goin insanee!!

[spike94]

im 14 and i have a g/f but its not sexual and it would be pretty stupid if we were, but omg im soo horny and just cant wait for sex... its getting to the point were im wanting to do bad things to take my mind off it, the other day i thought of self harm and thats just not me!

i cant wait for sexx anymore!!!! :'(

[tbboltz92]

ok calm down......

You just need to occupy your time with an intrest or a hobbie. Something requires your full attention. Something that requires alot of concentration.

For example i do karate and that takes my mid off everything.

Also i've learned from expirence that if i jack off while iam horny after iam done jacking off i'am not horny anymore.

Being horny is no reason to cause any type of harm dude really it's just a hormone

[bowlheadhere]

ok calm down......

You just need to occupy your time with an intrest or a hobbie. Something requires your full attention. Something that requires alot of concentration.

For example i do karate and that takes my mid off everything.

Also i've learned from expirence that if i jack off while iam horny after iam done jacking off i'am not horny anymore.

Being horny is no reason to cause any type of harm dude really it's just a hormone

I agree!

I have found that any type of martial arts really does help (as long as it is not a McDojo). I have done ninjutsu since I was seven, and it has proven to help during such situations. The main point of learning a martial art is to learn discipline, through which you can excel in many other aspects of life when you apply such skills toward it. I recommend taking up a martial art.

[Rutherford The Brave]

im 14 and i have a g/f but its not sexual and it would be pretty stupid if we were, but omg im soo horny and just cant wait for sex... its getting to the point were im wanting to do bad things to take my mind off it, the other day i thought of self harm and thats just not me!

i cant wait for sexx anymore!!!! :'(

Sex happens to be well, an elephant in the room. I mean when you have it when your not ready then the two of you will find things getting rather tense. Sex is something you must wait for, you need to wait until your both ready mentally and physically for it. If your horny masturbate until she is ready, but until tehn dont rush it. Girls dont like that, they like a man who is willing to wait for them.

[YourFriend]

alot of people feel like you, you need to calm down...

[trevor20800]

just j/o and it usually is easier to hold back

[Ortizitthisone]

It's important to remember that the thought has probably crossed her mind as well. Note: I AM NOT AT ALL SAYING YOU SHOULD DO IT. In fact, I would be totally against that. 14 is way too young. Your brain is not fully developed, neither is hers, and you both need time to grow and understand the consequences of sexual activity.

As far as the sexual tension, that's very normal at your age. I wanted sex very badly at that age (in fact, I would hazard a guess to say that most people do). You're growing and your hormones are going crazy right now. Find hobbies to occupy your time and make friends that you enjoy spending time with. Finally, it's okay to masturbate! If the feelings get too overwhelming and you need release, do it! It's very healthy and important for men and women alike. In time, your hormones will balance and these feelings will subside (at least slightly :-p). Good luck!

[MARiFOX]

nothing a good zelda game cant fix :)

[gone]

two words "jack off"

[Donkey]

You're not the only one with this mate. Everyone experiences it.

Show you're strong and hold back though. Masturbation will release a good amount of sexual tension, so when you want sex, I suggest you do that as long as the situation's all right.

[JackOfClubs]

Its just raging hormones. I wouldn't act on it, it could ruin your relationship. Just masturbate, it'll make you feel much better.

[HelloWorld123456]

well masturbating is a great "other" option what to do when your girl doesnt want to .. ok now ... sex isnt everything ... take it easy .. i mean you have like your whole life to have sex ... just wait till you and she are ready dont rush things ... and when you do it ... be safe ...

[Skeln]

Yeah most of us are going through it right now, you're not the only one. I also suggest jacking off when you can because it releases alot of tension. Really though, there's nothing to stop these urges of yours and you just have to be strong for awhile. Until then you'll just have to live with it like every other human being.

[george17]

OMG!!! same with me!!
i just have to j/o loads to get my mind off of it

[The Joker]

Imagine her having sex with you, jerk off to that idea. That should hold you back for a bit.

[CestDan]

I think It's completely natural the urge to have sex in our age, I mean, we are teenagers. I guess that feelings are made by the changes that we have been experimenting, like hormones.

Now, If you don't want to do any bad because of your "excess" of horniness, well, just look for some hobby or keep your mind in other stuff.

If the last suggestion didn't work, well... j/o is a really one option.!!!

[kyle95]

no need for that mate. take it easy. the chaps here r giving u good advice. there r many other ways u can pleasure each other without doing it. try kissing and touching. my gf touches me and i touch her, its enough 4 us. if you truly love her, ur feelings for her will overcome the more aggressive impulses.

[orangecounty]

Well the thing with sex is it is just like masturbation...you do it once, the next day you will want it again. Simply having sex won't make your sexual desires go away (if you are thinking that perhaps trying it once will make your sexual frustrations go away). I suggest you stick to masturbation.