should i go 4 the rebound?

[forestfire20]

the girl i have like been ubcessed with just found out the guy she liked is gay should i ask her out now or what please help poor little me

[forestfire20]

please someone ineed help!

[Aηdy]

ok i asked a female friend of mine and she agrees with me saying ask her.

[Bagle_worm]

Mmkay, this is a bit tricky, but the situation isn't really a classic "rebound".

The rebound feeling is made when a (usually girl) person gets out of a very special relationship. They then feel abandoned, lost, and want the comfort that another relationship will offer.

That's what triggers a rebound. Usually the person will latch on to the first person to ask them out, despertly trying to get back into the old habits of a strong (or, not-so-strong) relationship.

What you're talking about there (-points-) is just plain old dissapointment.
There wasn't any particular amount of loss. No very strong feelings - 'cept maybe anger and dissapointment. All it's done is to clear her list of "possible date-worthies" of that guy.

You may be able to squeeze yourself in there if you're fast and charming anough. Go for it. But don't think that you have some sort of advantage, other than that she'll be a tad more receptive to other guys.

[forestfire20]

ok im talking with her now and she said yes thank you guys

[Aηdy]

congratulations.. i hope it goes well for u to and good luck! girls are alot of trouble but they are worth it in the end ;)

[forestfire20]

lol and thank you

[Aηdy]

no problem! glad to be a help

[forestfire20]

trust me u were lol were all ready going out tomarow yay and ty soooooooooo much man i o u

[wadeexpo]

cool man gratz...
hope it works out for you...
and remember... its NOT cool to hurt girls emotionally (or physically for that matter) so if its not working out let her off slow