Log in

View Full Version : Boner Problem


Freshprince
July 2nd, 2009, 08:41 AM
So i was with my girlfriend and we were holding
hands all of the sudden i got a boner, it wouldnt go down
but i was only holding hands how can i avoid getting a boner?

MykeSoBe
July 2nd, 2009, 08:52 AM
Well it is almost impossible to avoid it. I think your girlfriend would think good of your boner; it's saying that she's hot. It would be like an insult if you said that you didn't get a boner around her, now wouldn't it?

itsandrew_
July 2nd, 2009, 08:53 AM
well if yu get one again try ignoreing it and it might go away. and whey yu are holding hands try not to think of getting a boner this works for me.

iamm12345n
July 2nd, 2009, 08:54 AM
its natchral u cold think of something disgusting like a wrinkly old person striping or pretend ur in a cold shower or something like that

UnholyConfessions
July 2nd, 2009, 08:58 AM
Naturally you'll get an erection and to be honest, there is not much you can do in a situation like that. You could try wearing tighter underwear so it isn't as noticable or keep your other hand in your pocket and pull it upwards.

Giles
July 2nd, 2009, 09:27 AM
tell her shes hot and that ur aroused by her... then if she ever notices it... she shouldnt mind.

gone
July 2nd, 2009, 09:28 AM
make her notice it and it may lead to something else :P good luck

pkid
July 2nd, 2009, 09:46 AM
Well you should just think of watermelons that's what I do to make it go down. Or just think of anything else other than your girlfriend.

HelloWorld123456
July 2nd, 2009, 11:00 AM
Or ... if you are not prepareing for sex ... you could masturbate before you meet her ... but that would make things less fun ...

marty
July 2nd, 2009, 11:23 AM
Well, you were in a situation were you became sexually aroused. It is to be expected. Your mind probably was thinking about a little more than a hand-hold, and your penis responded. Nothing to worry about, it happens to everyone

Skeln
July 2nd, 2009, 02:09 PM
There is nothing you can do about it, there is nothing you can do to avoid it. It's natural for us to get a boner when we're sexually aroused, so you just have to live with it. Not only that, but we always get boners randomly. It's just puberty and you'll have to live with it. She shouldn't mind and if you don't think about it you wont draw attention to it and thuis she shouldn't notice.

ThomasB.
July 2nd, 2009, 02:21 PM
Its natural!! There is basically no way of avoiding getting a boner - Its just because you were with her and were aroused - thats a good thing!

kyle95
July 2nd, 2009, 03:35 PM
it's perfectly normal and i bet she's aware and most likely amused if not flattered that she has that kind of effect on u. it's the same with me mate. don't fight it, they know its an honest reaction - so don't hide ur reaction, share with her, she'll be sympathetic and possibly tuned on

YourFriend
July 2nd, 2009, 03:53 PM
you can't avoid it...why would you want to?

LiGHT
July 2nd, 2009, 03:56 PM
It might be embarrassing and she probably didn't notice it. Like everyone is saying it would kinda be an insult if you said you didn't boners around her IMO