A very weird dream about my Grandad

[Blofeld]

My grandad died about 4 years ago I remember going to his funeral .


Anyway last night I had a dream that all of my family went to the cemetery and my Nan brought this gold box with her and said she wanted to bury in his grave (he was already buried) so she got someone to dig up his grave (its making me sad just typing it) and when it was been dug up I saw my grandads leg in the grave then I woke up, It was just horrible and very upsetting :( and this dream just came out of the blew. :( And I don't want to talk about it to my family because I don't want to upset them so I came here.

[byee]

Awww....i'm really sorry for your loss, and I'm really sorry for that dream! I can understand why it's so unsettling. Thankfully, it was only a dream!

Dreams can mean a lot of things (depending on who you ask), but here's my take on yours: You're missing your granddad. The gold your nan was bringing might represent something 'precious' that's been left behind. Perhaps it's her, maybe it's you, or both of you.

Maybe there's something that's recently happened, something that's come up, some statement or something either about him, or nan, that's reminded you of his passing and your loss? Maybe you're also worried that she might die, too? Sometimes, things like that trigger difficult feelings which are hard, so they come out when we're asleep, when we're more realaxed and our natural defenses are down.

If that sounds about right to you, you might want to find out what triggered these feelings of loss and missing him, and try to address them. Maybe it means just sharing with your folks about missing him, maybe being with nan some, maybe just feeling a bit blue for a while.

They say that when someone we really love passes, they never really leave us. Maybe your dream is a reminder of those feelings.

[peaceloverugby]

First, I'm sorry for your lost, I know exactly how you feel.

I can't interpret dreams, but I can tell you this: listen to Sam, he's helped me before. He's good.

[Blofeld]

Thanks to both of you .


Yes I have been worried about my NAN she has been ill recently and her hearing is going (she has to get hearing aids) , Maybe that's what set it off like you said.


Thanks again.