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xhelgrindx
June 24th, 2009, 02:20 AM
Is there something wrong with me if i find it amusing to irritate or annoy my younger brother and sister??? :what:
byee
June 24th, 2009, 05:00 AM
Well, I'd doubt they find it amusing, so what you find entertaining isn't shared by them, so it's probably a good idea to stop.
People tend to intentionally irritate or annoy others because they are feeling hostile or angry about them. Try to figure out why that might be so, and address it directly, either with them, or privately, within yourself.
catw
June 24th, 2009, 05:18 AM
well i irate my brother coz its funny to wind him up. it amuses me so i wouldn't say there is any thing wrong with it. I thought it was what all brothers and sisters did.
Aneklusmos
June 24th, 2009, 09:31 AM
Its a common thing between sibling close in age. Its an unfortunate thing, but it happens. Try the classic, "put yourself in their shoes". You may just find out want to stop, because the things that go on between siblings are often huge
byee
June 24th, 2009, 12:48 PM
Caleb raises the very excellent issue of 'empathy', the ability to understand and appreciate someone else's feelings and experiences.
There's a huge chasm btw'n those who find pleasure intentionally causing emotional distress and those who find that thought utterly alien. Guess which one does better as an adult, when relationships with those you live with really matter?
Whisper
June 24th, 2009, 12:50 PM
well i irate my brother coz its funny to wind him up. it amuses me so i wouldn't say there is any thing wrong with it. I thought it was what all brothers and sisters did.
Speaking as the youngest of three and the only male
I think you're a bitch
Giles
June 25th, 2009, 10:55 AM
thats not very nice now is it? but tbh if i had a younger sibling then i;d do it tio them cos my older siblings did it to me (theyre 21/22 now)
punkjake
June 26th, 2009, 12:01 AM
well i irate my brother coz its funny to wind him up. it amuses me so i wouldn't say there is any thing wrong with it. I thought it was what all brothers and sisters did.
same with my bro XD but i stoped becuz i knew it was mean,as long as you don't go to EXTREME
punkjake
June 26th, 2009, 12:02 AM
Speaking as the youngest of three and the only male
I think you're a bitch
dude that was harsh,maybe your the bitch?
AllThatIsLeft
June 26th, 2009, 12:55 AM
Leave Kodie alone, he's just getting a point across.
sibling fights are normal, but don't purposely try to get them mad, that is foul.
I am a younger sister and i hateeee when my sister treats me like a kid, when i'm more mature than her. (i'm not saying that becuase i'm butt sore, she actually has a clinical mental deficiency)
and there will be a point when ur little siblings wont be so little, and when things turn around it wont be pretty.
punkjake
June 26th, 2009, 01:40 AM
Leave Kodie alone, he's just getting a point across.
me,did i do it?I don't know people's real names on here T_T
EDIT:Nevermind :D T_T
CestDan
June 30th, 2009, 04:13 PM
I think It can be a "normal" feeling in our age, but don't abuse!!!! They have feelings too, so try to be respectful with your siblings bc I'm sure that you wouldn't like that some one else bothers you.
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