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Triceratops
June 23rd, 2009, 09:55 AM
I was just wondering, how noticeable or bad do your scars look?

FILL THIS OUT:
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Do you have a lot of scars?
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
How long have you had your scars?
How long do they usually take to heal?
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?

Thanks.

IanMilo
June 23rd, 2009, 10:02 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?depends but usually 2-5
Do you have a lot of scars?no i cut the same place usually
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?wrist
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?leave them showing idc
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?no
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?no
How long have you had your scars?a year
How long do they usually take to heal?2-4 weeks
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?ashamed and i havnt cut in about 5 weeks so far :)

Sapphire
June 23rd, 2009, 10:17 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Some are about a 7 and others are about a 3 so I'll say 5
Do you have a lot of scars?
Yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Arms, hands, legs, feet, stomach, chest.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
If they are dark then I cover them up. I only really don't cover them up when they are paler.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Yes. I didn't go swimming for a long time because of them.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Yes.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
Only once they have already seen them to show that they are fading.
How long have you had your scars?
Some are from over 10 years ago and some are a couple of months old.
How long do they usually take to heal?
I don't know.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
I am ashamed.

BlackenedSilver
June 23rd, 2009, 10:23 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? Umm.. About a 6/7 But some are alot shallower more like 2/3 So Around a 5.
Do you have a lot of scars? Yes.
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms, Stomach, Thighs and Left Shoulder.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I try to cover them up, but some I leave showing.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? They havn't stopped me doing anything except 1) Buying certain clothes 2) Taking off my jacket/bracelets 3) Wearing swimsuits (But I didnt do that often anyway)
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Probably
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yea, some of my Friends and My Mum, because they found out about it and asked to see.
How long have you had your scars? Just over a year now.
How long do they usually take to heal? Ermm.. About 2/3 weeks. Depending on the depth.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Im slightly ashamed, but not proud =/. I hide some scars because Im really just ashamed of how often I used to cut but not the fact that I did.

OnlyByTheNight.
June 23rd, 2009, 10:34 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Roughly a 5
Do you have a lot of scars?
Yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Arms.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
It depends how noticable they are
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Yes. I don't go swimming because of them.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Yes.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
Once to my friend who knows about my cutting.
How long have you had your scars?
The worst ones are about 3 months old.
How long do they usually take to heal?
A long time.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Ashamed, what is there to be proud about?

Truth
June 23rd, 2009, 11:48 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?: The scars i have left are from deep cuts, so they stick outwards.. So, -1/10?

* Do you have a lot of scars? Alot of white ones in the same area and acouple of bigger red ones, and some purple-ish ones from scratching.

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars?: Wrist

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?: It doesnt matter to me at all, people can think i do it for attention if they want.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?: No, but my sadness does everyday.

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?: Yes.

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?: They got told because of my teacher, so i just made them believe i wanted to stop.

* How long have you had your scars?: 1-9 months old.

* How long do they usually take to heal?: A month, accept the deep ones arent going away alone.

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?: Proud, cause i atleast aint dead. It's an a ccomplishment.

MadManWithaBox
June 23rd, 2009, 03:13 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? - 5 i reckon
Do you have a lot of scars? - quite a few on my upper body
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? - upper body, legs to a certain extent
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? - well up to now ive been covering but now ive decided to not give a shit anymore
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? - no, the thing that stops me generally socialising with people outside one friend is depression, and severe antisocialness
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? - aye
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?- to one my ex friends who then turned around and stabbed me in the back as they found someone better, as do 99% of my friends
How long have you had your scars? - bout a year i reckons. for the deep ones
How long do they usually take to heal? - on average six weeks depends on the depth.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? - i was ashamed, but now i say screw you all its my life piss off

Miss Punk
June 23rd, 2009, 03:49 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? Around 5 I guess, but there are a few very deep where I went too far, but they've healed quite a bit.

* Do you have a lot of scars? When you can see the faint ones, yes

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Both arms

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I generally cover them up, but today I went out and didn't cover them

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Yes, going to a party

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yes

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? No

* How long have you had your scars? I don't know

* How long do they usually take to heal? Depends how deep

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Neither, they're just there

Sunshine Girl
June 23rd, 2009, 04:01 PM
*On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Um it varies. some 1-3 and other 4-6 or more.
*Do you have a lot of scars?
yea. some are fading. others are not. still really noticable
*What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Forearms.
*Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
cover them up.
*Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
every single day. wearing t-shirts, swimming, etc.
*Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
yes.
*Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
nope. i would like to soon enough though.
*How long have you had your scars?
since begining of 8th grade. so .. around 2ish years
*How long do they usually take to heal?
depends on how deep.
*Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Mostly ashamed.

MysticalBurrito
June 23rd, 2009, 04:05 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 7

* Do you have a lot of scars? yes

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms legs thighs stomach area chest ankles...

