how do you ask your friend out

[cxdieker]

ok iv been friends with this guy andhes str8 from what i know im staying at his house next week and was wondering how do i ask him out p.s. iv known him for 2 years hes my best friend so i know every thing about him and i mean i love him but idk how to ask him out with out hurting are friend ship:what::what::what::what::what::what::what::what::what:

[orangecounty]

I am sorry, but I don't think you can. If he is straight, he is straight. If you are determined, you might want to start with questions...ask him about his sexuality, what he would be willing to do with men/women, etc (make it seem more like curiosity than a "move"). If he seems curious and open, then maybe you could ask him.

That is the only way I see it working out without ruining your friendship. You really need to find out if he is open to the idea before you ask him out.

[YourFriend]

Well you can't just ask him out, this has to be in doe over time, start with asking him what's his opinion on gay ppl and talk to him and eventually you will get the strength to ask him.... no other way to it...

[bowlheadhere]

I agree with those who have posted above. You can not really ask him out if he is in fact "straight". I would just ask (if you dont already know this) how he feels about gay people, and go from there. I wouldnt really recommend it though because it sounds like you guys have a great thing going, and that you dont want to wrexk or make your friendship werid in any way.

Hope this helps.

[orangecounty]

I must also warn you that teen boys sometimes will just be like "eww gross" and go tell everyone they know about what you just asked. I don't know your friends' personality; I am just throwing this out there as a possible reprocussion. If you aren't publically "out" doing this might result in everyone knowing.

[MikeMike4]

well it may not be the same for you but last night i asked my baby out. yes he was staright till now. we just went for a walk and i told him and i told him to think about it. thats all u got to do

[ChaoticHarmony]

take it easy. u just gotta make sure he wont totally ignore u. if u trust him and hes a good enough friend, then he shouldn't care, right? i just did pretty much the same thing. he doesnt like me like i like him, but we are still best friends.
good luck, man

[Fourth Dimension]

well if hes straight then that adds a problem but maybe hes being secret about likeing u just be careful u dont wanna ruin ur relationship and does he know ur gay or bi

[Joshm5816]

If he's straight I would imagine he wouldn't go out with you. I hate to be the party pooper but he likes girls and you like guys.

[alex95]

to be truth full you cant... If he is straight finding that out about will change his view on you maybe u guys should talk about sex with other girls or something and ask how long is your dick and stuff and start experimenting i guess and observe the way he looks at gay people

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads. Before yesterday's posts, this thread was 3 months old.
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