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Wayvrn
June 30th, 2009, 08:50 AM
If you have a sexual/genital disease?
I'm wondering because when me and a girl of mine will have sex, I won't be using a condom and she'll just be on the 'pill'. I always clean my genital area and I take care of my body, I am a clean male. I also know my penis is 'normal/average' and there is nothing wrong with it.
Thankyou for your time.
byee
June 30th, 2009, 09:09 AM
It's not only how you know, it's how she knows. And how you know she knows. And, who she's slept with and how many partners she's had. And how many they've had. And so on.
Your hygiene alone won't prevent STI transmission. Only protecting yourelf with a condom (or abstinence) can do that. The Pill prevents pregnancy, but does not stop STI's. That's b/c grils who use the Pill typically do not use condoms, so there's flesh to flesh contact there, and anytime there's an exchange of bodily fluids, there's a chance of STI transmission. And, if you do the math, given the epidemic proportions of some STI's (herpes) and near epidemic proportions of everything else the chances are that people who have multiple sex partners AND do not wear condoms will eventually contract *something*.
So, the short answer to your question is that unless you and your g/f are both virgins, wear a condom. Get into that habit, if you're sexually active with someone you know for less than a year, automatially wear a condom, regardless of what they use or might say.
Wayvrn
June 30th, 2009, 09:20 AM
She has only given oral...twice (to someone else), someone tried to get in her but he was too wide or something a-rather, shall I still use a condom then?
YourFriend
June 30th, 2009, 10:00 AM
yes, you should use it since, the disease can eb transfered by any fluid so when she gave him oral, if he ahd it, she prolly has it, so use a condom, it's safer always
byee
June 30th, 2009, 10:04 AM
Yes, you should. It's a good habit to get into, so there's less chance of you making a mistake in the future and maybe contracting an STI.
pkid
June 30th, 2009, 10:13 AM
If you really want to know if you have anything wrong with your genitals than go see the doctor
The Joker
June 30th, 2009, 03:28 PM
Always wear a condom.
TAC1
June 30th, 2009, 10:18 PM
No matter what...you should always wear a condom. Whether or not she's on the "pill" you should rather be safe than sorry.
Wayvrn
July 1st, 2009, 02:43 AM
Well, I heard after a year or so will be fine, it will be about two years from now 'till we have sex, is that fine?
The Joker
July 1st, 2009, 03:16 PM
You can get an STD at any time, no matter what. Some will stay for your life.
LiGHT
July 2nd, 2009, 10:56 PM
I read one time that if you feel your balls and they have lumps or bumps on them you should talk to a docter. maybe?
Wayvrn
July 5th, 2009, 05:19 AM
@ KITN - How/can you get any kind of STD without any kind of sexual contact?
@ LiGHT - Ah, thanks for that.
Θάνατος
July 5th, 2009, 05:46 AM
@ KITN - How/can you get any kind of STD without any kind of sexual contact?
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Well herpes is a sexual transmitted diseases and you can get herpes from kissing.
Kissing is not sexual contact.
nickings07
July 5th, 2009, 05:49 AM
Well herpes is a sexual transmitted diseases and you can get herpes from kissing.
Kissing is not sexual contact.
So rob, lets say someone had herpes and they kissed their grand mother could they get it to? lol
Θάνατος
July 5th, 2009, 05:54 AM
So rob, lets say someone had herpes and they kissed their grand mother could they get it to? lol
Yes, their grandmother could get herpes from you if you kissed her and you had it.
nickings07
July 5th, 2009, 05:56 AM
Yes, their grandmother could get herpes from you if you kissed her and you had it.
lol, rob thanks for the advice.
tip-of-the-day: Never kiss your grandmother if you have herpes!
The Joker
July 5th, 2009, 08:34 PM
@ KITN - How/can you get any kind of STD without any kind of sexual contact?
@ LiGHT - Ah, thanks for that.
Yes you can. AIDs can be passed through child birth and breast feeding.
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