First Time Everything

[Definition]

Ok,so this girl and i have been dating for maybe since 6.8.09 and we both are virgins to everything bj,hj,etc... well she wants me to finger her and she wants give me a bj and hj in the movies and i feel that its kind of awarkd(sp) to do this in front of friends,plus her and i want to have sex and im afraid im to small and i won't be able to fit a condom im 5 in. erect and i have no girth what so ever.So what should do???:what:

[Deadlykills]

my question is, why would you do this in front of friends? that stuff is kinda private between you two. and i wouldnt do sexual things so early in the relationship, ive dont stuff like that when i was goin out with a girl for about a month and it didnt work well.

[Giles]

if you have any doubt about doing it... theres a simple answer, dont do it. if you feel she is pressuring you into doing sexual things then talk to her and just say that you arent ready, if she doesnt accept this then she isnt a real lover.

[djunlogical]

infron of friends?? to right, sex is a private and intamat thing, meet her half way and do in a a badroom or summat, and most girls like 5" the average is 5"-7" so your fine...

[bowlheadhere]

Hmm. Well, first of all, sex (oral or w/e) is really not the best idea during a movie. For one thing, there are a lot of sounds and things that could happen that could distract the other movie goers. Also, I think it is illegal to have sex in such a public place. And... not to mention that (I am guessing you are under 17) you are not able to go to adult restricted movies, therefore you could be doing it by really young children, and that would be bad...

Secondly, comdoms are meant to fit all people. Depending how far you roll it down, determines how big you make the comdom. If you are going to have sex at such a young age (guessing again), then make sure to wear a condom, whether you think you are going to fit it or not.

[pkid]

Why would you donor in front of people? My advice is if you don't want to do it orif you feel a bit too weird about what's going on then tell her to wait when you are ready