girl i like

[goku15]

there is this girl that i like. i've loved her since like 6th grade. (we're going into 11th grade). she knows that i like her but she gives me the "i only love you like a brother" crap. we've been best friends since 5th grade. i know that she'll feel the same way if she gives me a chance. how do i get her to go out with me? do i just go up to her and kiss her, do i take her out for a romantic night then kiss her (romanticly) at the right time, or do i just tell her that i love her? because she knows that i like her but i don't know if she know that i love her. what the hell do i do? i'm going crazy!!!!

[teenanx94]

ok dude, I'm in the same boat. I would love to go out with my best friend to but she would say no. my advice is to tell her how you feel and you never know, mabey she will say yes. good luck.

[guy16]

i am in the same situation too dude, i would tell her how you feel and who knows wat will happen... good luck man

[Giles]

tell her how you really feel, and if it doesnt work try and stay together (as friends).

[Lights]

Depends how you think she'll take it. If she's tactful, go for it, if she's tactless, rethink.

[bowlheadhere]

Dude, you just have to be honest. I mean, just tell her what she feels, and if she feels the same way, it will all just work out. I mean, if it gets all weird because you told her that, is she really a good friend? I understand if it gets weird for a second, but it shouldn't wreck your friendship.

Responding to how you can "get her to like you", I dont thnk you can. People are going to feel how they want to feel, and maybe it just wasn't so "right". (Don't get mad at me, just trying to tell the truth) But on the other hand, maybe she feels the same, and it will all work out for the better. But seriously, i wouldn't try and "change" her because that could just wreck the amazing friendship you already have.

Hopefully that helps... remember, (as cheesy as it sounds) honesty is the best policy.

[sebbie]

You have been friend zoned. She doesn't see you the same way you see her, and you can try to change that by telling her how you feel, but you are risking making things awkward between you both.

[timster]

i would have to agree with everything already said. I think they have covered it all, but just know that things might not go how you would like.

[Drivenbyjeter2]

i am in the same situation too dude, i would tell her how you feel and who knows wat will happen... good luck man

I tried that method! Didnt work, lost my chances with her, and now we're barely friends and barely talking now...worst choice i made...cuz now i lost hr as a friend also :(

In my opinion guys are the underdogs these days, and i wouldnt tell or her or try anything unless you know she likes you for sure.

[Oblivion]

Moving to R&D.

In my opinion, if she knows you well enough to love you like a brother, she knows you well enough to like you or not.
Plus, if you guys did go out, then broke up, your friendship would be pretty hard to keep together.

[zoom zoom]

You have been friend zoned. She doesn't see you the same way you see her, and you can try to change that by telling her how you feel, but you are risking making things awkward between you both.

not to put you down but whats life with out taking risks? Thats what i did,and it worked for me.

[sebbie]

not to put you down but whats life with out taking risks? Thats what i did,and it worked for me.

I did not say to him to tell her or not to tell her how he feels, I just suggested the possible outcomes, I will agree with what you say about life is taking risk, but we need to remember the gains from risks can be met by losses.