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
Cover them up unless i'm around people that know

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Swimming yes

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Umm some ex friends did now they call me "emo"
* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? No. Forced yes

* How long have you had your scars? Years

* How long do they usually take to heal? Years some arent even fading yet from when i was 13

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed

Project Delta
June 23rd, 2009, 04:35 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? vary from 2-7
Do you have a lot of scars? yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? left fore-arm
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? showing
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? not yet, think they will though
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yes
How long have you had your scars? 5 months (since i started SH)
How long do they usually take to heal? 3-4 weeks
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Proud. Wear them as trophies of a battle i have won.

Atonement
June 23rd, 2009, 05:14 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 3,4,5 ish
Do you have a lot of scars? Not terribly many, I have more scars from accidents than self harm. My self harm doesn't scar usually
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Most arms, very few on my ankles and thighs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? Meh, most are old and don't look like self harm (lines organized) most are all different angles, places, shapes and sizes, hence, they look like I'm a rough and tough person... which I'm not
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? They stopped me once from going swimming just because there were fresh cuts and scars, but usually, no.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yes.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yes
How long have you had your scars? A few years
How long do they usually take to heal? 6 months and you usually can't see them unless you're really looking. Small ones, a couple weeks, big ones, never fade
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? I'm ashamed of my actions, I regret ever starting, but I am proud that none are fresh. over two months self harm free. :D

DinoRAWR
June 23rd, 2009, 06:19 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? some are only 2 or 3, others are 7/8
Do you have a lot of scars? yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? arms, stomach/hips, legs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? cover them up
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? not really, I dont wear skirts/shorts so I just need to wear long sleeves
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yeah
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? nope
How long have you had your scars? about 6 months
How long do they usually take to heal? depends on how deep they were, 1/2 weeks
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?Ashamed

Ruiner
June 24th, 2009, 11:33 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? mostly 5/6, the ones on my stomach are probably more 2s or 3s.
Do you have a lot of scars? my thighs are a different to the rest of my legs.
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? thighs mainly, stomach or arms occasionally.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? hide them! not too difficult, I just wear boardies when swimming.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Before I bought boardies, they stopped me swimming. I'm also anxious as hell when I wear shorts.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Nope.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Two friends and my ex.
How long have you had your scars? About 3 years now.
How long do they usually take to heal? Don't know. I never pay attention to the healing/really give them a chance.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed, mostly.

Shattered Soul
June 24th, 2009, 04:41 PM
I was just wondering, how noticeable or bad do your scars look?

FILL THIS OUT:
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
About 2-5
Do you have a lot of scars?
Quite a few
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Arms, wrist, leg.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
Up until recently I've covered them up, but I'm starting to become less self conscious. My mum says if I dont make a big deal out of them, others wont either.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
They stopped me going swimming with friends a few times.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Yes, today. It was the first time I went out with my arms showing. Got a little bit self-conscious at one point, but was ok :)
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
Yeah, my mum asked to see.
How long have you had your scars?
January this year (probably about 6 months then?)
How long do they usually take to heal?
None of mine have yet, even from January, for some reason I scar extremely easily.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
I am ashamed of how I got them. But I'm proud that I have stopped (about 2 months now :) ) , I'm proud that I've so far managed to break that addiction...due to my addictive personality, however, it has been replaced by an addiction to Pepsi (for some reason) and texting people (that one's good, keeps my hands busy when I want to)
Thanks.
- Bold added by yours truly :)

StrawberryCyanide
June 24th, 2009, 06:39 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
at least a 7 probably, they vary from like 6 to 10.

Do you have a lot of scars?
Yes.

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
covering my lower and upper arms (left and right) all over my legs, my back, my stomach, back of my neck, the inside of my mouth and my hands.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
I try to cover them up as best i can.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
They stop me from doing pretty much everything social.

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Yes, my classmate saw some of the scars on my hand.

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
Not really "showed" them... but a couple of my close friends know about my si.

How long have you had your scars?
The oldest ones are 4 years old.

How long do they usually take to heal?
2-3 months or sometimes as long as 6 months for them to heal and turn into scars, only my really old scars have faded to white, none of them are unnoticible.

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
I hate them.

dead
June 24th, 2009, 09:26 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
about a 5
Do you have a lot of scars?
yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Legs, arms, and hands
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
Try my best cover them up, I always have medical tape on me
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party
etc)?
No, I wear medical tape to hide it
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
no
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
no
How long have you had your scars?
couple years
How long do they usually take to heal?
2 months
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
ashamed

peaceloverugby
June 25th, 2009, 04:33 PM
FILL THIS OUT:
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? some one, some ten, some in between
Do you have a lot of scars? oh yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? legs, a few upper arms, back, waist
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I usually try to not cut in areas that might be seen
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? I used to not go swimming with my girlfriend because she didn't know that I cut, but now that she knows, they don't stop me
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yeah, guys at school in the locker room, but they don't say anything
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yeah, Jack and my girlfriend
How long have you had your scars? since i first started cutting (about 3 years ago)
How long do they usually take to heal? quite awhile actually
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? i'm not proud of the ones that I caused. But the rugby ones.....chicks dig 'em :cool: :cool:

kt2369
June 27th, 2009, 12:43 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 9
Do you have a lot of scars? yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? wrists, legs, arms, shoulder
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? i try to cover up
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? no, i just try to keep people from seeing them
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? no, they just asked what happened
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yes
How long have you had your scars? about 3 months
How long do they usually take to heal?
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?

