been a while

[sunsings]

hey VT,

its been a whiel since ive been here... but i decided to come back.... ive kind of been struggling with my sexuality... but i think im starting to figure it out... anyways.. right now im considering myself gay.... but id still make out and stuff with a girll but it just doesnt turn me on as much... any opinions?

[orangecounty]

Just say your bi and be done with it. Don't get all caught up in labels...they really aren't that important.

[ThUnDeR]

yea your prob bi
or jus being a teen with the hormones taking over your sexualality
call your self bi

[sunsings]

lol ya i tried the bi thing for a whiel... and a whole hug thing leaked out around my school after i told my best friend i ahd feelings for him.... and about the label thing... im not really for them.... but right now i feel i need that label for myself.... i dont wanna explain why but it would cause me alot less stress

[The Joker]

Well, you may be gay. Just give it a few years, and you should know in your heart for sure.

[sunsings]

ya... *sigh*... it just so god damn confsuion for me.... i effed up bad concerning my sexuality too.... so that didnt really help.... not to mention the town i live in is french-calohic (lol i know spelled it wrong but i am soo not in the mood to get out the dictionnary).... im slowly getting use to it.... its just hard... and thank you.

[tbboltz92]

I agree with orangecounty don't get cought up in labels.
I mean hormones are a tricky thing as posted by everyone here kinda driven into the ground really. So just be you and leave labels alone

[YourFriend]

it's easier to be bi, but that just isn't one of my options, i would reject a girl

[pkid]

Well don't completely put yourself out there for guys because you never know if your going to change in a few years.

[Requin]

Don't label yourself so easily or carelessly.

Don't feel like you need to label yourself either. Its not imporant. It doesn't matter what you are. Your a human being right? Hang around with people you like. Ask out people you fancy etc. Just enjoy yourself a bit more. Stop fretting about who you are inside and what you like. There's time for that later.

All I'm saying is don't worry what you are. As whatever you feel now...you may not in 5 or 7 or 10 years time. :)

[LiGHT]

Just give yourself time to mature and then you will see from there in a couple of years if you are gay or straight. maybe even bi. Its ok whatever you choose.

[sildavin]

What Requin said. Dont be so quick to judge yourself. Give yourself some time to think about it, and just do what feels right to you. it took me 3 years to become comfortable with being Bi-sexual. This stuff doesn't happen over night you know!