Giving and Receiving BJ's

[teenfromNJ]

Do u think it is bad to give/receive blow jobs with a friend but u know you guys are BOTH STRAIGHT!

I need help i might be doing it but i don't know!!!!

We have jacked each other but he want to go further?!?

HELP PLEASE!

[optimashprime]

its ok

only do it if you are both ok with it

[bowlheadhere]

Agreed, it is okay as long as you two are both okay and acknowledge it.

[cjdude]

if youre both into it, yeah its fine.
ive done it :)

[Fusion]

I would say as long as you are both happy on what you are doing :), and you are comfortable with doing it with him.

[kdddd]

I would agree with every one else here man if you and he are good with it and you dont think it will kill your friendship than go for it if you think that aftewards somthing seemse weired than dont do it again its that easy !

[Donkey]

Remember that STDs can be caught from semen. So if he has one, and I'm not saying he does, you will get it.

Just be careful. Ask him if he's had sex or anything like that before and proceed with caution if you want to do it. Remember that it can ruin friendships if you do something sexual, and can make it very awkward. But it's up to you.

[YourFriend]

Yes it's normal, alot of ppl do it...

[The Joker]

Yes, just make sure you're OK with doing it first.

[kyle95]

if ur truly str8, don't mess ur head up more by doing this mate. spend time cultivating a relationship with a girl and not on something that'll give u a cheap thrill

[pkid]

How can this be soooo normal? I mean I want to do things like this too, but again.. I know my friends probably dont find this normal, maybe its just a private school thing.. Anyways about you just do what you think you should do, and as you say that you're straight then you should spend more time with getting girls than guys

[Giles]

if ur truly str8, don't mess ur head up more by doing this mate. spend time cultivating a relationship with a girl and not on something that'll give u a cheap thrill

why are you here? i've read 2 other posts of your in the last 20 minutes, both have been pointless. go away.

mate ur ok, if ur both ok... then do it.

[Mr. Awesome]

yeh mate i think everyone has got the right idea if YOU feel your ok with it and so does HE then have fun and enjoy your self but remember this could affect your friendship

[iceyfresh]

This kinda of thing caaannnn get in the way of your relationship but if you both wan't to then i guess you can. Oh and DON'T DO IT IF YOUR UNCOMFORTABLE!

[djunlogical]

It's fine. just dont fepressured into doing it!

[MichaelAdams1993]

Don't worry. Its a common thing. As long as you are sure of your sexuality and your friend is too. There is nothing wrong with this assuming it is consentual on both parts and you won't screw up your friendship.

[jgibbsd]

It is okay!

[Johnmchl15]

Just Make sure your comfortable with it. ive done it its pretty awkward but, now i realize its not a big deal. many guys do this.

[YourFriend]

How can this be soooo normal? I mean I want to do things like this too, but again.. I know my friends probably dont find this normal, maybe its just a private school thing.. Anyways about you just do what you think you should do, and as you say that you're straight then you should spend more time with getting girls than guys

My friends find all that gay, if i even spoke of such thing infront them, i would loose them as friends straight away. and it isnt soo normal, its just not wrong :)

[Giles]

My friends find all that gay, if i even spoke of such thing infront them, i would loose them as friends straight away. and it isnt soo normal, its just not wrong :)

i agree its not totally normal, but if the majority of people do it/would do it then i'd say its pretty damn normal. :yes:

[funk]

yes, if u are okay with it.

[kyle95]

why are you here? i've read 2 other posts of your in the last 20 minutes, both have been pointless. go away.

mate ur ok, if ur both ok... then do it.

pointless? I gather only if I sing your tune I would have a point? who made you judge, jury, and executioner? bollocks to you mate!

[pkid]

My friends find all that gay, if i even spoke of such thing infront them, i would loose them as friends straight away. and it isnt soo normal, its just not wrong :)

exactly! thats what all my friends would do! but some of my close friends might still keep a secret friendship with me..

i agree its not totally normal, but if the majority of people do it/would do it then i'd say its pretty damn normal. :yes:

haha true! if everyone did it, it WOULD BE NORMAL! :yes:

[kdddd]

yeah its tuff to know what you can and cant tell/ask your friends so i knw how you feel

[punkjake]

why are you here? i've read 2 other posts of your in the last 20 minutes, both have been pointless. go away.

mate ur ok, if ur both ok... then do it.

i like his post,but i agree w/ both,if you want a dumb thrill and risk ur friendship then yes,but if you are str8 you need to try to get girls,not guys.but it is normal

[IanMilo]

as long as you both agree on it and are both willing to then you can otherwise it would be kinda like rape forcing him to... also i know alot of people say it ruins friendships but if you are both willing then it shouldnt really

[Giles]

pointless? I gather only if I sing your tune I would have a point? who made you judge, jury, and executioner? bollocks to you mate!


its not because you dont agree with me, its because you provide no decent reason for why he shouldnt...? it wont mess up his head, thats ridiculous.

[briefboy]

if everybody aggrees i see no problem with it

[Ortizitthisone]

It doesn't make you gay, and it isn't wrong to do it. Just make sure you're comfortable with it, make sure he's comfortable with it, and make sure there are CLEAR BOUNDARIES set. That's one thing people haven't said. Make sure you both make it clear to one another how far you want it to go, and make sure that if either of you are uncomfortable in the act, you let the other know. It can make things awkward, but it does make it a little less so when you know that many others just like you have given/received oral sex from the same sex during their teenage years.

Also, I wouldn't recommend telling too many people. While many people are fine with it, there are those who do think it's gay and may have a problem. Just keep it between you and your buddy.