eikookmi
June 27th, 2009, 01:39 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? depends...2-6?
Do you have a lot of scars? I dont like them, i try not to cut
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Wrist. hands. fingers. lower arm. upper arm. thigh
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? i try not to show around the house, otherwise, i don't give a ****
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? no
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yes..
How long have you had your scars? i dunno. my oldest is mostly faded
How long do they usually take to heal? iono..
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Neither? I'd cut more but there is only so much skin. Maybe i should just go over one spot,but hmm

BuryYourFlame
June 27th, 2009, 01:48 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? idk really...maybe a 3?
Do you have a lot of scars? not really...
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? right arm
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? i have only ever tried to hide te cuts, as the scars are a lot less easy to see, but if i do self harm again, i wont try to hide them (except from family).
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? no
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? maybe my english + pe teachers...i hope not...
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yes
How long have you had your scars? i started self harming from around then end of january, so i guess since then.
How long do they usually take to heal? a week?
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? hm, not either really...

Mcdae
June 27th, 2009, 07:44 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
depends how angry i was before them, between 3 and 6

Do you have a lot of scars?
some are too close to tell the differance but quite a few

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
my right arm completely healed :D
so just my left arm and my thighs :-/

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
nobody has ever seen more than the last 1 or 2 on my wrist (by accident)

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
doing sport in school, swimming on holiday in dubaii and spain, scared the s*** out of me when other people were being told to take off their jackets at an airport :S

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
2 of my friends saw, and it spread around my 6 closest friends VERY quickly

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
never

How long have you had your scars?
the first time was about a year ago

How long do they usually take to heal?
depends, i still have 3 from january that are red :S and a lot of others just turn white in 6 or 7 weeks

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
very ashamed, i dont like looking at them

Elmo
June 28th, 2009, 09:56 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Probably a 3 or 4?
* Do you have a lot of scars?
Quite a few bunched up together.
* What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Wrists, thigh.
* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
I don't really think about it so some people have asked about them.
* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? No, it's not really noticeable since their healing now.
* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Yeah that guy was a real douche. spread it in my 2nd period. good thing only 6 people are in that class!
* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Nah I keep it to myself and said it was my cat.

* How long have you had your scars?
couple months.
* How long do they usually take to heal?
no idea, their still healing
* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Ashamed, they make my wrists look ugly.

1_21Guns
June 29th, 2009, 11:38 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? about 4 maybe
Do you have a lot of scars? no, only about 5
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? arms
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? used to cover them up, now ive just given up trying to hide it, nobody notices
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? they used to stop me going out.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yeah, my mum
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yes, to tell my friend so she could help me stop
How long have you had your scars? 50-60 days
How long do they usually take to heal? they havent yet
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? ashamed really. I took the easy way out.

Flutterfly
June 29th, 2009, 03:41 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 1-9
Do you have a lot of scars? yeah
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? wrists, sides, legs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? leave them
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? no
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yeah
How long have you had your scars? about 1 1/2 years
How long do they usually take to heal? 1week to a few months
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? ashamed

GreyxRainbow
July 1st, 2009, 07:16 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? I think.. 1-3

* Do you have a lot of scars? No.

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Wrirst, stomach, right leg.

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? Cover.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Yes. I don't swim anymore.

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yes.

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Once, to a friend.

* How long have you had your scars? 11 months - a few days [The first was 11 months ago, the last a few days]

* How long do they usually take to heal? For a cut to heal, so it becomes a scar, 2 weeks - 2 months (depends on the cut), and for the scars to fade, almost a year.

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed.

Spin
July 3rd, 2009, 07:02 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? It varies from 1 to 7.5
Do you have a lot of scars? Sort of, most have faded away though.
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Forearm, wrist(these are really shallow though, I was too scared to do some real damage), shoulder, thighs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? Try my best to cover them up
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Yes, I skipped out on this party a couple of months ago and it would've been my first real highschool party. :\
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? My older sister has noticed them and she was on the verge of finding out but I convinced her that they weren't what they actually were.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? I showed three of my friends because I was under the influence at the time. :/
How long have you had your scars? I've been cutting for a little over a year now, most of the ones from a year ago has faded though.
How long do they usually take to heal? Some take 2-3 weeks, some haven't healed and are still very noticeable, it's been a couple of months since I did them.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Very ashamed. I think I would go as far to say I hate myself for them. For some sick, twisted reason I like seeing them but I wouldn't call that being proud because I wouldn't dare let anyone else see them.

ylllek nivyer
July 3rd, 2009, 09:52 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
well, some were like 11 from my suicide days.
but most are like 6.

