Not sure if this is the right place, but I don't know where else to ask...

[VoodooChild]

I'm going to try to make this post as ambiguous as possible to try to refrain from breaking any rules or anything, cause I'd really like some input if possible.

So for a long time now, my girlfriend and I have been sexually active. I could always get her to climax when we would do it, but lately she hasn't been able to have one, but I haven't changed my technique at all. She was also sexually active with her previous boyfriend for a long time, so it's not like she's new to any of this stuff.

She says she gets really close, but she gets to a point where it just can't go any further, and she stops. She said that she feels like she thinks about it too much while we do it, and she thinks that may be the reason why it doesn't work every time anymore. Or that maybe it's because we do it so much.

So I'm just wondering if there's any possible reason for it other than me just not being able to get her to go. If anyone can help out, I'd be really happy. Thanks.

[Ortizitthisone]

As always, safety is so important with sexually active teens, so I sincerely hope you are using protection. Don't blame yourself for it, especially if you've been able to do it in the past. Women need to explore their own bodies to know what feels good, just like men. How old are you guys? It may be that she subconsciously is no longer comfortable with being sexually active, or it could be that her needs have changed. In any relationship and in any aspect of a relationship, communication is key. She can't expect you to know how to pleasure her every time, even if it has happened in the past. She's got to tell you what she needs, and you both have to be comfortable.

Hope this helps.