My first love!HELP

[love123]

I really fancy a girl in my year but i think she only sees my as a brother or something i need help please !what do i do? I am 13 by the way.

[Requin]

So she's a good friend?

Someone once said that the strongest relationships start from being friends.
I don't think your age has anything to do with it btw, you like her. Fair enough. Nothing to do with puberty.
Just take it cool and simple. Talk to her more, hang around with her more. (If you don't already).

Just get to know each other better. Get a strong bond. And if you still feel that way towards her. See how it goes and if you can pluck up the courage ask her if she wants to go to the cinema with you one night or something etc etc.
Take it naturally. :)

Oh and moving to Relationships and Dating.

[Spookster]

i had the same problem... i'm also 13... one day i decided to tell her... it was ok for the first 2 days... but then i found out she likes another guy... i was realy depressed, i was waiting and waiting... it happened 6 months ago,and nothing... i thought i still have a chance 3 months ago, and i asked her out, but she refused... at school she was talking about some guy with her friend... she was speaking too loud, and i heard it, i get depressed every time i think about her. this is my advice, ask her friend and see what does she think about you... if she doesn't like you just get over it and stay friends, learn from my mistake.

[Blue63]

I've liked a really good friend to, it's rough. They say it's better to be friends first, yes the relationship may be better, but it's way harder to obtain. The thing with girls, when they like you, you'll no. Chances are they'll flirt, or tell someone, maybe you. You can give it a shot, but think to yourself, what do you value more. Do you like her so incredibly much that you can't stand not being with her or having her know your true feelings, or is your friendship great enough that you don't want to risk losing it if she says no. Think about it, good luck.

[Mzor203]

Really, the best thing for you to do is wait, and observe. It is human nature that when two people of the opposite sex know each other for a long time, they will become attracted. It's inevitable, especially as you grow older and that stuff is thought about more and more.

Just keep doing what you're doing... being her friend. It will continue to give her a good impression of you, and eventually the attraction may start to kick in.

It doesn't always work that way, but sometimes things just don't work out. The best you can do is keep a positive outlook, and continue to be her friend.

[kyle95]

look at it this way mate, she's a friend. so don't do anything that would drive her away from you. if she takes a fancy to u great. u may want 2 drop a hint, perhaps in a playful way, but give her a way out should she feel uncomfortable or if caught unawares. never lay a heavy on her. girls r great, play by their rules and above all, be kind and considerate