Do you have a lot of scars?
yes. tons.

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
chest, legs, left arm, stomache, feet.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
i don't show them off, but if some one sees them, i'm not ashamed.
i don't really care what people say.
Fuck em.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
no. other than like taking the bandana off my wrist when they're fresh.

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
probly.

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
maybe if they ask to see.
people who have seen on accident apparently told everybody else about how bad they
were, then people were interested in seeing.

How long have you had your scars?
since i was like 10.
i didn't even know what i was doing back then.

How long do they usually take to heal?
depends on the cut.
mine are all old now.

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
i wouldn't say "proud," cuz that sounds just like i did it to be "cool" or something.
and i didnt. my scars are REAL you know? like my Feelings were real, and it reminds me of what i've been through and i appreciate most of them cause it helped me through some rough stuff. it doesnt let me forget, or take my life now for granted. like i look at them and smile, because the change in my life is evident. so, i am neither proud, nor ashamed.

piggy-wiggy
July 4th, 2009, 08:27 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? from lowest bout 1, highest 6...
Do you have a lot of scars? ya quite a bit, although most are healing...
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? arms[elbows to wrist] and tboth thighs....
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? cover them up, as most are newish, and i dont want attention for them...
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? i dont think so, maybe swimming once tho...
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? nope, thank god, i dont no what i wud do in that sutuation...
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? no wayy, i cant...
How long have you had your scars?probabl nearly 6 months, so there all still pinkish...
How long do they usually take to heal? usually 2-3 weeks, if im lucky.. nearly all the old ones faded...
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? vry ashamed, i do it for my reasons, and the thought of even being proud of it, makes me scared as i hope i never have nething too big to hide....

Wakoabs
July 5th, 2009, 05:40 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 1-5
Do you have a lot of scars? yes I surpose
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? arms and wrists some on me thigh
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?cover them up or theres alot of questions
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? swimming
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? havn't told no one and yes a friend saw in p.e and likned them up
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? no but I let someone see not sure why
How long have you had your scars? 2 1/2 years? I think
How long do they usually take to heal? very very long time
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? ashamed angery then it makes me want to do it again

TaBear.
July 5th, 2009, 12:55 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 3-9

* Do you have a lot of scars? Yes.

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms, wrists, legs, stomach, sides, ribs, chest.

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? Most of the time, I cover them.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Yes.

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yeah.

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? No.

* How long have you had your scars? Five years.

* How long do they usually take to heal? The scars? After about six months they'll start to turn white rather then pink. The open cuts? Three weeks or so.

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed.

Breathless
July 6th, 2009, 02:23 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Do you have a lot of scars? hundreds, but they're all on top of eachother.
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? my right thigh and butt.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? its not a part i generally expose to the public... but i cover them.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? swimming, getting changed in front of others, wearing shorts
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? i suspect one person might have.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? once,to a friend.
How long have you had your scars? last november?
How long do they usually take to heal? i dont know, they're all layered... so i cant tell really.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
i dont know. i just know they're there.

iamafterhours
July 6th, 2009, 08:04 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? Some 4-5, some 7-8

* Do you have a lot of scars? Relatively speaking probably not.

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms, Legs

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I've tattooed over alot of them. The rest I don't make a conscious effort to cover anymore. I used to...

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Stopped me getting into uni

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? I'm sure they have. I won't make excuses anymore

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yes.

* How long have you had your scars? Some I've had since I was 12. Others only 7 months.

* How long do they usually take to heal? Couple of months? Give or take

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Neither. Theyre just a part of life for me.

sweetxnovember
July 6th, 2009, 09:51 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 3-6

Do you have a lot of scars? No, maybe around 15..I only do it when I'm pissed or cant deal with sh*t anymore. It's not like an addiction for me, more like a coping mechanism.

What part(s) of your body do you have scars? My left wrist.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Yeah, swimming. This summer's going to be hell. =[

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yeah, my little cousin. I should have given myself up but i was to afraid of what might happen. I lied my a** off through that conversation.

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? No.

How long have you had your scars? I don't know.. 8 months?

How long do they usually take to heal? I don't know. Never payed attention to the healing process, I just do it and cover up. All i know is that they're there and they're not going away.

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? I'm ashamed as hell, How do you think I feel when people ask me why i always wear long sleeves?

sydney90
July 9th, 2009, 10:59 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 5
Do you have a lot of scars? Yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Upper thighs, stomach
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? No one knows apart from my bf and I always cover it up, therefore no bikins and keep my dress from flying up in the wind!
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? No
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? No
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? BF
How long have you had your scars? 4yrs
How long do they usually take to heal? 2 Not sure
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Obviously ashamed!

