about masterbation with friends

[joliver]

I think everyone i know or have ever met will be freaked out about the idea of masterbating with (male) friends. I just wanted to know is it a good experience?

[silverblue]

I dont think that would.
I mean, you might be uncomfortable
or a friend might be uncomfortable with their body

[lengthy_brochure]

It's fun, but your friendship is NEVER the same after you j/o together.

[pkid]

I have the same question as you. And I also think my friends would find me weird if I asked them or talked to them about j/o with each other or just watching each other.

[Silent]

I think everyone i know or have ever met will be freaked out about the idea of masterbating with (male) friends. I just wanted to know is it a good experience?


It is.
The times I have it was great.


It's fun, but your friendship is NEVER the same after you j/o together.


Not true........only in some cases

[orangecounty]

I think it would ruin my friendships. My friends are very against all that kind of stuff so I would never ask them.

[bowlheadhere]

I think it is obvious to everyone that it is fun/good (based on peoples responses), but whether or not your friendship is "ruined" is based upon what you and your friend. You can not take the advice taht it "WILL wreck your friendship" because it is different from person to person. If your friend is REALLY homophobic, then I really suggest you do not. On the other hand, if your friend is really accepting then I suggest doing it. If your friend is extremely sexual, I would suggest doing it because they are most likely the most open to the thought of mutual masterbation.

Hope this helps.

[Wonder.]

My friends talk about j/o but mostly just jokes. I won't ask them unless I start dating one of them. I would wait for them to ask. Of what I've read and heard, anything can happen during/after you do. Something good or something bad.

[kyle95]

separate the two. keep your friends as friends and your private time, private

[orangecounty]

I wish I had some friends that would j/o with me...but I guess its for the best that they don't.

[rain]

only did it 1nce if u have any more questions pm me

[morganism]

I am a girl. But I have some advice...
I masturbate with my friends (girls) and it's great. You have to know that it is not bad, its just that your hormones are raging and you get curious.

I hope that helps.

[ezduzit323]

if you both want to do it then it can be a great experience.

[Biggerandbetter]

Ive done it with my friends before... what you mostly need to know how to do is how ask them to do it. Casue i just say i want to watch porn and they join in. its awkward at first but it's fun at the end... its 100% normal.

[Weather]

i dont know

[CoolBri94]

It's fun, I do it often but you need to make sure you two can trust each other to not go over boundries and stuff

[Eddie22]

I've mastrubated with friend. Its an amazing experiance. It's fun to have a friend that you can do sexy stuff with.

[CestDan]

I think it's completely normal, some people don't like it some people likes. The point here is that if you feel comfortable with yourself there's no problem. Besides, I think it's funny and such an awesome situation.

[lewis.]

To be honest there's no set answer to whether it's a right or wrong thing to do or whether you will enjoy it, as more often than not it depends of the people involved. If you're a naturally curious person it's only normal that you'll want to find out about things which aren't particularly easy to find. I have done with a friend before and so long as you genuinely trust the person you are doing with it, it's perfectly natural just use common sense as well like if the person appears uncomfortable just change the topic if you are at the "asking stage".

[kyle95]

it's an intimate act. frnds r just frnds. save it 4 sum1 spcl mate

[ocguy]

Yes, its great experience. I did masturbate with one of my close (male) friends before and my (male) cousin too.
It wasn't sexual; it was just practice. We looked at porn together.

[TODAYisTHEday]

I would'nt be freaked out at all since I'm mostly gay :D

[orangecounty]

I felt awkward just sitting there watching porn with my friend...I don't know if my people would be up to something like that.

[iamm12345n]

if i askd a friend to jerk of with me he would think i was gay or on drugs or something like that

[orangecounty]

if i askd a friend to jerk of with me he would think i was gay or on drugs or something like that

Can totally relate.

[The Joker]

I felt awkward just sitting there watching porn with my friend...I don't know if my people would be up to something like that.

