am i bi?

[polarbear]

im a 13 year old boy and i realy need help. i like girls, get hard looking at breasts get a little aroused to nude men and have just started likeing gay porn. even in preschool when i was around 5 years old i remember going to the bathroom with my bf and we would kiss or lick each others dicks just l8ly i gave a friend a bj and i think i liked it but it was quick and when he came (in my mouth) he started freaking out so i didnt have time to realy think if i liked it or not but if i had the chance i would like to give one of my friends a hand job or a bj. b4 i never let myself think i was bi or gay but now i think i could be i mean i gave a friend a BJ!!!!. am i bi or just want to experiment. piz help!!

[ThUnDeR]

sounds like you might be if you have been doing this since you were 5! or you might just be curious!

[punkjake]

hmm maybe here are my theories!XD captain snob (me):P
1.U could be currious but at kinder garden :confused:dude
2.you mite just want to experiment
3.Phase?
4.U find guys only emotionally or vise versa with physical which doesn't make you Bi, completely...
5.u could just be Bi which isn't bad !
Hope this helped :D

[IAMWILL]

Well nowadays it seems as though your straight, and when you were five, well, you really just didn't know what you were doing :P it's fine, nothing to really worry about. Suprisingly, a lot of kids do things like that when they are young, simply because you are interested I'm everything when your young and don't understand things yet. I think you can only classify someones sexuality when they are fully understanding what they are doing, which now you probably can, but when you were five you just can't. Hakuna Matatta.:)

[byee]

I think there might be 2 issues here. Let me dispense with the easier first.

At 13, everything is arousing from the hormones of puberty, it's all biological. So, being curious is part of that, the brain reacts to the hormones, too. It's like going into a bakery when you're really hungry, you want everything and everything is appealing. But, your sexuality isn't just about arousal, (which is physical), it's also (and moreso) about your feelings, your emotions, how you feel about very complicated things like yourself, men, and women, and who you feel safest with and closest with. Don't confuse the normal hormonal reaction of arousal with the deeper, more complicated reaction of your feelings towards yourself and other people.

OK, the more difficult issue here is your sex play at 5. We know that little kids ARE sexual (although it means something else before puberty), but it's more about the physical curiosity that comes from the awareness that boys are different than girls, and also that those parts feel very good when touched. Its really an intellectual awareness, it's not 'erotic' the way it becomes at puberty, b/c the hormones aren't there enough, so the basic awareness leads to curiosity, it's like "show and tell' (Or "show me yours and I'll show you mine").

So, although little kids play "Doctor" or "House" as a way of exploring themselves (and eachother), it usually stops at that. In your case, you had oral contact with your firend, which is pretty unusual. One of you had to actually know to do that, and how you (or he) came to that knowledge could be important, and a complicating factor in your current situation. Do you remember who's idea it was initially, or who initiated it (either the first or subsequent times)? If you can remember that, maybe we should talk a bit more about it.

But for now, I wouldn't worry too much about the arousal thing, b/c it's a part of puberty. As you get older and more accustomed to it, your sexuality will become clearer to you.

[Melodius Nocturne]

Well you're only 13 so i doubt you would be bi, im not saying 13 year olds can't be Bi but as others have said your hormones are raging at this time in your life and you cant be totally conclusive of your sexual orientations, especially at 13

Hec i want to do the same thing to a friend or two but that doesnt make me Bi, im just curious....hope that helped

[Snow Angel]

first off, don't get stressed over this. Its not bad to be bi. and it seems as though you're more just curious, as you havn't expressed any emotion attraction to men in your post..

[YourFriend]

you're bi or gay only if you are emotionally attracted to guys, so it's prolly just curiosity...

[pkid]

Well I think you are just curious; but then curiousity can lead to being bi

[LiGHT]

im a 13 year old boy and i realy need help. i like girls, get hard looking at breasts and masterbate to women but dont get too aroused to nude men and hate gay porn. but even in preschool when i was around 5 years old i remember going to the bathroom with my bf and we would kiss or lick each others dicks i haven't done that since but if i had the chance i would like to give one of my friends a hand job or a bj. b4 i never let myself think i was bi or gay but now i think i could be. am i bi or just want to experiment. piz help!!
Samething happened to me when I was little. I don't let it bother me now. You might just have to experiment and see whats happens from there.

[The Harlequin]

im a 13 year old boy and i realy need help. i like girls, get hard looking at breasts and masterbate to women but dont get too aroused to nude men and hate gay porn. but even in preschool when i was around 5 years old i remember going to the bathroom with my bf and we would kiss or lick each others dicks i haven't done that since but if i had the chance i would like to give one of my friends a hand job or a bj. b4 i never let myself think i was bi or gay but now i think i could be. am i bi or just want to experiment. piz help!!

I used to do stuff like that with my best mate when we were kids, but if I remember correctly, I initiated it, so that ~ as someone said earlier ~ plays a pretty big part in it.

Being bi isn't all that bad either, and by the time your hormones will have settled and you're sure, the people around you will most likely have matured more and therefore be slightly more accepting of you... That said I don't know what kind of people you're around, if they're all drop-dead religious then their attitudes may never change...

Here to help!
(:^,

[Confused Bi]

Well you should expieriment before you can make sure if your bi. It could just mean your curious. If you like it then you are likely bi, but if you don´t, your probably straight.

[electric_feel01]

Just experiment and stuff and see how you feel. Plus, most people are aroused by anything sexual, so you may be straight.