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wavey
June 17th, 2009, 03:58 PM
Our school is small and a population of girls is small, now im a lad, (obv) and we were all talking about lasses in class and i mentioned this one lass who was stunning and i thought she was attractive, so ppl are now taking the piss, theyve told her and so on, she aint talked to me so i dunno whats happening.. they know more than i do atm! so anyhow, i went on a trip with her class today and i didnt say nothing to her nor did she to me, the lads from my class didnt go so i was pleased, as wsoon as we got back they were really offensive to me saying, have u told her ur not interested and that im like, no because i dun fancy her. any how, i know theyre gonna torture her about it and that, i mean the first words i wanna say to her dont wanna be becasue sum twats in my class are acting up. .

I just wanna fucking move away to another school orin a year go to college where they aint going, fucking cant wait. their evil fucking minds cnat reach me there...

Lights
June 17th, 2009, 04:03 PM
Right my first suggestion to you is Act like nothings happened because this will make the bullies think that it's not getting to you which means they're not getting the action from you they want, hense they stop. Best advice I ever got =D

wavey
June 17th, 2009, 04:06 PM
That works well in a big class but when ur like, one of 8 ppl in ur calss its hard because ppl choose sides and im lone-wolfing atm...

Lights
June 17th, 2009, 04:07 PM
Do you have one particularly good friend? If so, stick with them & get them to support you all they can.

wavey
June 17th, 2009, 04:14 PM
when i think about it no..

but staff have recognised theyre picking on me and said if they keep doign it just say so and theyll sort it.. dunno..

Rogue27
June 18th, 2009, 08:08 PM
Just ignore them. It really works. My while entire grade hated me an people called me a bitch in the hall when they passed by, I took stand against a popular bully but they stopped an the bully is now my friend. Just ignore and it will pass. I am here to help if you ever want to talk about it.

byee
June 18th, 2009, 09:19 PM
Christopher!

If this lass is 'stunning' (great word, btw), then your pals have done you a huge favor by informing her about you and your feelings: They've taken the first step for you! Now, you need to go up to her and start talking, AND you have the topic! "Do you believe how immature those guys are?".

When life gives you lemons, Chris, make lemonade with them. Here's your chance.

wavey
June 19th, 2009, 02:30 PM
K sam, thanks..

:) i would but then, ughh, i really dont fancy her but she is gorgous. theres a nother lass i like but we're just friends maybe a lil more but not going out ofc..

:P im single for now til i get a good relationship going.. i dont even know the lass really who ppl think i wanna go with .. ;P

foof1
June 21st, 2009, 08:35 PM
you just shouldn't let the other guys know what you think

CairAndros
August 6th, 2009, 03:13 PM
I agree with Sam, play the bullies at their own game. If you start having a good relationship with this girl, as friends or more, then they will see that their plan has backfired and it will make them look immature and stupid. However, unless it gets really, really bad then don't go to staff, I made that mistake and it cost me big time. Sure it got the problem sorted but a good few people that I had friendships with steered clear of me for a while because they thought I might percieve some of their "Jokes" as bullying and therefore bring the staff down on top of them :/. Doesn't really help that I am very well respected by the staff either - to the point of some of them calling me Mr. Docherty - but that is a different story altogether.