I've watched porn with most of my friends, we've never jacked to it, it's just something we do.

[ggandolfe]

it depends how close of friends you are... plus if your friends is like bigger then you that could be embarrassing lol

[mafia puffs]

its a great experince when both of u r interested in doing it... think it as a way of giving each other pointers...

[MykeSoBe]

Well the truth is, everyone looks forward to it. Some people act like it'll kill them only because they are stubborn.

[bluestarkidd]

It has it's moments...lol...

It's ok...not a real big deal, i don't think you can talk anyone into it, so if they do it with you they are just as interested as you are.

[YourFriend]

it's an intimate act. frnds r just frnds. save it 4 sum1 spcl mate

kyle95, in most of you posts, you say something that isn't useful so pls shut up and don't say this kind of stuff again

on the subject, yes it is pleasurable, but it can be painful for your friendship

[CoolDude1]

The experience is great, but after your friendship with the friend is the never the same, and i wish i never did it with my friend now.

[IfPigsCouldFly]

Actually, it ussually is the same, your actually closer with ur friends after you masturbate with them

[Donkey]

^^^You are wrong. Lots of times, it will create awkwardness in friendships and will sometimes completely ruin the friendship.


Just make the right judgement. I don't know your friends, so I can't answer.

Just remember that masturbation is a private thing, and for some people it must stay that way.

[James18]

I hate repeating this answer so many times for different questions, but: it depends. Some relationships fundamentally change after an encounter like that (some for good, others for bad) and other relationships just don't change much at all. It really depends on what your relationship with the person(s) you have in mind is like, as well as the personality of the person. My advice would be to take it slow, AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, DON'T FORCE THE SITUATION.

[gone]

yea I wouldnt want to do it with anyone I know or am close too

[HxCxK]

When I did, it was AMAZING! best ever, and we got really close for a long time but when he got a girl friend there was no more contact with him. he just left..

[Appleton]

I've done it with friends n its never ever hurt r friendships. everybodys always been cool with it n theres never been any pressure. it depends on u and ur friends, how close u r n how open u r.

[marktheman]

I've been doing it with my best friend for a long time and our friendship is just as good as ever.

[mustang]

i always do it so i think it is good and realy enjoy it

[Noah_101]

its a very good experience
make sure its someone you trust
you will probably be closer as friends after

[whitecar]

It's a great experience, and there's nothing like it! I love doing it, and it's a ton of fun!

[SkyKing]

yeah it actually really depends, most likely you would build a better relationship with your friends (friendship wise). when i was in boarding in melbourn (i live in perth) i did it often with my friends and we are all really good friends:) but it might go the other way so.... really depends on where you live and the scociety there. Great fun :)

[iwanttodou]

it great

[Aves]

I wouldn't, that's just me though.

[kyle95]

kyle95, in most of you posts, you say something that isn't useful so pls shut up and don't say this kind of stuff again

on the subject, yes it is pleasurable, but it can be painful for your friendship

i offered my opinion on the topic mate. you don't have to agree with it and you certainly don't have to resort to personal attacks. i'm happy that you indeed derive great pleasure from pulling your hampton in front of other chaps.

[Zenon]

i think it would be fun.

[adamsmada93]

I wouldn't just do it with anyone, but if you're really good friends with and can totally trust each other (and know that your friend is open-minded enough that he doesn't think it's immoral or anything) I think it can be pretty awesome. My best best friend and I have been masturbating together for a little more than a year now and it's amazingly cool. It's not romantic at all, but it's a really great bond that we're definitely closer than ever and just are completely comfortable and open with each other. With that kind of friend I'd say masturbating together can be really great.

[Joshm5816]

Did it once and now I don't talk to my friend. It became to akward.

[DTeen]

I've done it and were still good friends...

[tbboltz92]

It might be a bonding expirence for some or a terrible terrible mistake for others.

I think the people that do and stay freinds have been freinds since they were like 2 I think that kind of thing requires a very strong relationship