Sleepover

[averagemuscleguy]

So, my friend and I had this sleepover once, and we plan to have more sleepovers in the future. This friend turns me (the same one whos sock i used to j/o in for those of you who read my earlier posts) on and i am curious to see what his dick looks like. I also want to ask him to j/o with me, (not like touching each other, just in the same room) but i dont know how. Should i try to see what his dick looks like when hes sleeping (which i know is an invasion of privacy) or should i just ask him?

[Snorlax Myther]

I would ask him straight up, but just remember, it may hurt your friendship.

[Rutherford The Brave]

No don't these kind of things have a tendency to destroy relationships. I have to be blunt on this situation, would you rather have 10 seconds of pleasure and no best friend after that. Or have a best friend and the ten second of pleasure as well.

[sebbie]

To look at someone who is not consenting like when they are asleep is morally wrong. Asking someone if you can do whatever or see whatever is alright but don't expect it to not have reprercussions

[byee]

Oh, I remember this.

There are a three options here that I see, pick one.

1) Tell him you fancy him and would like to experiment with him.

2) Don't tell him, respect his privacy when you sleep over, and just deal with your own curiosity privately.

3) Avoid sleep overs entirely.


You'll notice there's no option four, the 'I'll satisfy my own curiosity' by sneaking a peek while he sleeps. That's still wrong, you shouldn't even contemplate that one. Not only is it an invasion of his privacy, but seeing him will only intensify your desire to do something.

Remember, just b/c you feel strongly about something doesn't make it the right thing to do. Feelings/urges/needs aren't always a justification for action, you have to use some judgement. Consider the consequences, and consider that there's someone else there, too, and their needs are at least as important as yours.

[averagemuscleguy]

Wow.......thats pretty profound. And of course, the whole sneaking a peak thing did seem wrong to me, and i guess i was just throwing it out there to see what you all think. Thnx, and keep those posts coming!

[YourFriend]

Well, i would suggest not to do it, it can ruin your friendship

[The Joker]

Do not take a peek without his permission, no way.

[bowlheadhere]

I would just ask him because if you just go out and try and "check" him while he is sleeping, that could turn out really awkward. Also, if I was in his position and a friend tried to examine my balls when I was sleeping, I would accidently drop them as a reaction. Just straight up ask them, and you should be fine (best option out of two), or "accidently" change in front of him and ask to compare.

[kyle95]

u do have a creative mind, hilarious actually, so ur quite capable of thinking of a less intrusive and less destructive scenario mate

[kdddd]

it can really mess up freind ships so you prolly should ask him stright up first jsut to make sure either way and if he wants to then its one thing if he dosent you should not be doin anything cuz it could kill your friendship

[Donkey]

Just don't. Either way has possible side effects which won't be good, like loosing the relationship between him and you.

And, btw, if you do have a peak while he's sleeping, what if he wakes up? :P

[nick]

I would say no to both, ie. dont ask him and certainly dont try to look when he's asleep. If your lucky it might just happen sometime, thats fine, no problem, but trying to force the situation is not likely to work out well.

[The Harlequin]

Dude, you have to be so careful with this, because as people have said already it could destroy your friendship entirely. But this does all depend on what his sexuality is, doesn't it? Does this guy know you're bi (i saw your pot on another thread) in fairness I don't have enough info to make a fair judgement, and I insist on being fair when I give advice.

How many times did i say fair in that post?!
(X^,

[Giles]

i'd say accidently change in front of him...

[MichaelAdams1993]

I definatly don't think you should sneak a peak while he is asleep. That is an invasion and if he finds out somehow it could really go bad. Straight up asking him makes the most sense but I know this can be hard so I suggest that you just create a situation where you would be exposed to each other. Ex. If he is in the shower use the bathroom while he is in and see if HE tries something. Or if you two have to change just change in front of him and then you don't have to really worry about creating anything cause if he is curious then you will know then. If you go swimming like if you have a pool this is a perfect thing cause changing into swim suits can be the perfect oppotunity. Just remember that you have to do what is right for you and what YOU feel comfortable with just don't screw it up with him. He should be comfortable too.

