[kyle95]

change your attitude mate. she's a girl, she needs hugging and cuddling. u can play football anytime. a relationship isn't a game and supersedes all playtime with friends. count urself lucky that there's a girl that loves u that much and wants to be with u. don't disappoint her cause blokes have a special talent at always hurting and disappointing the ones they love. go back to her and give her a big hug mate, she's deserves it

[Silverfist64]

If you want to hang out with your friends and her sometimes you can try inviting her to come and watch you or even try playing tennis and such. Of course you may want to pass it by your friends first.

[sebbie]

change your attitude mate. she's a girl, she needs hugging and cuddling. u can play football anytime. a relationship isn't a game and supersedes all playtime with friends. count urself lucky that there's a girl that loves u that much and wants to be with u. don't disappoint her cause blokes have a special talent at always hurting and disappointing the ones they love. go back to her and give her a big hug mate, she's deserves it

I disagree with you on this, the fact that she is showing to much affection is causing problems with his friends and social life.

If she is getting bitchy at him because he want to socialise with people other than her then she needs to grow up and realise that his world does not revolve around her.

[MyNameIsJack]

I agree with Will. lol
I understand you, talk to her smiling and kissing her :) she'll understand.

[Aves]

Just tell her that you want to do that stuff, and hopefully she'll understand

[ILOVEYOU]

change your attitude mate. she's a girl, she needs hugging and cuddling. u can play football anytime. a relationship isn't a game and supersedes all playtime with friends. count urself lucky that there's a girl that loves u that much and wants to be with u. don't disappoint her cause blokes have a special talent at always hurting and disappointing the ones they love. go back to her and give her a big hug mate, she's deserves it

Yes, i Completely do agree with this dude. . , she's more important than football thing, do it another time.. you got all life time to play football. . .

[orangecounty]

I know the type...a totally clingy girl who can't survive without knowing where you are at all times. You should just tell her you need some time with your guy friends and if she can't deal with that, then oh well. Do not give up your life for a girl...it will make you miserable. Relationships are suppose to be open and about communication and compromise; don't let her walk all over you and control you.