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westy
June 20th, 2009, 01:01 PM
Aiight... mind-blowing, put on your thinking caps...

Ok, so I'm on facebook and I talk to my friends from school and stuff on there, and I had no pictures fpr my profile because i'm lazy like that and didn't have a camera at the time, so i had that shaded figure as my default picture. Come my birthday, i get a digital camera ( nothin special, about a $40 camera ) and take pictures of myself after i got a tan and in the next week, i got like 6 messages from girls from my school that said i was cute and that they wanted to " do something sometime ", and at first i was like " OH YEAH! " but then i came to realize that... the pictures? So i took them off and replaced them with pictures of my friends, and replied, most of them said " no, your ugly " ( or along those lines ), but then i put my pictures back up and replied again... and they were liike " yes ".

So, should i go out with one of them, just because they like my build, or should i look for somebody that likes me for who i am not what i look like?

Kaleidoscope Eyes
June 20th, 2009, 03:50 PM
Find someone who likes you for who you are, definitely.

A girl who only likes you for your looks is shallow and not worth the time. She's the kind of girl who could dump you for another guy that she thinks is hotter, and she's the kind of girl who'll be in the relationship for the arm candy and the sexual side of things. Maybe she'll get to know you and start to like you for you, but if she didn't approach you at all until she thought you looked good.. It's not a good way to start a relationship.

Maybe hang out with some of these girls and get to know each other, but don't start a physical relationship until after that happens. The right girl won't give a crap about what you look like, because she'll like YOU more than she likes your face.

Also, find a girl that you like for who they are too. You ask about dating them because they think you're hot. Do you like them, at all? If you don't know 'em, or don't like them... for goodness' sake, don't go out with them! As I said before, get to know these girls for who they are and let them get to know you, and see where it goes from there.

BuryYourFlame
June 20th, 2009, 05:16 PM
Jessi says it all lol

If they only like you for your physical attractiveness then they are not worth the time. Someone who loves you should like the emotional side of you too, not just the physical.

kyle95
June 20th, 2009, 07:14 PM
it's a start mate, see what happens. there's nothing wrong with girls being attracted to you physically. just be kind to them and they'll reciprocate

catw
June 21st, 2009, 03:35 PM
but haven't these girls seen you around school before. i think if they were genuinely interested in you for yourself then they might have come up to you at school. However there is nothing wrong with perhaps meeting up with one just to see how it goes.

anime Freak
June 22nd, 2009, 07:33 PM
i hate girls that go on looks they always go for the idiots that cant even spell there name (no offence)