Mastrubating w/ friends - PLEASE ANSWER

[Eddie22]

My friend and I like to mastrubate together a lot. Once I sucked on his penis and he jacked off in my mouth. I was worried I would have an STD, but it's been months and no symptoms have shown up. So if I did it once and didn't get an STD, is it possible that I would get an STD if I did it again? Should I be worried? I am also worried that I may have an STD that he could get if he sucked on my penis. How can I tell if I have an STD?

[Skeln]

OK, first of all with an STD you don't always see the symptoms. You could have it for years and not have any symptoms. The only for sure way to check is to be tested.

If you've given him a blowjob, and lest say you didn't get any STD's, then as long as he hasn't had any form of sex with anyone since then then you're alright to give him another one.

If you already had an STD, then by giving him a blowjob you probably already gaver him one, but it's only if you have one and he doesn't. If the infected area on you is only on your penis, then you probably couldn't have given him one just by giving him a blowjob, but if he were to give you one then it could spread to him mouth.

The examples I gave you are only acurate as long as either of you don't already have ab STD. If you want to make sure you don't have one, then see a doctor and get some test done.

[Eddie22]

What if I gave him a blow job and he washed his mouth out really well after, without swollowing anything? Would that prevent spreading an STD?

[Skeln]

It could as long as he didn't have any sores. As long as the STD infection didn't enter the bloodstream, then it's ok. I think. Not too sure. Might want to look it up on Google

[bowlheadhere]

Um, most STDs don't have symptoms right away. It really depends on the STD though. Some STDs are contracted by human interaction, such as herpes. Just a mere touch from his penis to your mouth could cause you to contract herpes. If you have just recently got any cold sores, then you have herpes for cold sores are actually herpes of the mouth. But on the other hand, some are transmitted through body fluid interaction, such as HIV/AIDS is (although it is not an STD). If you happened to have any cut whatsoever in your mouth, which you may not have even been able to feel/see, and he came in your mouth, then I would STRONGLY suggest that you go to the doctors office, explain the situation to him, and get tested!!! If he came in your mouth, or anywhere near your mouth or penis, then you should go get tested right now. That is what I would do.

Hope this helps.

[Eddie22]

Would I have herpes if I washed my mouth out after? Will it only effect you if you get it in your blood stream?

[bowlheadhere]

Even if you washed your mouth out, it would still be in the blood stream. It takes micro seconds for one to contract an STD after they have been exposed. Even if you washed your face, you could have herpes. You can never really tell until it shows up one day. If you dont know what herpes of the mouth (cold sores) look like, I would look it up on google.com.

If I were you, I would ask your friend if he was sexually active with anyone (gf/bf/random person) and if any of his parents have any STDs. If he says yes, I WOULD DEFINITELY GO TO THE DOCTOR RIGHT NOW!!!!! If he says no, I would still recommend that you go to the doctor anyways.

Hope this helps. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.

[empar]

hold on, if you haven't had sex (any kind, oral, anal, vaginal) then you cant have an std. if ur friend has not had any kind of sex before then he cannot have an std. so if this is the first time either of you has done this then there is no possible chance.

like everyone said above, if you or him have had any kind of sex before then there is a chance.

hope i helped

[Eddie22]

I'm really horny, and I want to do it again. I just wanted to make sure that anything bad wouldn't happen. Would wearing a condom or something help?

[bowlheadhere]

Have you asked him if he has an STD or HIV/AIDS?

[Eddie22]

No, but I don't think he would know. He's 13 just like me. How do you get tested for an STD without having your parents take you to the doctor?

[bowlheadhere]

Your friend could possibly gotten an STD by touching something, and then touching themselves (ie. herpes)... Or gotten HIV/AIDS via child birth/breast feeding.

Crap, I know there are places for teens to go, but I just forgot... um? I know there are some free teen clinics out there, so if you can just get to them, on the day they are for teens, then you should be able to go without your parents. Try searching a major city around you, or your state, and the word free teen clinic after it on google (Example- "Los Angeles free teen clinic").

Hope this helps. Feel free to ask any more questions

[The Joker]

Wearing a condom is always the best idea.

If you do not have an STD, you can't give one.

If he does not have an STD, he can not give you one.

If either of you had AIDS from child birth or breast feeding, you would know by now.

[Eddie22]

Thanks. It all helped a lot!

[Skeln]

Yeah, what the others said. And also stated before you can have an STD and have no sexual contact from anyone.

[The Joker]

Not sure about that, other than from AIDS. Basically, if someone has AIDS and there blood enters your blood stream, or you have unprotected sex with them, there is a chance of getting it.

[Noah_101]

My friend and I like to mastrubate together a lot. Once I sucked on his penis and he jacked off in my mouth. I was worried I would have an STD, but it's been months and no symptoms have shown up. So if I did it once and didn't get an STD, is it possible that I would get an STD if I did it again? Should I be worried? I am also worried that I may have an STD that he could get if he sucked on my penis. How can I tell if I have an STD?

How often do you masturbate together?
How many times have you sucked his penis?
Do you always let him cum in your mouth?
If he is your only partner and you are his only partner and you have not done this with any one else, then you are probably safe if he sucks your penis.:yeah:

[teendude_1991]

I would suggest you start using a condom. Condoms are for safe sex, and ejaculating in someones mouth without knowing if you have std's or not is not safe. USE PROTECTION...!

[DJthekid]

you cant always see the symptoms