cum too fast while getting head.

[Mister_J]

Im almost 18 years old first of all. now sometimes when me and my girlfriend are in bed we fool around...sometimes she gives me a handjob and sometimes a blowjob...whenever i get a handjob i can hold it in for around 3ish minutes, and ive heard that is normal. now whenever i get a blowjob, like today...we started making out for awhile, then she touched my penis for a minute or two, then she went down and started sucking on the tip while touching it...and i seriously blew in no longer than 30 seconds. i felt like a wimp because i could barely take anything without cumming. is this normal? what can i do to not cum so fast while getting head?

[MoveAlong]

It's probably new and intense for you, so that's why you came so fast.

A lot about sex and masturbation is learning to control your level of pleasure, and what it takes to keep going. Try experimenting with her to try to extend that time. You may also want to try experimenting while you masturbate, too.

[Mister_J]

ive gotten head 4 to 5 times in my life...all with the same girl. and ive had countless handjobs. the handjobs get better...but the problem is, if i dont masturbate for a week or so, then she comes and gives me a handjob, i will blow FAST, because its all built up and ready to come out. but when it comes to BJ's i dont know what to do because i masturbated twice yesterday because i thought it would help me last longer with head today...but no.

anyone else?! help please.

Please refrain from double posting

[marty]

well, actually the best way is to try and masturbate more. The more you do that, the longer you will be able to "hold out". The more stimulus you get, there more your body will get used to it, so the more it will take to set it off.

Also try telling your girlfriend to take it a little slower the next time around. You want this moment to last!

[YourFriend]

well, actually the best way is to try and masturbate more. The more you do that, the longer you will be able to "hold out". The more stimulus you get, there more your body will get used to it, so the more it will take to set it off.

Also try telling your girlfriend to take it a little slower the next time around. You want this moment to last!

yea that's good advice, after 20 seconds of sucking, you can kiss and make out....and then she can go again...

[gone]

well thats what Im afraid of, getting a bj and blowing as soon as contact is made lol

[LiGHT]

lol. Just talk to her and work something out. I think she would take that as a compliment ;d

[Stevo 69]

Get her to slow down, take it a little slowly until you can last longer. Use more foreplay

Or a good technique to last longer is "stop and go", look on www.jackinworld.com for more info, it helps you gain control of your ejaculations

[ezduzit323]

It's probably new and intense for you, so that's why you came so fast.

A lot about sex and masturbation is learning to control your level of pleasure, and what it takes to keep going. Try experimenting with her to try to extend that time. You may also want to try experimenting while you masturbate, too.


well said. the first time i j/o'd with another guy, i came so fast because it was so new and different. the more you do it, the better you can control yourself. one way i can hold back while masturbating is if i do it with a condom. it dulls the sensation a bit.

[Skuller818]

well, actually the best way is to try and masturbate more. The more you do that, the longer you will be able to "hold out". The more stimulus you get, there more your body will get used to it, so the more it will take to set it off.

Also try telling your girlfriend to take it a little slower the next time around. You want this moment to last!
yeah pretty much. Let her suck it without going like crazy. Or let her go quick but get her to stop before you blow, then go again

[nick]

When you're masturbating on your own how long does that take? Sometimes we try to be quick because we don't want to be discovered or to have anyone saying "what are you doing in there", but actually when you're on you own you need to practice taking longer. Train yourself to take it slowly.

[James18]

When you're masturbating on your own how long does that take? Sometimes we try to be quick because we don't want to be discovered or to have anyone saying "what are you doing in there", but actually when you're on you own you need to practice taking longer. Train yourself to take it slowly.

This is the best advice I have for you. It's kind of hard to explain, but you can train yourself to go longer. Other than that, the stop and go approach with your gf that's already been mentioned should help too.

[chris__robin]

try masturbating before you do stuff with her, like a few hours before.
and just tell her to stop if you feel like youre going to blow... my bf tells me to stop if he needs to and i do then start again ... theres nothing wrong with being vocal in the bedroom :)

[kyle95]

mate, that's the only sex I know. try relaxing. perhaps u 2 r rushing. do it at a time u know u wont be interrupted 4 a long time. my gf knows how 2 stop me, she presses the base of the head, and sometimes, the base of the shaft. By the by, my gf doesn't care if i come quickly or not. she loves me and i love her. she does it out of love and not out of judgement of my anatomical performance. girls r wonderful companions, trust them mate and they'll love u back