[CestDan]

Well, first of all I think that if you really want to receive or give a bj you are not "straight at all". Now, I think if you really want to do it, go ahead the thing here is that you must be comfortable with yourself. Nevertheless if you are confused or not sure about do it, wait!!!, It's better that you hold on than feel frustrated or disappointed with yourself

[nexus1727]

I kinda agree with kyle95. The question is, if u can get it done by a girl, y have a boy do it?
i mean masturbating together is ok, u guys would probably be comparing and stuff, but i jst think that 2 guys blowing each other is a bit beyond the threshold :)

[nexus1727]

I kinda agree with kyle95. The question is, if u can get it done by a girl, y have a boy do it?
i mean masturbating together is ok, u guys would probably be comparing and stuff, but i jst think that 2 guys blowing each other is a bit beyond the threshold :)

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[jhg1995]

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[marktheman]

If I thought it was wrong I wouldn't do it.
Well,.... maybe I would anyway.
But seriously, I do it with my friend and we are both straight. I say, if it feels good, do it, as long as nobody gets hurt.

[The Joker]

I kinda agree with kyle95. The question is, if u can get it done by a girl, y have a boy do it?
i mean masturbating together is ok, u guys would probably be comparing and stuff, but i jst think that 2 guys blowing each other is a bit beyond the threshold :)

Well, some guys think they might be gay or bi, and would like to see if they like that kind of thing.

[kingkingking]

theres nothing wrong with it really
i've done it last bonfire night when a bunch of people all camped out, but it was with another bi guy, and im bi too so it wasnt like being straight
but i still see nothing wrong with it

[kdddd]

i think its okay
as long as you dont go past the limit and force others to do more than they want!

[sebbie]

To everyone who says that it is common thing for straight guys to do is wrong in my opinion unless both are gay. I am guessing you are just curious..

I am not saying do not do it, each to their own but I would not go telling everyone about it, as chances are people will make fun etc.

Just make sure that you are doing it because you want to do it and not because of pressure etc. Also you might want to consider using a condom.. you can get flavored ones and it will be safer..

[YourFriend]

I kinda agree with kyle95. The question is, if u can get it done by a girl, y have a boy do it?
i mean masturbating together is ok, u guys would probably be comparing and stuff, but i jst think that 2 guys blowing each other is a bit beyond the threshold :)

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you do it with a boy bcs boys are walking bags of hormones, which would do anything, unlike girls

[LiGHT]

It is bad if you are both straight. It would mean you were gay unless you weren't turned on by it. I just couldn't do it or have one done for me by a friend. IF you couldn't tell who it was then maybe.

[thedudeman]

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[The Joker]

It is bad if you are both straight. It would mean you were gay unless you weren't turned on by it. I just couldn't do it or have one done for me by a friend. IF you couldn't tell who it was then maybe.

No, some straight guys experiment to see if they like that kind of thing.

[Bougainvillea]

My friends find all that gay, if i even spoke of such thing infront them, i would loose them as friends straight away. and it isnt soo normal, its just not wrong :)

That's fucked up.
Anyway, as long as you're both comfortable!

[MykeSoBe]

I myself would never ask a friend if we could do that, but at the same time I wouldn't instantly decline an offer, it depends on how much of best friends you guys are. I don't think it's a bad idea at all though. But you really have to make sure that BOTH of y'all are cool with it.

[tommycg95]

What is Optimashprime Saying! He Said that if ur both ok with it then it's fine. The truth is that gay men are both ok with it yet their still gay. i myself am gay and i f u want to save urself from being like me and anyone else like me then dont do it. If u have to ask urself whether or not to give ur friend a Blojob then dont do it. Because if u do then u will have that stuck in ur mind.

[ACQD139F83J]

It's absolutely fine... even a good experience, but if you've jacked each other off, you're not entirely straight - bi-curious leaning straight I'd guess, but whatever, if you're both fine with it, enjoy :)

[teen14]

i would if i weere u

[barbie]

thats a Gay, but if your comfortable doin it then go for it!

[optimashprime]

thats a Gay, but if your comfortable doin it then go for it!

its not gay is curiosity

[argentinaandy77]

It's perfectly OK as long you're both happy to do it. I've done it loads with my mates (even at school)..

[niko0202]

pretty much everyone here has got it rite

[Kevwee]

Yeah i think if the both of you are ok with it then do it. It might seem awkward at first and you might have it stuck in your head for a while, but as long as you and your friend see it as nothing wrong then its ok just, just keep it between the two of you.

[sebbie]

its not gay is curiosity

It is still a homosexual act regardless of the motives behind it.

However its not like there is anything wrong with it.

[cole g]

yah what ever long as your both in to it.

[Evertonized]

As long as you both know your not gay then it's fine, if one of you are secretly gay then it would cause a problem in the future aha! x

[sakis08]

its only for the curiosity dude

[ctboii]

I agree with pkidd. if you're truly straight, then u should spend more time looking for girls who can give u head than guys. ur question kinda sounds like there is some type of dating relationship going on.

[Fourth Dimension]

if you are both fine with it then go for it it can be fun but maybe awkward at first but that will change just be sure you are both ok with it

[gone]

lifes to short, have fun while you can

[aerobooster]

It's totally fine as long as your both ok with it.

[ashdyn]

meh...if he wants to and you want to. there's no hurt in it. just be careful...it could get in the way of your friendship. i say go for it though :]
ive done it.

[rollwithme]

if you guys are considering giving blowjobs... you're not exactly straight right.
i mean. you have to be a little gay to even want a bj from a guy.

just make sure its cool on both sides.