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Michael94
June 23rd, 2009, 11:10 PM
hey oh im shy so how do go up to a girls and talk to them :confused:
fystr
June 23rd, 2009, 11:39 PM
i'm kind of shy around girls too but if a friend mine is talking with a group of girls i sometimes join them so i'm not there alone. my friends don't mind it.
Michael94
June 23rd, 2009, 11:48 PM
kool
pkid
June 24th, 2009, 12:00 AM
just have a normal conversation with them just like to any of your friends that are girls.. making funny little comments/jokes works too...but from then on you'll have to be good at having a conversation and making it last
Michael94
June 24th, 2009, 12:08 AM
thanks
pkid
June 24th, 2009, 12:13 AM
thanks
no problem..i like helping people :cool:
sebbie
June 24th, 2009, 04:37 AM
hey oh im shy so how do go up to a girls and talk to them :confused:
Right, this may come as a shock to you but GIRLS ARE NORMAL PEOPLE, speak to them like you would anyone else and don't be shy, talk about normal things, like school, parties you went to, etc :rolleyes:
Aneklusmos
June 24th, 2009, 09:22 AM
There are great guides
Guide to Making Friends (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25633)
How to ask someone out (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=30402)
Ripplemagne's Guide to asking her out (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=47185)
Other than whats mentioned in those, it all comes to having the courage to put yourself on the line. Think of it this way; whats the worse that can happen? a momentary feeling of rejection and after a little while you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back in the game. Many guys think they won't be good enough cause they've never tried. Good luck
Michael94
June 24th, 2009, 11:18 AM
yeah ok
Aves
June 24th, 2009, 05:02 PM
I suggest Ripplemagne's Guide, it's really thurough and good
metallicamaniac
June 28th, 2009, 05:20 PM
It's easy. All you do is act normal, confident, and be yourself. Act like your talking to guy friends, just not about guy stuff but unisex stuff. Crack a few jokes, mess with them a little. That all comes naturally to me, but you kno, just kinda go with the flow.
kyle95
July 1st, 2009, 07:52 PM
they're more perceptive than u think mate. be honest and tell them ur very shy. that's how i met my gf. they like to help u know, give them a chance.
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