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Manny_R_718
June 19th, 2009, 01:45 PM
Hey everyone, Im new here but about changing room situations im nervos when it comes to showers and changing because Im afraid il get a boner for no reason.
anny suggestions?

Sugaree
June 19th, 2009, 05:57 PM
I was always afraid of showers when I was in school. That's one of the reasons I left to be homeschooled. However, I have been to a few gyms and had to use the showers. There's no way to avoid getting an erection at random. If you feel one coming on, try to think about something else. Look in front of yourself and not around, because that can arouse you even more. If people are looking at it, then just ignore them. If they're cracking jokes at you, just ignore that also, because they're being immature.

Hope this helps :)

pkid
June 19th, 2009, 06:07 PM
Sorry. I have never gone to a changing place where there isn't a private room..and in school, well no one takes showers in my private school anymore

crisper99
June 19th, 2009, 06:28 PM
you should just look at the wall and avoid looking at other people
think of other things and if you get a boner or start to get one rinse off and get a towel to dry yourself off. If you are open about it and you are happy with your penis size, then if you get one act like nothing is happening. peole will be impressed with your confidence and wont laugh

JackOfClubs
June 19th, 2009, 07:34 PM
I just tend to avoid public showers (too many naked old people lol) but when I'm changing I just try not to think about the subject of sex, etc. And usually I just try to get changed quickly.

bowlheadhere
June 19th, 2009, 07:48 PM
You should not be worried about getting a boner. There are a lot of people who get boners while in the changing/showering rooms at either your school/gym/pool. It is most likely that if you get a boner, others will also, but it is not uncommon whatsoever.

Be proud of who you are, and if you get a boner, it is just a boner. Just know that it isn't uncommon, for it happens to a lot of people, therefore, there is nothing to worry about.

rubidoux
June 19th, 2009, 08:14 PM
I can understand your discomfort, but honestly people aren't looking at you as much as you feel like they are. In fact, most of them are worried about the same thing. I'm still not a huge fan of large changing areas either, but I just try to dress and undress as quickly as possible and be on my way.

teenanx94
June 19th, 2009, 10:49 PM
omg! exactly what I'm afraid of next year in high school. just try not to think about erotic stuff and I hope this helps you and me!

marty
June 19th, 2009, 11:08 PM
step one: don't worry about it. i have been changing in locker rooms for 5 whole years and never once have i had a spontaneous erection. the time period is so quick that the chances of it happening then are slim.

step two: If you feel one beginning to happen, set up an algebra problem in your head and solve it. Erections get worse when you think about them, and they go away when you take your mind off of them. Mathematics take a lot of focus, and it will guaranteed take your mind off the erection if you focus in the math. If math is not your strong suit, recite the alphabet in your head backwards. That also takes a lot of focus.

Eagle1
June 20th, 2009, 06:30 AM
I was always afraid of showers when I was in school. That's one of the reasons I left to be homeschooled. However, I have been to a few gyms and had to use the showers. There's no way to avoid getting an erection at random. If you feel one coming on, try to think about something else. Look in front of yourself and not around, because that can arouse you even more. If people are looking at it, then just ignore them. If they're cracking jokes at you, just ignore that also, because they're being immature.

Hope this helps :)

agreed just think of something else :yes:

YourFriend
June 20th, 2009, 06:45 AM
Haha, well here, we dont take showers in school, but anyway, just think on something besides erotic...

guacamole24
June 20th, 2009, 07:11 AM
Yes, I agree with everyone, just focus on something else. It can be tempting to peek, but that'll just get me going.

Rain Boy
June 21st, 2009, 12:52 PM
I'm not crazy about crowds to begin with (clothed or naked), and that keeps me from getting an erection. In four years of gym, I have only seen ONE erection on another guy.That's why I think all these stories about guys getting hard in the locker room are just fantasies

MisterAndrews
June 21st, 2009, 05:52 PM
step one: don't worry about it. i have been changing in locker rooms for 5 whole years and never once have i had a spontaneous erection. the time period is so quick that the chances of it happening then are slim.

step two: If you feel one beginning to happen, set up an algebra problem in your head and solve it. Erections get worse when you think about them, and they go away when you take your mind off of them. Mathematics take a lot of focus, and it will guaranteed take your mind off the erection if you focus in the math. If math is not your strong suit, recite the alphabet in your head backwards. That also takes a lot of focus.

brilliant answer! try that :)

also, if you just go as quick as you can, focus on your own body and resist the urge to peek at other lads then it shouldnt be a problem. just forget that everyone is there.

sdawg
June 21st, 2009, 08:39 PM
when ever my friends and I shower at school... we always just held our cocks... like we covered them... its cool :P... Everyonce and a while we would just be like dont look. I need to use both hands... its hilarious how many people look :P. Hope that helped

bowlheadhere
June 21st, 2009, 08:41 PM
Yea, you shouldn't worry about it. If you get a boner, most likely other people will be. Everyone is looking around, so that is also fine.

mafia puffs
July 2nd, 2009, 03:47 AM
just get ur mind somewhere else.. for example thinking of things tat disgust u the most etc etc... or just concentrate on a quick bath... its normal to hav boner during school bath... most probably everyone else will hav it too... u will be the odd one out if u dont hav a boner

MykeSoBe
July 2nd, 2009, 06:25 AM
Well so far I haven't had to take showers but I don't know if I will have to this upcoming year as a freshman. I really don't care about showers though. If you don't worry about getting erections and actually have a desire to get one, you won't get one; at least this seems to work with me. I've always wanted to get an erection in gym but I can never get myself aroused enough. But whenever you do get one, be proud of it.

