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Blazin
June 18th, 2009, 08:38 PM
First let me get started by saying my name is Chris, and i'm 16 years old. Lately I have been getting really sad, depressed, stressed, and mad about what I'm going to do with my life. I cant seem to figure out whats going on, I will just randomly start getting all tear eyed. For example, I was just sitting at my computer trying to come up with a web layout for a construction website, I got a bit stressed because I couldnt make it look good, then I just got this thought in my mind that I dont know what I'm going to do with my life and I started to get really really sad and tear eyed. Could anyone help, this really sucks.

byee
June 18th, 2009, 09:14 PM
Hi Chris, I'm Sam. Let me try to help.

It's not that uncommon when things go bad, for us to exaggerate that and overgeneralize and find that everything is going bad, present and future! I think that's what might be happening here.

Regain your perspective, recognize that being creative (as in settting up a website) isn't something you can necessarily turn on and off. Take a step back, do what you need to in order to regain your focus, and go back to it at a later time. And don't assume that this situation has any relevance for what you'll be doing as an adult. When the time comes, you'll make the 'right' choice and be good at it.

YourFriend
June 21st, 2009, 06:34 PM
A lot of teens get sad for not knowing what they are gonna do in their future, like me, i totally fucked up myself in school this year but my way of getting over is: i jsut think that i have 10 more years of fun before job xD