help

[tyler27846]

my friend is straight and has a bi friend who he considers as a bro and he is starting 2 develop more than just a friend feelings his heart tells him 2 go for it but his mind says not 2 what should he do

[The Joker]

OK, I doubt this is your friend. This is you. I think you should go for it, experiment a bit, and see if you like it.

[IAMWILL]

Pretty much agreeing with Matt here, this is you, and theres no reason to hide that here, everyone is very friendly and no one should ever criticize you. Follow your heart.

Someone (or maybe me) once said: The heart is passionate, the brain is cautious.

[tyler27846]

Pretty much agreeing with Matt here, this is you, and theres no reason to hide that here, everyone is very friendly and no one should ever criticize you. Follow your heart.

Someone (or maybe me) once said: The heart is passionate, the brain is cautious.

thanks man i have been trying 2 get up with my friend i think i have might upset him if he has read it

[pkid]

well tell your "friend" just do what he thinks is right...dont just think of the present, but also think of the future

[pontiacdriver]

my friend is straight and has a bi friend who he considers as a bro and he is starting 2 develop more than just a friend feelings his heart tells him 2 go for it but his mind says not 2 what should he do

Perhaps I am conservative here, but assuming you are the bi-sexual friend, then I think you shoud proceed with caution. As much as you want people to respect your sexuality and the way you feel you have to do the same with your friend and his liking women. My experience has been such that sexuality between friends usually messes things up as the relationship changes totally as one would never have a romantic relationship with one's family members. Basically, you might have to choose between having this fellow as a friend or as someone who you share romantic interests. You have to be realistic, too, as if this fellow is clearly straight, then there is a strong possibility you will never go beyond being friends with him, and there is no sense in trying for something that will never happen.

Basically, everything boils down to mutual respect. Like how you want people to respect you for the way you are you need to do the same for your friend. I would leave things the way they are especially since the guy is clearly straight. That does not mean you cannot admire his body I suppose, but I think you are better off being like brothers than lovers as that is better for the long-term.