when do i kno its time?

[Masturbation_for_teh_win]

well i was going out with my boy friend yesterday, when out of the blue he said to me "you want to do it?" I was confused at first didnt kno what he meant. so i said "what u mean for what?" and he said "u kno have sex" and then he starting rubbing my legging going higher up, so i stood up and went to get a drink, then i told him i didnt wanna have sex.

Then when i was in the kitchen getting a drink i saw his sister and i was rather turned on when she split her drink on her dress and so i went to my boyfriend, at that point i had a feeling thay i was attracted to women instead of men is that normal i though, After that he walked me home and he seemed a little annoyed that i didnt want to have sex with him. So i'm not sure if i should go back with him and have sex. what do u think? dont wanna hurt his feelings he's a great guy. :?

[2inchesandstillpullin]

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VT does not condone sex.
~habook3

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

1. its perfectly normal for you to be a lil turned on when she spilt her drink etc, because that just the way we are, nobody is 100% heterosexual. 2. you should have sex with your boyfriend if you actually want to and you care about him etc, not just to make him happy even if u dont want to. i think doing that would give you a bad idea of how to cheer people up if you feel you've done something wrong for the future.

[WelshLad]

Great guys don't pressure girls into sex.

[Just...Will]

Puberty :arrow: Relationships

[Elokyn]

Great guys don't pressure girls into sex.

and clearly it hadn't crossed your mind to do it until he said something (seeing as how you said you were shocked) You're not ready. When you do it it should not be pressured into. It almost seems as if you feel guilty so you just think to stop it you'll have sex with him...don't. Trust me it's not something you wanna remember the rest of your life as being the end of a guilt trip.