No clue wats going on haha

[bmf719]

Im straight but I watch gay porn. I only do this wen i jackoff and then wen im done i hate to look at it and truthfully it kinda makes me sick haha. And sometimes i have to question myself or get to thinkin if im bi or wat. But at the end of the day i kno i want to be wit a woman nd never will have any emotions towards guys like i do with women u kno. I wud say that i only really look at guys or fantasize about them wen i jackoff then im done. And as stupid as this may be, i have been trying to get with this girl and this keeps coming into my head and in some way is causing me to not get to know her and u kno all the good stuf hahaa. If anyone can help me or has any opinions or nethin hit me up here or message me thanks. =]

[BuZzY]

i tought i was the only one experiencing these things ... and was kinda of afraid to post it ... and also when i am ready from jacking off i dont think about guys anymore or watch gay porn and immediately turn it off ... and kind of think about this girl ... or like miley cyrus haha ... i also identify myself as straight after all ... i think we might be curious ... or perhaps i think we are bi ... also i havent had any contact with girls ... i want to get with this girl but kind of reluctant in some way ... i think i maybe bi because i experimented with guys ... well i am still questioning about my sexual orientation ... look i have the same problem like this guy ... any help ?

thanks

[Serenity]

Moved to Teen Sexuality.

[MichaelAdams1993]

Ummm. Ok, most people are not completely gay or straight. There will always be a part of you that will probably be interested in the same sex. However, you say that you are emotionally attracted to women and want to be with one. Sounds like to me you are straight and it is just the time when things get confusing. Don't worry, you are completely normal. Just get through it and you'll have no trouble. You may just be feeding off of guys in the porn or simply subconciously comparing yourself with them. Again, don't worry, what you are experiencing is normal and I believe you are straight. So go get that girl.

[Skeln]

First, lets get some terms defined.

Straight-When someone has EMOTIONAL feelings for the opposite sex
Bisexual-When someone has EMOTIONAL feelings for the opposite sex and the same sex
Gay-When someone has EMOTIONAL feelings for the same sex

During puberty your hormones are raging and many are more conscious about their own bodies. With this in mind, I think that we find the same sex physically attracted because they have something on their bodies that we want on ours (e.g.-muscles, abs, etc.). Because of that, we find those things hot and thus are "physically" atracted to the same sex.

This could explain why you are turned on by gay pron, because you see things on there that you like. If you only have emotional feelings for girls, then you are most likely striaght and are just curious. I think you shouldn't bother with your sexuality just yet, because like I said your hormones are raging and so decisions like this are more difficult to decide. If you wait for your hormones to settle down, then you might find it easier to finally decide your sexuality.

[bmf719]

Thanks for ur guys's help i understand now nd feel much better haha

[pkid]

I totally have the exact same problem! And as far as I know, it should just be a phase/my harmones

[Edgehead1995]

maybe its anal porn you're into