How do I become more content with being single?

[bobbyredsnow]

It always seems like i'm searching for a relationship and i feel like I'm losing myself it's driving me crazy, how do i become more content with just being single?

[Ripplemagne]

The best way to do so is to fill your schedule. Get a lot of hobbies. If you're doing other things, you won't be sitting around, dwelling on having "nothing to do."

Double entendres rock. I love myself. <3

...But yes. The ironic part is, when you fill your life with things that you're dedicated to, the wimmenz will be more interested in you. No girl likes a dude with nothing going on in his life. So, work on the betterment of yourself and let them come to you.

This is a public service announcement by the magnificent Ripplemagne. Please enjoy your day.

[bobbyredsnow]

The best way to do so is to fill your schedule. Get a lot of hobbies. If you're doing other things, you won't be sitting around, dwelling on having "nothing to do."

Double entendres rock. I love myself. <3

...But yes. The ironic part is, when you fill your life with things that you're dedicated to, the wimmenz will be more interested in you. No girl likes a dude with nothing going on in his life. So, work on the betterment of yourself and let them come to you.

This is a public service announcement by the magnificent Ripplemagne. Please enjoy your day.

o well i'm mostly gay but thanx for the advice

[Ripplemagne]

The same concept applies. And no sweat, Paesan'. Let me know if you have any questions or concerns.

[bobbyredsnow]

it just feels like i fantasize too much and i'm just being dumb and fooling myself

[Aves]

Get some hobbies, fill your time, don't become a gamer (trust me, it still gives you too much time to think)

[Ripplemagne]

it just feels like i fantasize too much and i'm just being dumb and fooling myself

When you're not actively doing something, your mind tends to dwell on things. People who are depressed tend to be people who have nothing going on. Take up dance, join a club/organization, get a job, do gardening, learn to cook/bake, get a pet, do something artistic. The world is filled with all kinds of things that you can explore and have fun with; don't let life pass you by.

[bobbyredsnow]

Well i guess the feelings will go away soon since i go away to camp next weekend

[IAMWILL]

There ya go!!!! Get out and do something new!!! Physcological breakdown time:

During teenagehood, yourself mentally and physically go through a lot of rapid changes that happen unexpectedly, and when things happen rapidly and unexpectedly, it brings stress. Stress is always something that no one likes, and the human body always seeks comfort when it is stressed. For most people, a short term solution would be watching the sunset, taking a nice long walk, being with friends, eating a nice dinner and watching some sports, and, a lot of times for teens, masturbating :D. But it all breaks down to comfort. In the long run, most people find having a boyfriend/girlfriend very comforting because it's someone they can rely on to be there for them, help them out, and just make life better :)
That's what your body and mind is craving right now. Someone else. Someone new. Make a lot of new friends at this camp, it will help you out. Take advantage of life, embrace oppurtunities, and strive to be happy.

[Raize]

You have to be patient. Just think, if you rush into something, it'll turn out horrible. You need to focus on yourself for the mean time. Make yourself a better person. That way, when somebody comes along, you'll be all good and confident. Don't go out and be obsessive, somebody will appear when you least expect it. There's no rush.

[tbboltz92]

it just feels like i fantasize too much and i'm just being dumb and fooling myself

Dude i feel the same way. In school it's really hard b/c no one wants to come out. But have stuff to do. Occupy your time. And trust me you'd be surpised who likes you if you do more than just sit around