Myzarri
July 12th, 2009, 05:43 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
7-8

* Do you have a lot of scars?
yes

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
all over just not my back.

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
they are always covered.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
yes.

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
once.

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
only if asked by an authority figure.

* How long have you had your scars?
some are 5 years, others are a month or so.

* How long do they usually take to heal?
about 2 months

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
im so ashamed. i hate myself for it.

PoisonedRazorBlades
July 12th, 2009, 06:45 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Not deep, about 2 or 3
Do you have a lot of scars?
I guess
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Arms and legs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
Cover them up
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
No
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
My mum saw one, I lied about the cause of it
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
A few times
How long have you had your scars?
About 2 years to now
How long do they usually take to heal?
Up to 2 weeks to properly heal
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
A bit of both to be honest

dstnyisurs
July 15th, 2009, 11:04 PM
FILLING OUT. XD

On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? About a three or four, except some are more from 5-on.
Do you have a lot of scars? Yes. Lots and lots.
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? My upper left arm has more then 50, all not very noticable because they are all layered and close together. My upper thigh. A few on my wrist and a few on my stomach.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? The ones on my upper arm aren't really noticable unless you are looking for them because they look like a discoloration of the skin simply. The others I cover up.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? No, they haven't.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yes, and I explained it away. I don't think she believed me, but it doesn't matter.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? My ex-best friend. A few friends of mine I trust.
How long have you had your scars? Since 2007 I guess? That's when I started cutting.
How long do they usually take to heal? Anywhere from a few days to a week or two. Depends on how deep.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? I'm not ashamed or proud, but I feel like they are a part of me, and I could never get rid of them or feel ashamed of them because I did everything for a sincere and important reason. I never want to forget how I feel now, and they are marks of my pain.

Zephyr
July 15th, 2009, 11:51 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
3-9
Do you have a lot of scars?
Yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Arms and legs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
Leave them showing. If anybody asks, I just say I was in a wreck.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Getting a job
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Yeah, the majority of my coworkers.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
No
How long have you had your scars?
6 years being the oldest
How long do they usually take to heal?
Depends on how deep they are. Anywhere from 3 months to several years.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Neither

Atropos
July 16th, 2009, 12:15 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 6.

* Do you have a lot of scars? Probably 20-25.

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms, & Legs.

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I can't hide them.. :(

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Nope.

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yes.

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yes.

* How long have you had your scars? 5-6 months

* How long do they usually take to heal? They healed, they are complete scars now.

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed..

Holding On*
July 16th, 2009, 01:38 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Some are around a 7, most around 5, some are less then that.

Do you have a lot of scars?
Not really. When I cut I do a few at a time, but I do them slowly and controlled, making it last longer but noticing more pain and seeing more blood D: x)

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
3 or 4 fingers, palm of hand, some very small faint ones from 2 years ago when i done it on my wrist, but mostly theyre all on my hip area, and one on my leg but thats nearly faded alltogether.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
I don't deilberatly cover them but my hips and leg ones are covered by clothing no matter what I wear, and the hand ones can be seen but no one has seen/said anything yet

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Nope

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Not sure... When I told the few real life people that know, I said there was something I needed to tell them that was hard to talk about etc, but I never said what it was, I showeed them. :/

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
Yep! Read up! XD

How long have you had your scars?
Most of them are only the last 4 months or so, but I done it in year 8 (3 years ago), but only I can see them ones if I look VERY hard.

How long do they usually take to heal? Not sure really... about a week or so? Unless I sit and pick at it as it heals then ti could be like 2/3 weeks

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Proud.

ModernSlang
July 16th, 2009, 04:50 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
1-5

Do you have a lot of scars?
There are quite a few on my legs.

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Legs, a few on my arms, hand.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
I've tried to cover them up, but I don't care too much anymore. People can think what they want.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Like others have said, swimming has been a hassle.

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yes, recently I've stopped trying to hide them.

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
My mom. I felt horrible right after.

How long have you had your scars?
Few months I suppose. They aren't very dark except the ones on my hand.

How long do they usually take to heal? Not too long.

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Proud in a way. They remind me of how bad I felt and how much better things have gotten.

Viral Death
July 18th, 2009, 02:54 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? about a 2
Do you have a lot of scars? Nope
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Top of the wrists
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? leabe them showing
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? No
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yeah!
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yes
How long have you had your scars? About 4 months or I think its 5
How long do they usually take to heal? Idk havent heal'd
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? I dont think eather just I think of them as a reminder

babyskela
July 18th, 2009, 01:23 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? depends what you call deep
Do you have a lot of scars? yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? wrists, arms, thighs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? i try to cover them
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? yes
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yes
How long have you had your scars? about 2-3 years
How long do they usually take to heal? the scars usually dont.
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? very ashamed

YesterdaysNews
July 18th, 2009, 03:10 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
4

Do you have a lot of scars?
yes

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
left wrist, right thigh

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
I hide them until they arent as noticable

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
going outside when its warm

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
yes

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
yes, only 2 people have seen my scars but 3 people know that I cut

How long have you had your scars?
a year and a half

How long do they usually take to heal?
about a month when they stop being red, I consider that healed

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
after they heal, I feel weak... and it makes me want to cut :\

aLeX..
July 24th, 2009, 03:04 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 4-5

* Do you have a lot of scars? 4

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms & Hand

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I try my best to cover them up.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Taking off my coat/cardigan etc...

