Coming out stories wat happened?

[Ladysman]

This is going to be a thread on your coming out story or maybe a friends:) they can be good or bad this is so ppl like me who havnt come out know what and what not to do heres some stuff you need to put in it ok where?(meaning the mall at home) ,how(meaning email face to face ect.) ,age of you(or friend),how did the parent sibling or friend react, was anyone else there ,what whould you change if you chould do it agian? And anytging else you like! Have fun!

Happy posting

[kitkat]

my parents took it fine the end

[Kei_]

So I came out to a group of my friends one day approximately a year ago, and they were all really caring and great. I got online the next day and I had an offline IM from another friend who at that time was at a different school saying "I need to talk to asap!"

so she called me a few days afterward and she asked me if what she had heard from one of our mutual friends was true (that I am a lesbian) (and I was fine with ashley accidentally slipping it, it's not like she'd say it to anyone else), and she was like, "OH THANK GOD, I'm not the only one!", so yes, we ended up coming out to each other. (She's bi.) We're now closer than before because we are both in our school's (tiny) GSA and we ate lunch together.

[Effie]

.... :|
My parents denied my gayness and my mom said I was simply very bisexual and accepting of myself. This pissed me off cuz I knew she just wanted me to be straight so I could get a dick up me and be pregnant with her grand baby. At least... thats how it made me feel. So I went on a rampage in determination to be straight... I got 3 boyfriends in one night .... jesus christ.... it was a mess to break up with them all.
My parents still deny me the right to say I'm gay which keeps my locked in my chaotic mind of brainwashing myself everynight trying to masturbate about penises. Honestly... it's really pathetic. It's even more confusing because now I'm arroused by nothing at all. Nothing I think of can turn me on. NOTHING!!!! I'm so not attracted to guys but I love my parents enough to put myself through denial about my feelings for girls.
*sigh*
And when I tried to explain to my mom that I thought I might be transgendered... she told me that's betrayal for me to become a guy cuz I'm her little "GIRL".... my parents aren't even christian or religous god damn it!! why must they deny me so well?

[Neverender]

.... :|
My parents denied my gayness and my mom said I was simply very bisexual and accepting of myself. This pissed me off cuz I knew she just wanted me to be straight so I could get a dick up me and be pregnant with her grand baby. At least... thats how it made me feel. So I went on a rampage in determination to be straight... I got 3 boyfriends in one night .... jesus christ.... it was a mess to break up with them all.
My parents still deny me the right to say I'm gay which keeps my locked in my chaotic mind of brainwashing myself everynight trying to masturbate about penises. Honestly... it's really pathetic. It's even more confusing because now I'm arroused by nothing at all. Nothing I think of can turn me on. NOTHING!!!! I'm so not attracted to guys but I love my parents enough to put myself through denial about my feelings for girls.
*sigh*
And when I tried to explain to my mom that I thought I might be transgendered... she told me that's betrayal for me to become a guy cuz I'm her little "GIRL".... my parents aren't even christian or religous god damn it!! why must they deny me so well?

Dont listen to your parents. Lying to them is usually the right thing to do. but in this case a believe its time for ANARCHY.

Actually, just dont listen to your parents. be who YOU want to be. they cant change that.

[mchboy1]

Ok, so Im not out completely yet. My parents and family do not know; only a select few of my "friends". Im not looking forward to it though because they black male me. They outed me to three people. But, my real friends are ok with it and are helping me with everything. I suggest trying to find someone who is going to be able to handle it well to start with. Then move forward slowly like I am. So far it is still up to me because we all straightened things out with the people my "friends" told. The good friends will be the most important detail to me.

[The Harlequin]

I'm seriously s***ing myself for when I have to tell my family I'm bi... Most likely they won't believe me and say it's just "a phase" (X^*

Or they'll think much less of me...
That's the real fear - I love my family so much, we're all so close but they are extremely traditional, and being the youngest I ALWAYS get plastered with the label of "Attention Seeker" but I genuinly have fallen for this guy and I don't know what to do...

I really should havestarted a new thread but I'm new to this and don't know how...
I'm 16 btw,

--The Harlequin

[nachtspiegel]

My mother wasn't very happy about me being bisexual, but she's getting over it. My oldest sister was fine with it. I've told several friends and they're fine with it. I've been told that I'm living in sin and going to hell, but I'm not religious, so I'm not bothered.
My dad, brothers, other sister, and numerous others still do not know.
I'm working on it.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

Um only the whole skool knows and thats about it, like no one in my family

[The Harlequin]

Only the whole school?! (X^.
What are they like about it, do you get treated differently to when you were in the closet?and are ya planning on tellin' your family soon or are ya gonna wait?

Soz, so many questions (:^}

-- The Harlequin

[sildavin]

When I found out I was Bi-sexual. it was hard to find the courage to tell..well, Anyone. I told my best friend Just last year, and he was totally Okay with it.. Now all of my friends know, But no one in my family knows, or will they ever know. lol. But all of my friends are totally okay with it. :yeah:

[The Harlequin]

Okay, update. I just came out as bi to my stepmother and then my father and they were fine with it. It's funny, I got up this morning and thought: 'Another day in the closet, JESUS it's dark in here...' etc. An then I got into a deep discussion with my stepmother, I danced around the issue for ages, but eventually I explained my orientation... In full - all the reasons I knew I told her about, and now I don't feel like a freak at all for having a crush on this guy who I'm pretty sure (here's to hoping) is gay or bi...

Ahhh....
Relaxing...

-- The Harlequin

[sam i am]

LOng story short i came out to some of my friends they told people and the whole 8th grade knows,teacher, and principal knows. ANd my life was living hell when i wnet back to school in jan and o i had cancer(now i have it again =(..) so it was fucking hell .....but its all good now every body except me for me im bisexual btw

[The Harlequin]

Harlequin's sympathies for anyone outed from the closet before they were ready....
(:^,

[ShatteredWings]

lol
Um.. well my closer friends... were like "well duhh you might've said the sky was blue"


Parents?
well let's put it this way
mom wants me to have kids...biological kids.. with a man...
and is obviously in denial that i don't want kids, and can't figure out why i don't have/want a boyfriend..

[The Harlequin]

lol
Um.. well my closer friends... were like "well duhh you might've said the sky was blue"


Parents?
well let's put it this way
mom wants me to have kids...biological kids.. with a man...
and is obviously in denial that i don't want kids, and can't figure out why i don't have/want a boyfriend..

Have you told her yet or just that you don't want kids? She might be upset about it but when you do try not to take it personally and just give her a while, I dunno if you're close but if you are she should come round to who you are and accept it,

Are you les or bi btw?

[ShatteredWings]

lol. like ..she won't its just how the woman is.
I'm fine with who i am.. it's that my parents wouldn't be.

[YourFriend]

omg i am so jeleus on all of you for having friends and families who accept your sexuality, if any one of my friends of family members knew.... i would be runied

[The Harlequin]

omg i am so jeleus on all of you for having friends and families who accept your sexuality, if any one of my friends of family members knew.... i would be runied

What makes you say that? Are they religious or just generally homophobic? Oh and are you bi or straight?