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bowlheadhere
June 23rd, 2009, 01:37 AM
Hey, I was thinking about trying it because a lot of people say it gives you a really intense orgasm. ANYWAYS! I was wondering what types of lube you guys use if you have done it before...?

Thanks.

nick
June 23rd, 2009, 04:43 AM
It certainly is good for me, but lube is pretty essential. Also if you're going to finger cut you nails otherwise you might scratch yourself. I generally buy KY from the supermarket.

bowlheadhere
June 23rd, 2009, 05:39 AM
Isn't it kind of awkward when teens buy KY and Trojans at a store? I mean, have u personally bought them in the store?

nick
June 23rd, 2009, 05:44 AM
It is a bit embarassing, but its worth a minute of embarassment for the enjoyment later on to be honest. Anyway its not the checkout operators job to comment or even think about what you buy, just scan it and pass it on. I worry more about what the person behind is thinking if they see it on the belt.

Some of our supermarkets have self service tills where you can scan your own shopping, those are good.

bowlheadhere
June 23rd, 2009, 05:50 AM
O! I never thought about that!!!but then again, i would use my parents credit card, so they might ask questions a little later down the road... Do u k ow how much it is?

nick
June 23rd, 2009, 05:53 AM
A tube of KY is about £2.95 british pounds, not sure what the exchange rate is for dollars. Durex make good lubes which you can pick up in the supermarket too, Durex Play is excellent, but thats a bit more expensive, about £4.95 but there's more in the dispensor (its a pump action dispensor - appropriate lol)

bowlheadhere
June 23rd, 2009, 06:01 AM
Does anal masterbation really make a difference? Meaning, does it feel good/bad/okay/amazing??? And does it hurt the first time?

nick
June 23rd, 2009, 06:12 AM
If you read all the other threads about this its obvious that some people dont like it, some people just find it a neutral experience, and others, like me, find it absolutely fantastic. For me its like adding a new dimension and it makes me cum harder and with the most fantastic orgasm. I can only do it if everyones out because it makes me moan out loud.

There's no reason why it should hurt the first time if you are careful and dont try anything too big. Lube is essential, and take it slowly. Dont try to force anything in roughly, just use steady pressure.

bowlheadhere
June 23rd, 2009, 06:18 AM
Do you have any suggestions to whAt I should try first? Or what you tried first?

nick
June 23rd, 2009, 06:31 AM
sorry, spam answer, text removed

Giles
June 23rd, 2009, 09:35 AM
to bee honest, i dont think lube is "essential" i finger myself quite alot and have never used any lube other than saliva, unless your using something way too big. it just fits in nicely.

Hrny
June 25th, 2009, 03:31 PM
You can use spit as a lube, or hand cream, or yur own cum. Jack off into yur hand and rub it onto yur finger. Insert yur finger and away u go. Helps u get horny again so u can have two jack off secions in a row!!

humanesquire
June 25th, 2009, 08:37 PM
if you do it in the shower you can use hair conditioner. I did it with conditioner and a hotel shampoo bottle moments ago and I came for the first time

The Joker
June 25th, 2009, 08:50 PM
Just use a finger for the first time, you will be quite tight, probably won't be able to fit more in than that.

bowlheadhere
June 25th, 2009, 09:14 PM
if you do it in the shower you can use hair conditioner. I did it with conditioner and a hotel shampoo bottle moments ago and I came for the first time

Didn't shampoo sting? I mean, if you get shampoo in your urethra it hurts like HELL!

ocguy
June 25th, 2009, 09:16 PM
I did try it. It feels great. It doesn't mean I don't like girls, 'cause I do. And it doesn't mean I want to have a dude fuck me, 'cause I don't. It just feels good.

ocguy
June 25th, 2009, 09:18 PM
Didn't shampoo sting? I mean, if you get shampoo in your urethra it hurts like HELL!

True, I tried that awhile ago and the sting hurt like hell.

MoveAlong
June 25th, 2009, 09:27 PM
DO NOT USE SPIT. Spit is usually a terrible lube, and certainly not lubish enough for anal masturbation - it dries wayyyyy to fast and is not slick enough.