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yes

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yes

* How long have you had your scars? About 7-8 months

* How long do they usually take to heal? About a week

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Very ashamed.

Harley Quinn
July 25th, 2009, 05:27 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 6
Do you have a lot of scars? yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? arms thighs sides
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
I hide them
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? nope not yet
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? my friend see them
How long have you had your scars? 2 years
How long do they usually take to heal? about 2 weeks
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? neither i feel guilty

Beautiful Obsession
July 25th, 2009, 04:15 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 3
Do you have a lot of scars? yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? most arm and top of legs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? try really hard to cover them
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? going swimmin
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? nope
How long have you had your scars? a while
How long do they usually take to heal? they arnt
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? very ashamed

unexpected57
July 27th, 2009, 09:53 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? anywhere from like a 2-7 probably
Do you have a lot of scars? i have tons. i cut over on the same place but my entire right thigh is covered scars over scars. its gross.
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? i have tons on my right thigh, and a few on my left thigh.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? no one has ever seen my scars. i always cover them up
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? swimming and stuff? most skirts? nothing too big
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? no one has period.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? no
How long have you had your scars? almost 5 years
How long do they usually take to heal? it really depends
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? i am very very ashamed.

Reality
July 28th, 2009, 06:03 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 10.
Do you have a lot of scars? 40-50.
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms and legs.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I try my best to hide them.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Yes. They stopped me going swimming in school for the last month of it.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? My godfather, yeah.
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Friends, yes.
How long have you had your scars? Months.
How long do they usually take to heal? 2 weeks-1 month
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Very ashamed.

wildeyed
July 28th, 2009, 08:58 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
it depends, my arms are around a 3 or so, but the ones
on my legs at about a 6-7

Do you have a lot of scars?
i never used to, but unfortunately i do now.

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
both arms (not wrists) and left hand, and anywhere from my knees up on
both legs, mainly my right thigh.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
i don't bother with the ones on my arms/hands, or on my legs really..
but the worst ones are on my upper thigh, which i cover around people i dont know (i.e beach)

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
not really.. just kind of suck it up and get it over with, whatever it is.

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
yeah, at school people used to ask what happened to my arms or legs and i'd just blame it on my then puppy (now grown up)

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
Yeah, i've only intentionally shown my current boyfriend the ones on my arms,
but he's seen the ones on my legs.. he know not to mention it though.

How long have you had your scars?
my arms, about a year or so. maybe 6 or so months even.
though, my thigh.. since i started constantly, about 4 years up until a few months ago

How long do they usually take to heal?
general time for healing, about 10 or so days. the deeper ones though,
can be up to a few weeks or maybe even a month to properly heal.


Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
yeah, im ashamed. i cant stand to look at them sometimes, but other times
i could care less to be honest.

Littleman
July 31st, 2009, 04:43 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? i would same most like 4 or 5, one or two being 7 or 8
Do you have a lot of scars? does inbetween 15 and 25 count?
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Legs, Knees
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? Cover them up
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Swimming, besides the fact that im overwieght, this is the other reason
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? No
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? The girl i love knows i have them, but shes never seen them
How long have you had your scars? 6 years
How long do they usually take to heal? couple of months or so
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? ashammed, they are something of my past that i have to carry around with me, i dont like them.

Syvelocin
August 3rd, 2009, 04:03 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? Eh, on average I'd say a three, but mainly because I have no access to anything but scissors.

Do you have a lot of scars? My arm is full of them

What part(s) of your body do you have scars? They're all on my left arm

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I wear arm warmers/gloves while they're healing, but when they aren't as noticeable I leave them.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something? Ehhh... well, only thing I can think of is dressing out in gym class and going to the restroom during school, since I have to take off my gloves to wash my hands.

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? My parents, a few of my friends, and my therapist.

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Nope, though I really feel like doing it and sharing my pain with the snobs at my school. Maybe then they won't groan over breaking a nail. But everyone else has either seen them or just ripped off my glove.

How long have you had your scars? Since I made them. Six months

How long do they usually take to heal? Haven't healed yet

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed when I relapse, proud because it makes me different.

Ezika
August 7th, 2009, 03:36 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? depends, 3-7

Do you have a lot of scars? yes

What part(s) of your body do you have scars? one faint one on my left arm, all the rest are on my left thigh.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? The one on my arm is explained as falling out of a tree, i dont usually wear clothes that show anything above my knee.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something? swimming, wearing shorts, getting changed in public changing rooms

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Only the one on my arm, easily explainable.