YourFriend
July 2nd, 2009, 07:04 AM
we don't take showers in my school either, but anyways, try to focus your mind on anything that isn't erotic and good luck!

Giles
July 2nd, 2009, 09:29 AM
I'm not crazy about crowds to begin with (clothed or naked), and that keeps me from getting an erection. In four years of gym, I have only seen ONE erection on another guy.That's why I think all these stories about guys getting hard in the locker room are just fantasies

maybe the guys at ur school have tiny cocks therefore when they get an eerection u cant see it cos its soo small??

but yea every1 gets them if it happens try to hide it.

gone
July 2nd, 2009, 10:00 AM
Im so happy we dont have to take showers at my school :D , my advice is be quick and dont think about it..

confusedand14
July 2nd, 2009, 11:37 PM
every guy in my gym class I think got hard in the showers at least once. It's not a big deal, everybody understands and nobody makes a huge deal about them. Its not like people running around staring at your dick anyway, yeah you see each other, but its not like people are staring at them.

James18
July 3rd, 2009, 01:53 AM
The best advice I can give is to just think of other things. You're more likely to get aroused if you think about that stuff, so find a way to distract yourself!

kyle95
July 3rd, 2009, 03:02 AM
keep ur back to people mate and always carry a towel to cover his royal highness

toyota098
July 3rd, 2009, 07:32 AM
try to avoid looking at other boys. keep calm. And stay relaxed. If you don't think about getting a boner , you won't.

hot1243
July 25th, 2009, 10:47 AM
jerk off in the cubical/sitdown toilet

JimSauce
July 25th, 2009, 10:51 AM
If you ever do get a boner just turn away, remove yourself from the showers, or cover it with your clothes/whatever is accessible. You could always get some soap and pretend to wash it! :yes:

CestDan
July 25th, 2009, 01:26 PM
Well, you can think in other things except erotic things or something like that. Now, if you get it anyway, just hide it with a towel and think in something disgusting. Besides that, I think people will understand it, I mean, erections are completely normal.

jake_11
July 26th, 2009, 01:58 AM
Honestly it's never happened to me cause I just don't think about. Just don't think about it. Chances are that everyone is too worried about themselves to notice your boner anyway.

nick
July 26th, 2009, 06:56 AM
You should not be worried about getting a boner. There are a lot of people who get boners while in the changing/showering rooms at either your school/gym/pool. It is most likely that if you get a boner, others will also, but it is not uncommon whatsoever.

Be proud of who you are, and if you get a boner, it is just a boner. Just know that it isn't uncommon, for it happens to a lot of people, therefore, there is nothing to worry about.

every guy in my gym class I think got hard in the showers at least once. It's not a big deal, everybody understands and nobody makes a huge deal about them. Its not like people running around staring at your dick anyway, yeah you see each other, but its not like people are staring at them.

Good answers guys, +rep

They have it right, it happens sometimes and there's nothing you can do to change that. Just stay cool and dont worry about it, its just natural and its not going to freak anyone out or anything.

Awesome
August 2nd, 2009, 01:39 AM
Heres what I would do. Look at the wall or look up and think about something in your head that has nothing to do with sex. Not thinking about girls just something random.

trevor20800
August 2nd, 2009, 07:18 PM
dont worry. i dont care.

tanman
August 2nd, 2009, 11:36 PM
Yeah don't change in a stall. I usually just talk with a friend while changing about school and stuff, we always try to get in and out as fast as we can, try finding someone you can do that with and it helps.

rbodi325
February 22nd, 2010, 12:19 AM
yea, just dont look around, and dont think you are in public, just think that u r in ur house by urself, and dont imagine urself naked

pageplant77
February 22nd, 2010, 01:05 AM
Don't worry, everyone is nervous changing and showering with the other guys at first. Its completely natural and normal to be nervous. If you're nervous you'll get a boner, start out with just changing until you feel comfortable with that. And if you want to prevent getting a boner, than don't even think about the fact that your naked, count the tiles on the floor or sing a song in your head.

edogg
February 22nd, 2010, 02:01 AM
I have no problem getting a boner in the changing room. Everyone in there is a guy, its not like they have never seen a boner before.

steezypeezy
February 22nd, 2010, 10:12 PM
nobody at my school uses the showers so i dunno what to say about that
as far as changing, just keep ur eyes down and try not to stare, at least thats what i do