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LiGHT
July 2nd, 2009, 04:38 PM
I don't know if this is like the other thread but

would you rather date someone who is really hot but really stupid or someone who is ugly and smart.

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kyle95
July 2nd, 2009, 04:47 PM
sorry, but there has to be physical attraction

Sapphire
July 2nd, 2009, 05:15 PM
I couldn't be with someone stupid. Absolutely could not.

sebbie
July 2nd, 2009, 05:26 PM
This might sound really shallow and vain but it is generally physical traits of a girl that will make me attracted to her, not intelligence.

DarkWingedAngel
July 2nd, 2009, 05:30 PM
im sorry but i have to put this out there
You can find someone who is semi smart and semi good looking
so i pick what i just said

Blue63
July 2nd, 2009, 05:35 PM
im sorry but i have to put this out there
You can find someone who is semi smart and semi good looking
so i pick what i just said

I agree, just being a genius is not going make me attracted to them.

Now I couldn't date a dumb person, i tend to use some rather big words:P plus I need the intelligent conversations, but there has to be physical attraction.

Sapphire
July 2nd, 2009, 05:42 PM
im sorry but i have to put this out there
You can find someone who is semi smart and semi good looking
so i pick what i just said
It goes without saying that someone who is attractive and intelligent is better than someone who is only one or the other.

AutumnDae
July 2nd, 2009, 07:37 PM
I could not be with someone stupid.

ShatteredWings
July 2nd, 2009, 07:44 PM
im sorry but i have to put this out there
You can find someone who is semi smart and semi good looking
so i pick what i just said
Yo! Dude hello
haha kidding. i know i'm slow at times =D


Joking aside.. if i'm talking to a WALKING POST... sorry but that's not happening. I'd much rather be able to have a conversation with you.

LiGHT
July 2nd, 2009, 11:00 PM
Sorry I messed up on the poll options.

mr.sexy_bomb
July 3rd, 2009, 01:57 PM
this is just like my thread, same thing

ylllek nivyer
July 3rd, 2009, 02:03 PM
dating is only foreshadowing your married life. i dont want my spouse "hott" and dumb at 60. they aint so hot anymore. all those wrinkles ruin the "hottness.

Zazu
July 3rd, 2009, 06:19 PM
If with the stupidity came narrow mindedness, ignorance and racism, then I would not like to be with a 'stupid' person.

AllThatIsLeft
July 3rd, 2009, 06:59 PM
ehhhhh... i can live with someone stupid, i'd rather them be somewhat smart though...
but if i'm not physically attracted .. i know its not going anywhere

ThUnDeR
July 3rd, 2009, 07:17 PM
im shallow XD i cannot date an ugly girll EWW i like em dumb blondes LOL XD

CestDan
July 3rd, 2009, 07:32 PM
I think, that my dates would be in the middle, I mean, some one who is cute or beautiful and perhaps not so smart, but yeah, with intelligence. Now, I don't think that not all the pretty girls need to be dumb, I have had dates with very beautiful and smart girls.

Now, not only the intelligence and the looking of the girl is needed to be noticed, but also how her personality is. I like when they are very honest and lovely.

dmeek7
July 3rd, 2009, 10:13 PM
you have to have some sort of physical attraction to someone to even get to kow them....b/c i dont just go up to random people and talk to them..they have to be somewhat good looking b4 i get to know them

LiGHT
July 5th, 2009, 05:40 AM
For me It would be in the middle. A girl can be too dumb and if am not at all attracted to them then no way.

tyler27846
July 5th, 2009, 02:44 PM
being smart or stupid doesnt matter in a lover to me

ILOVEYOU
July 5th, 2009, 03:23 PM
not about the one that i Love, but i would like to spend sometime with a Dumb, But Hot girl, to.. you know...

YourFriend
July 5th, 2009, 03:35 PM
i couldn't choose, so i just did random, dumb and hot

uihwljtkegr
July 5th, 2009, 05:10 PM
I've not voted on the poll. I couldn't be with someone stupid, but there has to be at least a certain level of physical attraction. Don't get me wrong, personality and intelligence is far more important, but the physical attraction must still be there.