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Only my best friend, she managed to pursuade me to wear shorts and i needed reassurance that they werent showing (she already knew about it though)

How long have you had your scars? Some are about 1 1/2 years, some a few weeks.

How long do they usually take to heal? Dont know really, shallow ones not very long maybe a week or two? the deeper ones take longer. There's one from xmas thats still pretty red.

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Very ashamed of them, the thought of anybody accidently seeing them has caused me to have a panic attack on many occassions.

iceyfresh
August 7th, 2009, 05:16 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 3-10

* Do you have a lot of scars? YEA

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Arms face legs chest

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? most arent that noticable just legs and arm you really notice

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? nope

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yea

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yea

* How long have you had your scars? a llloooonnng time scince i was like 4

* How long do they usually take to heal? permanent scars

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? neither they dont bother me

ArtistInNeed
August 7th, 2009, 10:59 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 2-3

* Do you have a lot of scars? yes

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? legs, inner thighs, ankles, a few very light ones on wrist

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? i usually cut where nobody can see them

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? no

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?yes

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? yes, my boyfriend and my art teacher

* How long have you had your scars? years, since fourth grade. im a freshman in college now.

* How long do they usually take to heal? a few weeks

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? both

BeautifulSilence
August 7th, 2009, 04:40 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Most are shallow but there's like two which seem like they'll never disappear
Do you have a lot of scars?
Ummm, I guess
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Shoulders and thighs
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
Cover
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Nahh.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Mhmm
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
Yes
How long have you had your scars?
Err. The ones that are still visible, probably about half a year
How long do they usually take to heal?
Pssh. They don't >.<
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Neither.

dizzydinosaur
August 9th, 2009, 01:20 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? some are 2/3 some are 9/10

Do you have a lot of scars? Yes

What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Thighs, wrists, shoulders, tummy, knees, sides...

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? I leave some showing, like my wrist, shoulder and knee ones I'm ok with, but the rest are always covered

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? They make me really tense, which I guess stops me having as much fun as I could have if i wasn't worried

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yeh, loads of people

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Yepp

How long have you had your scars? First scar was from April 03, last scar was from May 09

How long do they usually take to heal? Depends how deep

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?I wouldn't say proud, but I'm not ashamed

SincEreLyYeLLiNgBaCk
August 12th, 2009, 11:55 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
-1-5

Do you have a lot of scars?
-yeah, but except for a few on my leg, you don't notice them at first glance (except, if it is really bright or sunny)

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
-forarms, thigh, and stomach/hip

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
-I try really hard to cover them up, but they usually fade pretty well so I only really have to focus on the really red or noticable ones

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
-hahaha lets see... swimming, locker rooms, T-shirts, shorts, hooking up with my boyfriend, gym class, sports... pretty much anything where there was a chance they could show

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
-Yeah, i accidentally took off my sweatshirt during class, but i just told the girl who saw that they're from my cat and she believed me (i'm an unlikely suspect, so people usually don't connect the dots)

Have you shown anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
-my friend. my mom demanded to see them once, if that counts.

How long have you had your scars?
-its mostly my older cuts that scarred the worst, but i've been cutting on and off for 5 years (uggghhh i never realized that until now)

How long do they usually take to heal?
-depends... atleast 2 weeks

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
-when theyre still raw (just seconds after i cut) i feel proud, like i've taken control (demented, i know), but then once they start to scar and I have to go out and face the world i feel ashamed. Overall, as I look at my scars now, I feel shame :/

microwave man
August 13th, 2009, 12:50 AM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 2.5
Do you have a lot of scars? not really
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? bicep area
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? idc
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? no not really
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? ya
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? ya
How long have you had your scars? 4 years
How long do they usually take to heal? 2weeks
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?

fallen angel
August 13th, 2009, 08:58 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? Somewhere between 5 and 10

* Do you have a lot of scars? Yea

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Thighs, forearms, innerarms/wrists

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? Cover them

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Not really

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yea

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? No

* How long have you had your scars? About 7 years

* How long do they usually take to heal? Between 2 weeks and a month

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed

bethsanderson
August 15th, 2009, 12:57 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
Some are 3, others are 7-8

* Do you have a lot of scars?
Yeah :(

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
Arms, Legs, Chest and Stomach

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
i cover up new ones but i let my scars show.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
Yeah,, they've stopped me from going swimming ):

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
Yeah, My Teacher.
* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
No.

* How long have you had your scars?
From 1-4 years.

* How long do they usually take to heal?
anything between 1-4 weeks

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
Im not proud of them but im not ashamed. they're part of me now.

Vegancuppycake
August 20th, 2009, 02:26 AM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? They range from 2 to 8,I'd say.

* Do you have a lot of scars? It doesn't look like a lot, but I always overlap them so I can hide them under my wristband.

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Wrist.Hands.forearm.Upper arm.

