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kyle95
July 2nd, 2009, 04:50 PM
My gf is my first and I love her. I can't imagine not being with her in the future. I'm wondering what the chances are for both us to make it to adulthood and still be together. She's expressed the same sentiment. We do everything together and I think she's the cutest and most caring girl and I feel grateful for knowing her :yes:

Blue63
July 2nd, 2009, 05:43 PM
Not to be mean, or doubting. But teen love is generally rather fickle and not lasting. I mean when you go through college, it's going to be hard to maintain a long distance relationship, especially with all the temptation. I mean there are going to be a lot of other girls (guys for her). Plus there are a lot of life changing issues that you may have not covered. There are going to be a lot of changes throughout the next years, and if you can keep going through everything, good for you, but it may end up like work, and the love may be lost. You may meet someone better, or she may meet someone better. I mean the purpose of dating really is to find the right one, that's why we go through it, it usually takes a while.

kyle95
July 2nd, 2009, 05:46 PM
You're not mean. You're right. I suppose I have it good and I don't want things to change, but they will. I do hope we come out together in the end tho. Tks mate

Blue63
July 2nd, 2009, 06:09 PM
You're not mean. You're right. I suppose I have it good and I don't want things to change, but they will. I do hope we come out together in the end tho. Tks mate

Change can be scary, I know, just hope for the best, it's all you can do!

mr.sexy_bomb
July 2nd, 2009, 06:17 PM
yeah but good luck still

kyle95
July 2nd, 2009, 07:14 PM
tks mates, much appreciated

LiGHT
July 4th, 2009, 11:57 AM
I hope everything stays strong and who knows maybe theres a future for you but theres going to be a lot of other girls and you have a lot of life left. If everything does not work out between you, you can still be friends and Make these years with her the best because you never know whats going to happen next.