This is backed up by the fact that the girl that I currently like is not only somewhat (well, if im being honest, extremely) beautiful, but is abouts to begin studying at either Oxford or Cambridge.

Antares
July 5th, 2009, 06:27 PM
I voted smart and ugly.

Granted their has to be a nice balance but good god

I mean, I like someone for their personality. Their smarts are included in that package.

Having someone that is just hot, I mean, my like for that person wouldn't expand past my eyes and the bedroom.

I have to have someone not dumb. I would strangle them for asking stupid questions all the frickin time.

Anyways, yea smart and ugly.

Bougainvillea
July 5th, 2009, 06:49 PM
I love it when a girl is intelligent. I would date a girl who wasn't all looks. :) Just as long as she isn't a weirdo who'd shoot up the school.

NeoKitai
July 6th, 2009, 08:59 AM
Neither because I'm harsh. Can't go with ugly or stupid. Smart and beautiful (but not hot) is my choice.

Breathless
July 8th, 2009, 04:12 AM
i think it depends... or the wording of the poll is to harsh?
the person i like i'm atttracted to the person he is, i love his appearance but it wasnt that which attracted me - he isnt seen as hot by people, i wouldnt call him hot, but that doesnt mean i think he's ugly.

so, its kind of half?
and as shallow as it sounds, i dont think i would ever date someone hideously ugly - though, generally someone CAN be seen as ugly by most people, but the person dating them will see differently. if that makes sense.

or, sometimes the person dating them is just shallow...
mind you, i'm shallow myself sometimes.

but, i couldnt date someone stupid. i can feel my braincells screeching at the thought...

HelloWorld123456
July 8th, 2009, 06:14 AM
lofl if i didnt like hot sexy dumb blondes i wouldnt be dating my gf lofl

rainbow2
July 8th, 2009, 10:54 AM
personally, i think this thread is sorta stupid. it shouldn't matter what a person looks like. it should only matter if they're a good person.

Wayvrn
July 8th, 2009, 11:14 AM
"ugly" and smart anytime, plus, all the smart girls I've met are good looking, and all of the dumb girls are always the popular and fake girls at EVERY school! :D

- It's quiet easy to identify who is who...

Death
July 8th, 2009, 02:07 PM
Physical appearance is not that important to me; especially when it comes to intelligence. I don't want a wife that doesn't understand half the concepts put to her. Besides, it will probraly affect her ability to do her share of the housework and a marriage will not work if this becomes too much of a problem. I don't always need to look at her, now do I?

Triceratops
July 8th, 2009, 02:45 PM
I'm irritated by the fact that the phrase "dumb blonde" was mentioned a few times in this thread. A hair colour does not determine one's level of intelligence, thank you very much.

Anywho, back on topic. I couldn't date someone completely stupid, never. Although their does need to be somewhat of a physical attraction for a good relationship to maintain well. I'd rather date someone not very good looking and intelligent than someone gorgeous and dumb. I would end up murdering the stupid person within a week of dating them otherwise.

Camazotz
July 8th, 2009, 03:10 PM
As long as our interests are similar enough, I wouldn't care whether she were "smart" or "stupid." That goes for her attraction also. If she shares a similar personality, it wouldn't matter.

Wayvrn
July 9th, 2009, 03:33 AM
I'm irritated by the fact that the phrase "dumb blonde" was mentioned a few times in this thread. A hair colour does not determine one's level of intelligence, thank you very much.

It's a phrase, not a fact that all blondes are dumb, I am naturally a blonde and I am not dumb.

Triceratops
July 9th, 2009, 09:37 AM
It's a phrase, not a fact that all blondes are dumb, I am naturally a blonde and I am not dumb.

I know that. I wasn't being solely literal there.

MyNameIsJack
July 9th, 2009, 04:16 PM
I'd rather date someone ugly and smart, definitly.

I could not take a dumb person. I love talking and if the person can't keep up then we are going to have major issues.