help. idk wat to do

[irishguy913]

i caught my gf making out with one of my close friends.idk if i shoud ask them both wat happen and risk my friends or should i just leave it alone. wat do u think i should do

[Blkbeltteen]

From what it sounds like. I think that shes cheating on you. I would ask her next time your alone together "Hey what was the deal with me catching you with ABC and doing XYZ" Y'know but don't like go up to her yelling at her or something because that would just ruin it more. Be Casual Be Calm, And most importantly be nice. Even though she is cheating you don't want to risk losing her 'Forever' since you yelled at her.

Best of Luck.

[Aves]

Ask her, not yell, and just talk it out. Yelling = NoNo

[The Boy Genius]

Ask her calmly what she was doing. Discuss. If she denies say firmly i saw it.

[orangecounty]

Well, if she is doing it now, she will likely do it again regardless of what you tell her or what promises she makes to your face. Once a cheater, always a cheater. She does not sound worth it to me. You should just let the girl go...let your friend have her (she will probably just do the same thing to him, which I am sure will give you much satisfaction).

Remember that threatening revenge just aggrivates the situation, yelling does not make your words more powerful, and launching insults at people causes them to tune you out.

[TODAYisTHEday]

Confront the problem.. Don't let it go. If you let it go it will not stop.