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? My parents recently found out,so there's no reason to hide them anymore.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? No.

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? Yea.

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? Only the people who are self harmers themselves.

* How long have you had your scars? These are shallow,and they've been around for a few weeks.

* How long do they usually take to heal?Fully? a month or so.

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? They're just part of my life. I need to cut to keep going.

ihatemylife
August 30th, 2009, 05:21 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 2-5

Do you have a lot of scars? Yeah

What part(s) of your body do you have scars? Wrists, Thighs, Feet


Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?I Try To Cover Them At Home But When I'm Out I Leave Them Showing

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? Wearing Shorts On Holiday

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? If They Have They Haven't Mentioned It :/

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? No

How long have you had your scars? Up To 4 Years

How long do they usually take to heal? Depends On How Deep I Cut Usually A Few Weeks

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? Ashamed

deadpie
August 30th, 2009, 05:35 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 6.....sometimes 8
Do you have a lot of scars? yes
What part(s) of your body do you have scars? my stomach, upper legs, and wrists
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? i dont really care if people see
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? nope
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? no
How long have you had your scars? well, i get new scars, but my oldest one is 7 years old
How long do they usually take to heal? maybe a couple months
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? i really dont care. the'yre kinda beuatiful

BroadwayBaby_xo
September 15th, 2009, 03:01 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
i'd say between a 5 and a 8.

Do you have a lot of scars?
yes.

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
arms, wrists, outer and inner thighs, stomach, shoulders, hips, hands.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
depending on where they are, i try best to cover them, top of the thigh ones and my stomach ones are the most hidden, but my arm ones are harder to hide as i'm a dancer.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
yeah, quite a bit, i can never go swimming again, as i wouldn't want people seeing my scars and i can never wear a bikini in my life for the scars on my stomach, i also don't let people, (guys) get to close to me, for a fear of what they'll say.

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
yes.

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
yes, fellow cutters and when i feel someone needs to know or suspects.

How long have you had your scars?
my oldest one is nearly 6 years old.

How long do they usually take to heal?
depends on how i care for them, with anteseptic cream about a week and a half, without about 3.

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
ashamed when new people find out and are all like omg are you okay and stuff, but i'm not proud of them either, i would love to get rid of them at times, but they're part of me now, what can i do.

Hanabanana
September 17th, 2009, 04:54 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?-> varies between 3-5 some like a 7
Do you have a lot of scars?-> yeah but I tend to do it in hidden areas
What part(s) of your body do you have scars?-> fore arm, right shoulder, thighs, ankle, calf, abdomin, ribs(not many) top right hip.
Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?-> I tan well and so they fade easily after a while so I don't have to worry to much, but sometimes I get really self conscious and try to hide them.
Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?-> wearing just bikini bottoms, sometimes with being with guys if they can see them, wearing certain clothes.
Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?-> yes
Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?-> not really but boyfriend noticed
How long have you had your scars?--> I've had scars my whole life, but they seem to heal easily.
How long do they usually take to heal?--> few wks
Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? --> depends on company bit of both. I don't want them there but they're a part of me x

-Silence
September 17th, 2009, 05:20 PM
On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they?
-They're not that bad, they are noticeable, but not so much gaping.

Do you have a lot of scars?
-Quite a bit.

What part(s) of your body do you have scars?
-Both arms.

Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing?
-All the scars are mostly healed so I don't hide them.

Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)?
-Yes.

Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars?
-All the time

Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)?
-Scars-yes

How long have you had your scars?
-Holy shit, almost nine years old are some of them.

How long do they usually take to heal?
-A couple weeks to scab over, a few months or longer for the scar to turn white.

Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud?
-Neither, I have accepted my scars. I realise that the scars are in my past and I refuse to feel guilty about that forever.

dream13
September 21st, 2009, 08:03 PM
* On a scale of 1-10; how deep are they? 3-7

* Do you have a lot of scars? yeah.

* What part(s) of your body do you have scars? arms, legs, chest/stomach.

* Do you try your best to cover them up, or leave them showing? cover them.

* Have your scars ever stopped you doing something (e.g. getting a job, going to a party etc)? from going for certain jobs/going on family holidays/to beach/swimming with friends.

* Has anyone you haven't told personally seen your scars? no

* Have you showed anyone your scars intentionally (e.g. friend or family member)? no

* How long have you had your scars? oldest ones=4 years

* How long do they usually take to heal? about a month for the cut to heal, approx 5-6 months for scar to start fading from red.

* Are you ashamed of your scars? Or proud? ashamed

svlust06
September 28th, 2009, 03:13 PM
1. It various some are like a 3 other are likke a 9
2. Yes at least 400+
3. Left forearm both thighs and a couple on my right arm.
4. I wear long sleves as much as i can....
5. No
6. Ugggh Yes
7. No not really they sort just end up seeing them because there are so many.
8. Some as long as 11 years.
9. About a week but I always pick at them so they take longer...
10. Ashamed