[NeverLetGo]

So, if I were you, I'd ask him straight up, rather than invading privacy.

HOWEVER,
This could seriously affect/ruin your friendship if he goes mental. You have to remember that; it's a tough situation to go thru because it can either strengthen or ruin your relationship... I dunno; how does your friend react to strange things like this? Is he laid back?

[lengthy_brochure]

It might be fun, but your friendship will NEVER be the same after you see each others dicks.

[bowlheadhere]

It might be fun, but your friendship will NEVER be the same after you see each others dicks.

I beg to differ. A lot of people are still really good friends after they have j/o, and sometimes they become better friends. It really depends on the friendship and the two involved.

[pkid]

it should depend on how you think your friend will react. And if you think he would then you go ahead and do what you want to do

[lengthy_brochure]

I beg to differ. A lot of people are still really good friends after they have j/o, and sometimes they become better friends. It really depends on the friendship and the two involved.
I didn't mean that you would no longer be good friends. I'm still good friends with the people I've jerked off with. I'm just saying that it might feel a bit weird when you're together.

[rain]

pt on some porn and try to get him hard then start mesing with him lyk sayin dude u know u want to jack off or saying that you cant help yourself keep the lotion and tissue near by to make it tempting

[mafia puffs]

betta ask him... get his permissions first...

[MykeSoBe]

Well don't get preoccupied on trying to take a peek while he's sleeping. That would make for some of the most awkward moments that can't even be portrayed on Family Guy! Whatever you do, make sure he's fully awake!

[niceguy90]

ask him

[gone]

first set the mood,
watch some porn or talk about sexual topics,
when you are both really horny ask him

hope all goes well, have fun

:P

[Mysterious Skin]

i would suggest asking him lol

[KBS-Man]

like on page 1 people asking the same question "could ruen your friend ship " god dont have to mention it 2000000000 times but watch porn put like a fiew condomes out on the desk or something then hell be like stuff it and do it or like change cloths in frount of him accidently or.. you could say think like .. i bet your penis is soo small and mines like huge and hell be like show me and then do it u know be amaginative ill try when my friend comes over



add me as friend

[Sammich]

dude, i didnt really ask, we were just watching porn and he pulled his dick out, so i joined in, i think you should like ask if he wants to watch porn, and like maybe stick your hand down your pants, and if he does the same thing you can probs keep on going and pull it out.

[unidanman]

Please Dont Bump Threads. This needs 2 be locked.

[jay123]

you could ask or try and get summin started i.e porn but i dunno if i shud be sayin it and its up to u but becareful!!

[mathius]

just nick said it best give it time and see what happens if you rush things they have a tendiency to back fire on you and you dont want to mess up the things you've got right now

[onitsuka]

i would just bring it up. ask about porn and then go from there.

[NMon]

Don't bump old threads. I'm sure the OP doesn't even care anymore. Or, he probably made his decision.

[Mythical]

what i would do is try to ask him nicely, and if he says no, just deal with it

[octomania]

id just look lol xP

[JdotD]

do what feels right...but if you want to see if he's interested definitely don't just say it outright, segue into the topic a little, like start talking about porn or something so that it seems more natural and less sudden, and dont come off too strong or he may be wierded out if he turns out not to be interested.

[drummerboy526]

im curious to see what you did and how it turns out

[Mike627]

me and my friend use to do this when we were little like we were in bed together and we would like try to both go inside of each others pants and stuff

[BDL244]

My almost step-brother and I sleep in the same room, I love when we go to water parks, cause I can see his nice abs, he also has a nice ass which I can see through his basketball shorts. I love when we sleep in the same room. We are also not even related so its not completely weird hahaha