Domination

[anime Freak]

i have this weird thing were i want to dominate a woman against her will.
i realy want to figure out why, i am not sexist, i have a feamle freind who i do not think about sexualy, and i am realy a nice person and the thought of harming someone is appaling to me, in every instance exept this, i dont want to hurt them at all, and i dont want to rape them, not to mention i will never even think about acting on them

[lamboman43]

Well just dont go raping a chick. Fight your urges.

[Maverick]

Well you aren't alone in how you feel and a lot of couples role play this type of thing. There are people that like the idea of dominating someone and there are people who like the idea of being dominated. I honestly don't know why but as long as you don't mix fantasy with reality you're fine.

[Trumpeter_2911]

Well just dont go raping a chick. Fight your urges.
exactly what lamboman said

[bowlheadhere]

Just keep them as feelings, don't actually bring these fantasies to real life...

[bud2.0]

this fantasy sounds like a rape fantasy so just don't carry it out unless you and your girl are having foreplay and you both have consent

[kyle95]

that's terrible mate. it's just plain wrong. change your fantasy and do it on your own before the law and psychs do it for you

[Fusion]

Well you aren't alone in how you feel and a lot of couples role play this type of thing. There are people that like the idea of dominating someone and there are people who like the idea of being dominated. I honestly don't know why but as long as you don't mix fantasy with reality you're fine.

Agreed :) if you are unsure you can always ask a woman if she likes to

[iceyfresh]

Maybe what your really just craving kinky sex which im not going to explain but no mater what dont harm anyone

[Donkey]

Ant (Maverick) got this spot on. It's fine to fantasize about these things if you really want to, but just make sure that you don't carry out these fantasies in real life because that is wrong.

[The Joker]

As long as you don't carry it out, then it's fine. You seem to be describing a BDSM fetish.

[YourFriend]

that's terrible mate. it's just plain wrong. change your fantasy and do it on your own before the law and psychs do it for you

Every1 has a right to think what they want to and there is absolutly nothing wrong with what he is thinking..

[Giles]

that's terrible mate. it's just plain wrong. change your fantasy and do it on your own before the law and psychs do it for you

um... why should he exactly? he has the right to his fantasy. true enough it isnt a pleasant one unless the woman agrees, but if thats what he's into then its fine. im sure your fantasy (if you have 1) could be put under similar scrutiny.

[anime Freak]

listen this fantasy is not of my choosing i cant help what my brain is wired for

[byee]

I don't think the OP is looking for permission to have these fantasies or do these things, I think he's trying to understand why he's got them in the first place.

Fantasies like these often come from feelings, which come from experience. So, if you've had those relationships/experiences where you feel dominated, you might seek refuge in a fantasy where you're dominating. Are there controlling women in your life?

[anime Freak]

the correct question is "is there anyone who is not controlling in my life

[Sapphire]

There isn't any known reason why some people experience these fantasies but I want you to know that there isn't anything wrong with you. This isn't an illness or anything.

When you are in a loving and trusting relationship there is nothing wrong with approaching your partner about this either. This type of sexual activity can be very rewarding when both people consent and share mutual love and respect for each other.