I have used shampoo and it didn't sting. Maybe it was the shampoo I used. But I would not use shampoo in your situation.

Use baby oil, or an actual sexual lubricant (KY), or lotion. Be sure to use a lot of it the first time, because one, it'll take a lot to stretch a new ass, and two, better safe than sorry. Apply to both your ass before you insert, and the object you will use to insert.

A lubricated condom over what you use to insert doesn't have enough lube, so don't rely on that.

bowlheadhere
June 25th, 2009, 09:28 PM
I did try it. It feels great. It doesn't mean I don't like girls, 'cause I do. And it doesn't mean I want to have a dude fuck me, 'cause I don't. It just feels good.

Yea, I mean, I want to try it (just dont have lube), and I have had a girlfriend for two and a half years.

humanesquire
June 25th, 2009, 09:32 PM
I'm sure shampoo hurts like hell, but its not the same as conditioner which is great ;)

teenanx94
June 25th, 2009, 10:58 PM
just tried it. felt ok. made me feel like I have to piss real bad. lol

humanesquire
June 25th, 2009, 11:19 PM
you dont need to use alot

MoveAlong
June 25th, 2009, 11:28 PM
In my opinion, and other's opinions (as it's recommended), DO use a lot of lube, especially the first time. It makes it less painful.

bowlheadhere
June 25th, 2009, 11:33 PM
In my opinion, and other's opinions (as it's recommended), DO use a lot of lube, especially the first time. It makes it less painful.

Is it really that painful when you do it the first time?

Poetic Folly
June 25th, 2009, 11:42 PM
Isn't it a bit dirty in there?

MoveAlong
June 25th, 2009, 11:45 PM
Isn't it a bit dirty in there?

Yes. It's recommended that you clean out your bowels (have a solid movement), and/or use a douche/enema.

Is it really that painful when you do it the first time?

It could be, especially when you use a larger object like a penis or a dildo, in lieu of a finger. It WILL be painful if you don't use a good amount of lube. The anus was not originally meant for this (obviously), and it takes some stretching/getting used to, and/or practice before it becomes more comfortable.

bowlheadhere
June 25th, 2009, 11:47 PM
Yes. It's recommended that you clean out your bowels (have a solid movement), and/or use a douche/enema.



It could be, especially when you use a larger object like a penis or a dildo, in lieu of a finger. It WILL be painful if you don't use a good amount of lube. The anus was not originally meant for this (obviously), and it takes some stretching/getting used to, and/or practice before it becomes more comfortable.

Dang. Now I am kind of scared to try this.

MoveAlong
June 25th, 2009, 11:48 PM
There isn't a need to be scared. It COULD be painful, especially when you use a bigger object, but if you go slowly and use a lot of lube, and use a smaller object like a finger, it can be an interesting experiment.

bowlheadhere
June 25th, 2009, 11:57 PM
There isn't a need to be scared. It COULD be painful, especially when you use a bigger object, but if you go slowly and use a lot of lube, and use a smaller object like a finger, it can be an interesting experiment.

Haha, I am probably still going to try it. I just have yet to go to the store to get condoms/lube.

nick
June 26th, 2009, 12:45 AM
Isn't it a bit dirty in there?
Not normally in my experience, I've never bothered with douching and things generally come out clean.

It shouldnt hurt first time if you're careful, lube and take it slowly. Especially not with something small like a finger.

bowlheadhere
June 26th, 2009, 12:50 AM
What is the best lube?

The Joker
June 26th, 2009, 02:48 PM
I personally use hand and body lotion.

Isn't it a bit dirty in there?

