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Toilet Water.
July 2nd, 2009, 05:51 PM
I don't know if this should have gone in Drugs or this.. So..


Yesterday, Canada Day, I decided to go out drinking. I told my dad I was sleeping over at a friends house. I got drunk with other friends instead. When everyone had to go home, I called a different friend to talk for the night. He suggested I go home, I freaked. I told him why I couldn't go home. I wanted some freedom. I told him my parents would ground me. I said they'll be disappointed in me and won't trust me. I told him, 'If I keep letting them know about the things I do, they won't love me anymore' (I was drunk, it wasn't put exactly like that). They told me they wouldn't ground me. They're sending me to my grandma for the summer instead. I would run away, but my sister is coming in a week. I hate them, but I'll always love them. I don't know what to do. They won't let me do anything.

BlackenedSilver
July 2nd, 2009, 07:26 PM
Well to be blunt, They believed you when you say that you were sleeping at a friends So are obviously going to be worried when you are not there but also disappointed that you disobeyed their trust. I'm not saying don't get drunk and do everything they say, as I go to my friends houses and get drunk quite frequently I am actually drinking right now. :P
Anyway, if you keep going against them like this they might not ever trust you. But if you feel they are being unfair talk to them, maybe you can come up with some kind of agreement. (Probably keep the getting drunk thing from them though, unless they are ok with that. Or play their own past against them. I always use the argument "And you always did what was legal and what your parents said when you were younger?" As I know my mum always went out with her friends, also had me at 19 xD, and my dad bought a moped without my Grans permission.)
Spending summer with your Gran might not be too bad, you can learn alot from your Granparents. I used to love spending time with them. Running away is not the answer at all it will just make everything worse. Just try the talking to them thing but don't let it turn into an argument that will also complicate things.
I hope everything works out. :) I hope I helped as well.

punkjake
July 2nd, 2009, 08:59 PM
Well you kinda did get your self in this sittiution so don't hate them.Don't worry if its just this summer,they still love you i promise

Toilet Water.
July 3rd, 2009, 04:39 PM
But, they keep taking my friends away.
I move every year so I have to say bye to the friends I made, and now I'm not allowed to see the friends I have.
Whenever I try to have fun, they take that away from me.
I guess it doesn't help that my dad's an RCMP (Police). :P

LiGHT
July 4th, 2009, 12:07 AM
Well you say you are sleeping over at a friends house but you go drinking. what if you go to a friends house to sleepover but get drunk there? now you won't be lieing.

Toilet Water.
July 5th, 2009, 10:22 PM
haha, yesss.
I like you, you're smart. :]