Personally, I am a germaphobe, so I put a plastic bag over my hand before doing it, even though it isn't that dirty, if you actually wipe your ass.

iamm12345n
June 26th, 2009, 03:11 PM
i use vasaline

Plisken_420
June 26th, 2009, 05:09 PM
i've tried KY, baby oil, olive oil, crisco, saliva, shapoo(burns), conditoner, petroleum jelly, and the astroglide X. astroglide X wins by far. its not too thick and it lasts for a long time and feels great.

bowlheadhere
June 26th, 2009, 07:42 PM
i've tried KY, baby oil, olive oil, crisco, saliva, shapoo(burns), conditoner, petroleum jelly, and the astroglide X. astroglide X wins by far. its not too thick and it lasts for a long time and feels great.

Haha, you have used a lot. Dang. Thanks for the advice.

coolkid96
July 7th, 2009, 11:48 PM
Hey, I was thinking about trying it because a lot of people say it gives you a really intense orgasm. ANYWAYS! I was wondering what types of lube you guys use if you have done it before...?

Thanks.

Try soap

bowlheadhere
July 7th, 2009, 11:57 PM
Try soap

Dude, that would hurt so bad! Like getting soap in your urethra! It hurts so bad!

Cromm
July 8th, 2009, 12:07 AM
you dont need to use alotLIES!!!!

Is it really that painful when you do it the first time? Not if you do it right. It will be uncomfortable, but if it's painfull, you're doing it wrong. Stop, and try again slowly. If it's still painfull, just stop.



In regards to lube: shampoo, conditioner, soap, gel, moisturisers and other lotions are all horrible, horrlbe choices! These are all things meant to be used externally, and can do some damage inside your body. Some are particularly abbrasive if not rinsed off. Trust me, your sphincter is one place you don't want to expholiate!

Buy a slicone-based lube. It won't effect latex gloves and condoms like an oil based lube (like KY) will, and it won't dry out like water based lubes often do (like OhMY). As a brand, I'd recommend WET: Platinum or Eros.

Whatever you use, remember condoms and/or gloves, and no matter how much mess you've saved using them, wash up afterwards! Even the best lubes can irritate you if you let them dry on you for too long.


:)

whitecar
July 10th, 2009, 01:36 AM
I do, and I use regular Astroglide. I loveee it ;)

Like a Boss
July 10th, 2009, 03:06 PM
I think did it with something too big. It was a vibrating dildo, and it was pretty wide. At first it hurt, the insertion, but once I got it in, it felt amazing.
Anyways, after a week, the area between my testicles and my anus hurts really bad. It hurt to touch or sit on it.

Any ideas what this is? I really don't want have to tell anyone..

kyle95
July 10th, 2009, 07:19 PM
i haven't, regardless, the right lube seems 2 b ky according 2 a google search. have fun mate

Neverender
July 10th, 2009, 09:56 PM
Simple vaseline or KY Jelly. Thats all you need. And i find that the orgasm you get isnt as good as simple jerking off.

Dont use anything sharp, and wash whatever you use afterwards.

The Joker
July 10th, 2009, 10:24 PM
I think did it with something too big. It was a vibrating dildo, and it was pretty wide. At first it hurt, the insertion, but once I got it in, it felt amazing.
Anyways, after a week, the area between my testicles and my anus hurts really bad. It hurt to touch or sit on it.

Any ideas what this is? I really don't want have to tell anyone..

Well, you really have to slowly get bigger and bigger. If you were just using a finger, than started using a big object like that, it would hurt.

Tyler34
July 10th, 2009, 10:43 PM
if you ever are at a gas station, some stores have condom dispensers in the bathroom - so always carry a few quarters and pop them in the machine - nobody ever knows you took a condom or anything - as far as lube goes, i use KY WARMING LUBE for anal masturbation - you want to be sure your not going too rough, because if you do, it could seriously hurt and possibly injure yourself. wouldnt wanna explain that one to the doc

PuppetPrince
July 10th, 2009, 11:49 PM
Vasaline? any kind of lube will do xD .
WALMART .. SELF CHECK OUT!!! XD
and no one will know.

Plisken_420
July 14th, 2009, 04:27 PM
Just take it slow at first and really stretch yourself out without letting it hurt and use plenty of lube. After u feel nice and comfortable just go to town. You couldn't imagine the size of what you can get inside.